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sonal

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Posted: 6 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: sweetzzz
As per yesterday's and today's episode i felt Mishaan - selfless ; Pari - Selfish and Veer - self centered.
A difference of opinion!

Of course a difference of opinion

But i want to ask why u called veer self - centred...i want to listen ur POV regarding this

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sonal

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Posted: 6 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: surabhi01
one question why mishty did not went to meet veer when bua and dadi requesting her to talk to veer

but instead mishty ignore bua and dadi word and said if veer would have love me if he would have understand her

what does mishty mean by this if veer taking side of ruhaan with out being biased

that means he don't love u and understand u??

surbhi dear Mish has a right to make opinions o n others coz she is the Selfless FL...Veer is a robot who doesn't have feelings😆

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poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#33

Ruhaan can heal Mishti . Veer cannot. This is my prediction. We will see in the remaining episodes. MishVeer is not as normal a couple as Veer thinks.Mishti has lot of issues and insecurities.

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sonal

@SONAL30

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Posted: 6 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: poiu123
Ruhaan can heal Mishti . Veer cannot. This is my prediction. We will see in the remaining episodes. MishVeer is not as normal a couple as Veer thinks.Mishti has lot of issues and insecurities.

if mishti needs another man to heel her pain rather than her own fiance toh she has a very weak characterization sorry

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sweetzzz

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Posted: 6 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: SONAL30
Of course a difference of opinion
But i want to ask why u called veer self - centred...i want to listen ur POV regarding this

When we have always seen Veer to be perfect and caring, little things like he taking control of the situation when Mishti and Veer are together are going unnoticed. Every time Mishti wants to do something, he convinces her very easily to do what he likes.. He is a great guy, no doubt. but he wants everything happen his way, which is not practical always. Today again, since the situation went out of his control and when Ruhaan rejected to stay with him, he was again ONLY angry with Mishti because she isn't what he has always known. When his fiancee has reacted so strange, why couldn't he just sit with her and ask her what the problem could be?

We all know that the girls are brought up parent-less and they had to take up responsibilities quite early in their lives. Considering that, shouldn't he being Mishti's fiancee give her a benefit of doubt as to what was the reason for her outburst? He also knows that she is very protective of her siblings and she can't bear anything wrong happen with them. Which itself shows that the girl is responsible.

It can't always be about himself or how he thinks. He should think from the opposite side too. That's what i feel.

I am not against Mishveer, trust me. I have always said in my posts that if Mishti and Veer are in true love and understand each other, they should end up together. Else Veer would be the one to let go of Mishti to Ruhaan all happily. But today, i felt it was overboard from Veer. If he says that he hasnt seen this side of Mishti, couldn't Mishti also claim that she has never seen this side of Veer? We have never, right!

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poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: SONAL30
if mishti needs another man to heel her pain rather than her own fiance toh she has a very weak characterization sorry

She does not need . Nor will she ask for it. Ruhaan will do it himself.

She is not ready even to share her pain. Do you think she will even ask anyone to help her,?

He will do it like Aman of KHNh 😆

Edited by poiu123 - 6 years ago

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Indira

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Posted: 6 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: SONAL30
n what is the guarantee that ruhaan's family is like him...what if his family is worse than Veer's
U all r saying that mishti won't be able to run veer's house but at least she knows his family what about ruhaan...his family isn't even introduced yet...she has so many responsibilities to fulfill but what if ruhaan's family isn't going to be that much supported...at least veer's family is supportive towards her decisions...ruhaan's family is still no in picture n ruhaan diesnt even talk about them...chalo veer ko chodkar agar mishti ne ruhaan ko accept kar bhi liya aur kal ko mishti ki ruhaan ki family ka approval nhi mila then what
What if they don't want a DIL who left her own fiance for another man
So i don't get what's the point of saying mishti wont be able to adjust in veer's house...coz we don't know how is ruhaan's family
N regarding mishaan...i m not saying anything against them but i just posted my POV regarding MishVeer

I didn't say mishty wont adjust in veers house...radhika said it to pari...in the engagement episode ...and regarding ruhaans family...well we don't know ..maybe he's an orphan like mishty . But it's not really about the families ..it really is about the couple themselves and so far the writers are very subtly telling and showing us that veer is not the man for mishty. When I started watching the show I hadn't watched veer or ruhaans other shows..so there was no attachment to either...so I was neutral,,.but after a month of the show ...I don't get a connection for mishveer ...they are just not clicking ..veer just doesn't seem to have , do or say what mishty really needs...but we are just getting those feels from ruhaan..that he is the one for mishty..

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chicksoup

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Posted: 6 years ago

#38

All I can say is, if I were in Veer's place, I would understand how bad Mishti is feeling and that itself is her biggest punishment. She was in tears, came running down, it was her special day. Otherwise also, what is the point in twisting the knife further? !

I will not say Veer is not relatable, he is relatable as a guy who wants justice delivered and wants to get back for how Mishti insulted his friend. That's just it! There is no love there. If he loved her, he would say, ' Mish , I get it that you understood what exactly went wrong. I guess you know how wrong you were. I hope you sort this out. Go take rest, this will be okay, right? I trust you to make this right somehow, dear. '

How did Ruhaan know exactly how bad Mishti would be feeling about blasting him? How did he know? He put himself in her place saw it the way she saw it and wanted to console her. That doesn't have to be called love necessarily. That is great empathy ! He is simply a good human being who looks out for people like Ansh and Pari and can forgive Mishti especially because he just knows she is not a bad person.

About Ruhaan refusing to go away, firstly it made the situation less worse. The drift between Mishti and Veer would be wider if his friend had to be saved from Mishti 's temper tantrums. So whatever be the true intention , Ruhaan made the situation lighter. I'm sure Veer is still feeling apologetic about Mishti 's behavior and is not upset with Ruhaan at all, so we don't need to discuss the angle of Veer being ditched by Ruhaan. It doesn't look like that at all! He did everyone a favor by staying back and prevented the situation from escalating further.

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chicksoup

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Posted: 6 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: SONAL30
if mishti needs another man to heel her pain rather than her own fiance toh she has a very weak characterization sorry

What does that mean ? However harsh Veer is when she is genuinely sorry, Mishti has to accept it? ! Even if he just drives away in anger, when she is at her lowest and badly needs reassurance? What can she expect from him then? Couples are supposed to support each other emotionally even if they don't agree with each other. May be he will call her up to make sure she is fine.

Point is, I thought Veer was more mature and could handle Mishti better. Apparently not!