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😭 Finally, finally, it happened. Golden words indeed, Nandy. RANT ALERT!!!
I am hopping mad at Mauli today. Is my anger misdirected? May be. But, today, I am going to present a different facet of Mauli which I am seeing and not liking it. I know, the magnanimity of her character is so dazzling that we often forget that in her zeal to be magnanimous she really didn't care for the two people she should have cared the most👎🏼 In her efforts to do the right things with other people, she has forgotten that she has responsibilities towards the most important people in her life too🤢By being a do gooder, she had seen the two most important people as an extension of herself and crushed their individual feelings and jazbaats ( jazbaat has to make an appearance, afterall, show kounsa hain?)
First off, I again want to reiterate this. The show had made it appear to us that Ishaan is somehow responsible for Mauli to be doing this drama of ML ex's current wife. But let me tell you guys, IF Mauli didn't want to partake in this drama, nobody in this universe would have been able to make her do this. On the contrary, she would have resented every minute of her wedding/ pre-wedding rituals if Ishaan hadn't stepped in and postponed the rituals, when Radkhika, Dida are hurting. I am not blaming her. I am only highlighting what Ishaan did is in fact a favor to Mauli by not being controlling/ insensitive to her feelings. In effect, Ishaan put himself in her place and did what she intended to do, HELPED her make that decision. OK, air cleared now😃
Agreed, Radhika and Dida are important people in her life, they were her support system when she was going through troubled times. But what about Mishti? I am not asking her to pitch them against each other. Because Sandhya asked her to break ties with her parental figures, she doesn't think twice or stop to even contemplate, before she shatters Mishti's ties with only father she knew in her lifetime. Forget about Ishaan, she never cared a hoot about what his jazbaat would be telling him to sever all ties with his daughter😡😭But what about Mishti? Keeping her own motherly figures in her life is more important than keeping her child's father who was a stable, secure influence in that child's life? Which mother prioritizes her own relationships with people over those of her child's?😡👎🏼 I am not saying she should have complied with Sandhya, but there is also a middle ground of talking it over with Ishaan, which she never cared to do. And we knew how the child acted out her angst after that😭.
Again, look at this scenario. She agonized and resented every word, every action of Sandhya that made Radhika and Dida look as outsiders. I agree, it is not a warm, fuzzy feeling. She wants Radhika, Dida in her life as her motherly figures. I won't contest that one bit. But what about Ishaan? He sent his mother out of the house, to make his house conducive for the children who are now homeless ( I will only say Pari is homeless, Mishti is his, so she has a home ). Why does she not inquire even once about his mother? Isn't your husband's mother important for you? I am not saying she has to love her as she does Radhika, that is an altogether different dynamic. But for the sake of Ishaan, isn't it her duty to find out how his mother took to all of these happenings? She should know that Sandhya wouldn't have agreed willingly to all the drama. I may not be in LOVE with my MIL, but as my husband's mother, I give her the due respect and my attention. Certainly, you would care about your husband's relationship with his mother, at the very least, you don't want to be the reason for your husband estranging himself from his mother ? Won't you? On one hand, it is important for her to keep her own motherly figures in her life, but doesn't care one iota for her future husband's relationship with his mother, when she knows she is responsible for that break. DON'T YOU THINK IT IS HYPOCRITICAL? 😡👎🏼💔
I didn't like the remark of " if only I didn't come here, ML xyz wouldn't be in a bad condition". Even if you feel it for yourself, how does the other person feel about that? For example, I took husband out for dinner on his birthday, we come home to find a kitchen sink leaking and a big mess, if I said, I should have never taken you out, I would have caught this debacle on time😡👎🏼What does the poor guy supposed to feel? Doesn't that completely negate whatever nice thing I tried to do for his birthday? Jazbaat toh other people ko bhi hote haina?
I am not even going to say, her calling out the ex's name while with Ishaan😡That is not stuff for the fainthearted. Nobody would ever be able to take that blunder, no matter what. She felt badly when the ex-guy changed his password on his phone? Compare that to this one and you will understand the scale of this blunder. Now, she came to her senses, the ex is raging and being quite unreasonable with Ishaan, she doesn't step in. Yes, she is worried about an exploding brain, but she doesn't reassure a shattering heart 😭with her repeated mis-steps, blunders, oversights etc. etc. etc. Not even once, a word or an act of reassurance ( I may be exaggerating here, but I didn't find any that were significant or worth remembering ).
So, finally, enough is enough, for Ishaan. LEAVE HIM ALONE. 2 days ago, after watching all of the ML ex's drama of blaming Mauli as he is living through his divine love, I was also skeptical about what is to come, especially when Ishaan's leave me and give ex a chance. But now, I don't find that advise as too contrived. Despite everything Ishaan had heard from the ex's mouth, he now knows the care and concern she is showing, her repeatedly prioritizing that family, Pari, they, every single one of them, except Mishti, effectively made him feel like an outsider. He comes to the conclusion, that despite all of this, they are a family, Mauli doesn't give him any clues or reassurance to think otherwise, he feels that it is only the obligation of a promise that keeps her with him, so he is setting her free and again trying to help her with her decision " give cheater another chance", as this is what he feels she wants.
I also felt the same way about her, especially if she is doing " eenie, meenie, mynie, moe" with Ishaan and cheater ex. I would say, LEAVE ISHAAN ALONE and deal with your jazbaats, feelings, responsibilities etc. For Ishaan also, not worth this relationship where he factors NO WHERE in her life, other than as a helper😭His heart will shatter for his daughter though😭Not sure what Mishti feels💔
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