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poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

Abt concept, yup u r right, love is not everything. My point was when in a committed HAPPY RELATIONSHIP, u find someone better, it's ok to dump the committed person? If u r Happy in a relationship, u try fixing probs n accept flaws. Not break off.

Rest all abt serial I agree.

It's not about finding better or worse. If you fall in love with someone else while being in a committed relationship and you realise you do not love the person anymore or you have fallen out of love with that person you have every right to make a choice what will make you more happy. And if you stick to your old relationship just because of commitment, neither you nor your partner will be happy.

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Posted: 6 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

She is totally in love with him. She is romancing him cuz she loves him. That's why I don't understand mishaan angle. If something is amiss, they need to SHOW.

Whenever Mishti is with Veer, she seems stressed out trying to put her best efforts to please him or to match up to his efforts of making her feel special and all...and she is very much upset whenever she is not able to make him feel special and all. I think same applies to Veer.Mishveer are trying so hard to make their relationship perfect. These extra efforts, trying to be perfect and all are so stressful in long term. I never see any small fight between Mishveer. They two just compromise for each other rather than speaking to each other about their own point of views in a situation. I feel relationships don't work like this in long term.

It's so stressful.

As of now, whatever the way Mishaan are they are just so like themselves with each other. They fight, there are misunderstandings, there are apologies, comprimises and if at all Mishaan are going to happen then hope they will continue to be like this. I think their relationship will be more effortless.

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phoenix27

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Posted: 6 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: anshvi

Then again she knows that she is committed and in a happy relation...it is very normal to feel attracted to someone despite being in a relation but the right thing to do is either control and even talk to your partner...Mishti falling in love despite being in a relation with Veer seems wrong
If she feels that she has growing feelings for Ruhan then better clear this out with Veer and break off the alliance and then do whatever she wants to
But falling in love with someone else despite being in a relation is something that I don't root for coz right now Mishti is happy and writers haven't shown her struggling in her current relation or being unhappy or just going ahead with the alliance out of some sort of boundation but on her own will as she is in love with Veer as per Mishti herself
I never supported Kunal's love for Nandini for the same reason and here also I don't relate with Mishaan for the same reason coz in such situations the partner always suffers without any fault of his or her and i personally don't root for relations whose foundation is based on someone's heartbreak and pain

So you mean to say one should break relationship based on attraction? in that case one will be breaking relationship every season. One should try to mend one's relationship once one feel he is drifting apart instead of just breaking off on the basis of attraction. That I what I find misty doing she is doing everything one should do to get her concentrations back on her relationship. But if she fails to mend this she should break up with veer before telling Ruhan.

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@.SSSS.

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Posted: 6 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: Ruhi122

She is totally in love with him. She is romancing him cuz she loves him. That's why I don't understand mishaan angle. If something is amiss, they need to SHOW.

Yes.She is romancing him cause she needs to make him and herself feel that they are in relationship. That too a perfect one.😆

Mishti is so effected by her past that she feels that she has to make sure everything is perfect when she is in a relationship with guy otherwise anything can happen anytime. She doesn't want any gap between them. She even doesn't want to work, you know. This is all love😆

She is so desperately trying to love him is what I felt. And then one day she may realize she can't do this for entire life.

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anshvi

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Posted: 6 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: ria2794

So you mean to say one should break relationship based on attraction? in that case one will be breaking relationship every season. One should try to mend one's relationship once one feel he is drifting apart instead of just breaking off on the basis of attraction. That I what I find misty doing she is doing everything one should do to get her concentrations back on her relationship. But if she fails to mend this she should break up with veer before telling Ruhan.

No that is not what I meant! I said attraction is common and if that happens one either needs to control it or talk to the partner about it ...that is the best thing that can be done in my opinion coz like u said attractions come and go and if people keep getting attracted and breaking off their relations simply based on sparks and attraction then no marriage or a relation will ever survive

The moment one feels that his or her or feelings or juzbaat are going out of control then she needs to inform her partner, break up the alliance and then do whatever she wants (although it seems unfair if the partner didn't do anything wrong...here blame will definitely be on the one who breaks the commitment despite no fault of the partner )

If Mishti feels that she can no longer control her attraction and her growing feelings n juzzbaat for Ruhan then she needs to inform Veer and then break off the alliance post that she can do whatever she wants to

Like I said I don't root for MishAan cos I can't relate with those couples whose foundation is based on someone's heartbreak especially of that person who wasn't even at fault

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Gis...shakti

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Posted: 6 years ago

#36

Story ko aage badne dho...dekhthe hai kya hota hai...ab thak...veer-mishti in love...ruhaans one side love...paris one side love...arnavs one side love...future mai koi bhi jodi aayega..uske peeche ek reason bhi hoga..wait and watch

...if it is not a solid reason...we can critisise it...story ko unfold karne se pehale discuss karne se kya fayda...

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731627

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Posted: 6 years ago

#37

first of all why made such commitment when any one is not sure that he or she can keep commitment for whole life

mishty can go for new partner but before that she should break her relationship with old relationship

because if anyone make commitment to other person. the other person become so assure he or she believe that uske saath dhokha to bilkul nahi hoga because others person make commitment

but if anyone break commitment then other person who is so assure that our relationship will not break will veer surely hurt and shock

but at least mishty should have not make such commitment when she herself not sure about this

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poiu123

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Posted: 6 years ago

#38

At the time of making commitment Mishti was sure. At any later point if she is not sure, or she thinks she made a mistake she can make a choice.
There is no permanency stamp in any relationship.
Nor is someone forced to carry the burden of commitment. It's not true for Mishti only . It is true for anyone in real life. If at a later time Veer feels he made a mistake getting engaged and does not want to continue, he has every right to back off as well.

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