Are makers faltering ? Or is it deliberate ? (DT Note pg. 11) - Page 7

Originally posted by: ria2794

People do fall out of love all the time without any reason. My boyfriend fell out of love with me within a 15 days trip.And we were in a happy relationship for 8 years before that.

My friend got engaged with girl whom he was engaged for 10 months , they went on road trip of 15 days and after coming back my friend announced break up by saying he can be good friend with her but they are not meant for each other .Today both are happily married with someone else and both has peacefully moved on in new life and new partner after breaking their engagement.

Better to break up if you are feeling attracted to someone else and it doesn't matter that you failed to understand reason why you are feeling attracted to third person. Most imp thing is you should always be in love with your partner after marriage.

Shaddi ka decision bahot soch samaj kar Lena chahiye or shaddi bhi soch samaj kar he karni chahiye. Agar mann mai 1% bhi doubt ho to nai karni chahiye shaddi .

7 wedding vows is more meaningful than ring ceremony.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

My friend got engaged with girl whom he was engaged for 10 months , they went on road trip of 15 days and after coming back my friend announced break up by saying he can be good friend with her but they are not meant for each other .Today both are happily married with someone else and both has peacefully moved on in new life and new partner after breaking their engagement.

Better to break up if you are feeling attracted to someone else and it doesn't matter that you failed to understand reason why you are feeling attracted to third person. Most imp thing is you should always be in love with your partner after marriage.

Shaddi ka decision bahot soch samaj kar Lena chahiye or shaddi bhi soch samaj kar he karni chahiye. Agar mann mai 1% bhi doubt ho to nai karni chahiye shaddi .

7 wedding vows is more meaningful than ring ceremony.

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Man, you cross all limits of blind Mishti bhakti.😆

You're trying to say that Veer is a bad human being because of such a small issue. You're talking as if he cheated on Mishti. Veer is 'not a good man' because he didn't tell his mother that Mishti does not like that ring? Seriously? That makes Veer a bad man?

Maybe Veer should officially become house-slave of Mishti, maybe then he'll become 'good' in your eyes.

Mishti was given a chance to choose the ring. Khud kuch bolegi nahi but no veer has to speak up for her. Tab submissive nahi hoti mishti? She had a chance to select. Not veer's fault.

Originally posted by: ria2794

I said he is not a good man. I never said he is a bad man.

If not being good means bad in your dictionary thent it's your problem. You seem to have lot of 10th century ideas about love and compatibility but these things don't work in modern day society. Individualism is the current truth.

For me he is a bad man who can't say up front that I am creating a facade.

My man should be able to tell that I am not being myself. Veer was ready to say that when misty didn't listen to his words and abused his friend but he never said that same words when misty tried to be over traditional and aagyakari for his family.

He is a hypocrite and i am ok with it. But don't tell me that he is a good man.

It's ok for her to create a facade? Ok for her to project false image? But still veer is bad cuz he is not saying anything? The man asked her and he is no antaryami either or not staying in her house too!

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

My friend got engaged with girl whom he was engaged for 10 months , they went on road trip of 15 days and after coming back my friend announced break up by saying he can be good friend with her but they are not meant for each other .Today both are happily married with someone else and both has peacefully moved on in new life and new partner after breaking their engagement.

Better to break up if you are feeling attracted to someone else and it doesn't matter that you failed to understand reason why you are feeling attracted to third person. Most imp thing is you should always be in love with your partner after marriage.

Shaddi ka decision bahot soch samaj kar Lena chahiye or shaddi bhi soch samaj kar he karni chahiye. Agar mann mai 1% bhi doubt ho to nai karni chahiye shaddi .

7 wedding vows is more meaningful than ring ceremony.

Originally posted by: ria2794

Veer knows that she is uncomfortable with something but he never tries to kno why she is uncomfortable with that thing. When in first episode Misty choose the ring given by his mother he knew that she did not want that ring. He gave her the ring which she wanted. But did he asked why she choose the ring given by his mother on first place. Why didn't he told that she don't need to choose that ring and he will tell his mother that misty wants other ring.

He was happy that misty put a facade in front of his mother. He himself wants someone who always do what his parents wish. Why didn't he question misty at that same time. Why misty is accepting that ring which she don't even want.

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Misty asks Veer's Mom to choose the ring on her own free wish. Veer's Mom denies but Misty insists. If Misty had a clear favorite on mind, she shouldn't have asked Veer's Mom to choose the ring in the first place, much less insist.

Originally posted by: ria2794

Did I ever said that Ruhan is best guy for her? I dont remember. My only arguement is veerr is not the one for her

Originally posted by: ria2794

But veer knew that she is compromising na then why didn't he told her that she don't need to do that when he came to give her that ring.

Originally posted by: anshvi

And my argument is if he isn't the right guy then Mishti should have found out before Ruhan's entry !

Now she herself is admitting that Veer is loving, caring and understanding but things have changed post Ruhan's entry