Emotions, Ethics & Freedom - Page 4

Originally posted by: -poloenigma-

I don't know about the endgame but from the episodes that I have seen, I don't see Mauli being in love with Kunal. There's no longing, there's nothing. Yeah they did have their light moments together. Yeah Mauli did dream about their moments together. But at the end of the day we are forgetting that those memories are an ILLUSION.

This Kunal is not real. These memories are not real. The idea of a happy family with Kunal and those memories were not real. It was an act. Kunal doesn't remember anything. His affair. His kid Pari. Nothing. Mauli loved Kunal true and she did dream about her being happy with Kunal but at the end of the day, that isn't real.

Each and every moment that she's spending with Kunal is not authentic, because this Kunal doesn't remember 6 years of his life.

On the other hand, every moment spent with Ishaan is real. Every feeling is real. The emotions are real. Ishaan is her reality. When she's with Ishaan, she's her real self. Her authentic self. Ishaan knows everything. She knows that he loves her. Today Sweety said that Ishaan loves Mauli with the same intensity that Mauli had when she loved Kunal. But we are forgetting that Mauli is not Kunal. Ishaan is not Mauli.

I still don't know who Mauli is going to choose but if we think logically, once Kunal's memory comes back what will Mauli do? Is there any time for them to develop the love between Mauli and the real Kunal? The apology? The complications of his feelings for Nandini and Mauli? Do makers have the time to cover all that in one episode?

On the other hand we have MauHaan, where their relationship is already developed. Ishaan has opened up his heart for her. She knows that. Only Mauli's feelings are not known and for that we have to watch Monday's episode. Sweety stressed about Mauli never saying 'I love you' to Ishaan. Why did she say that? We'll get to know Monday.

Originally posted by: Squadmishali

Yes Monday shall bring clarity ,but my point here majority of you are missing is why couldn't makers explore the third Angle that's freedom . Freedom from romantic attachment for Mauli .Give her an independent free life.

because they want to give Mauli the joy of a happy married life. Mauli enjoys marriage and she wants it...that's why she got married in the first place ..if she wasn't into marriage she wouldn't have married Kunal. Any anyway Ishaan is such a great guy, he's a terrific father to mishty...and fathers are important in children's life and he's attractive and successful, a good honest decent man, and they have decided to make Mauli fall in love with him, and enjoy a married life and yes enjoy having another baby. Remember the first time around Mauli was abandoned and thrown away by her first husband when she was pregnant ..she had to go through the whole pregnancy sad and alone ..with no partner to share it with..so they have decided to give her the joy of another pregnancy with a wonderful husband by her side. So basically they are trying to erase all the pain and hurt Kunal gave her with all the joy and happiness that Ishaan is going to give her now.. So it will be a happy ending for Mauli ...I think this is what Shakti said in the interview according to some posts here...A happy ending ..😊

Originally posted by: Indira1211

because they want to give Mauli the joy of a happy married life. Mauli enjoys marriage and she wants it...that's why she got married in the first place ..if she wasn't into marriage she wouldn't have married Kunal. Any anyway Ishaan is such a great guy, he's a terrific father to mishty...and fathers are important in children's life and he's attractive and successful, a good honest decent man, and they have decided to make Mauli fall in love with him, and enjoy a married life and yes enjoy having another baby. Remember the first time around Mauli was abandoned and thrown away by her first husband when she was pregnant ..she had to go through the whole pregnancy sad and alone ..with no partner to share it with..so they have decided to give her the joy of another pregnancy with a wonderful husband by her side. So basically they are trying to erase all the pain and hurt Kunal gave her with all the joy and happiness that Ishaan is going to give her now.. So it will be a happy ending for Mauli ...I think this is what Shakti said in the interview according to some posts here...A happy ending .. 😊

Originally posted by: looseseal

Well said Indira.

Also why is freedom only linked with love?

What about freedom to make SENSIBLE DECISIONS?

Why are we reducing Mouli to juzzbati individual, which she clearly isnt. Mouli has always been thoughtful, for others as well as for herself. Everytime when.she has had to make a decision she has made RIGHT decision, not emotional one: be it aslking for divorce, thinking about giving kunal the second chance and ultimately deciding she doesnt need Kunal to raise a baby

Why cant Mouli now think: so, here is a guy I loved immensely. I gave my all but it wasnt enough for him. He left me, not just alone but also broken. HOW CAN I TRUST HIM NOW?

Why cant Mouli think: i gave juzzbaat wala love. Now I want stability. I want support and love and respect and affection...

For me this is exactly what Mouli is doing. he is finally in a relationship where she is comfortable and safe. Why isnt this good enough?

Originally posted by: Squadmishali

Absolutely and it's perfectly fine as well...its completely Mauli's choice and decision.. There are different ppl some may love once, some may give chance to love again...But again as you said she is comfortable and safe ,she isn't in love... As I mentioned ppl can be happy with or without love as without love also you get habituated to your life partner . .

I think Mauli is in love with Ishaan and we will get her confession, they haven't given it yet because obviously they want to keep the suspense going. We look at the 2 things regarding Kunal that she did ...call Ishaan by his name and dream about Kunal and the kids .And assume that she loves Kunal. Look at the many things that she's doing for Ishaan,..she's desperately trying to arrange a romantic date with him, she's buying him gifts and flowers, she's lying to Kunal so she can meet Ishaan, she hugs Ishaan and looks into his eyes, she calls him Ishaan mauli shrivastav and he calls her Mauli Ishaan Khanna...they entwined their names together , she thinks about him all the time , she worries about him if he's going to be hurt, yesterday she was concerned if he had eaten..that is LOVE..Mauli does love him and we will hear it. Yes they haven't shown her falling into bed with him..because she has morals ..she has a daughter to set an example for ..so they've shown no bedroom scenes..but mauli said to sweety that it Is not a compromise ..so she will have a proper marriage with Ishaan..and that baby boy is going to come soon so we will know that everything is great with them in that department ...Kunal,and nandu were all over each other , they slept together at Maulis brothers wedding and viewers hated It ..because people dont want to see immorality like that in tv., they showed Mauli and Kunal bedroom scenes becAuse they were a married couple and they also wanted us to see that even though everything was fine between them in the bedroom he still couldn't wait to jump into bed with another woman..because they have portrayed Kunal with very poor morals . But Mauli and Ishaan are morally correct people so they haven't written them like that. But I'm pretty sure they are going to surprise us with some very romantic Mauli,and Ishaan scenes post marriage to,show us that they have a happy fulfilling marriage because physical intimacy together with love is important in a marriage as well...So I don't think Mauli and Ishaan are going to have just a comfortable sort of relationship..they will have their sparks abd chemistry as well,..they just haven't shown us that yet,.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I think Mauli is in love with Ishaan and we will get her confession, they haven't given it yet because obviously they want to keep the suspense going. We look at the 2 things regarding Kunal that she did ...call Ishaan by his name and dream about Kunal and the kids .And assume that she loves Kunal. Look at the many things that she's doing for Ishaan,..she's desperately trying to arrange a romantic date with him, she's buying him gifts and flowers, she's lying to Kunal so she can meet Ishaan, she hugs Ishaan and looks into his eyes, she calls him Ishaan mauli shrivastav and he calls her Mauli Ishaan Khanna...they entwined their names together , she thinks about him all the time , she worries about him if he's going to be hurt, yesterday she was concerned if he had eaten..that is LOVE..Mauli does love him and we will hear it. Yes they haven't shown her falling into bed with him..because she has morals ..she has a daughter to set an example for ..so they've shown no bedroom scenes..but mauli said to sweety that it Is not a compromise ..so she will have a proper marriage with Ishaan..and that baby boy is going to come soon so we will know that everything is great with them in that department ...Kunal,and nandu were all over each other , they slept together at Maulis brothers wedding and viewers hated It ..because people dont want to see immorality like that in tv., they showed Mauli and Kunal bedroom scenes becAuse they were a married couple and they also wanted us to see that even though everything was fine between them in the bedroom he still couldn't wait to jump into bed with another woman..because they have portrayed Kunal with very poor morals . But Mauli and Ishaan are morally correct people so they haven't written them like that. But I'm pretty sure they are going to surprise us with some very romantic Mauli,and Ishaan scenes post marriage to,show us that they have a happy fulfilling marriage because physical intimacy together with love is important in a marriage as well...So I don't think Mauli and Ishaan are going to have just a comfortable sort of relationship..they will have their sparks abd chemistry as well,..they just haven't shown us that yet,.

That is what I have been saying if Mauli doesn't love Ishaan she can be single. Marriage is not everything. As for going back to Kunal , if she is ok living her life as Kunal's second choice then what can I say other than that I hoped she had more self respect than that. The way Kunal left Mauli wasn't only ethically wrong it was emotionally wrong as well. Since he was emotionally and sexually involved with Mauli for 7 years and then just threw her away. So it was both ethically and emotionally wrong. Mauli not being able to love Ishaan is not ethically wrong however her being indecisive and leading on Ishaan is.

Originally posted by: Squadmishali

How is he addicted to nandini? As far as I or I'm sure majority of viewers see his world revolves around only and only Mauli ...

how does his world revolve around Mauli? Real Kunal's and not memory loss Kunal. And who are these majority viewers?

he remembers the moment he fell in love with Nandini even in his ML phase. One of his first memory.And he had such feeling attached to it that he thought it was Mauli. And after he heard her video he called Mauli a selfish friend.

Originally posted by: Squadmishali

Ya let's see actually this ML track made no sense if ultimately it's Mauhan, they were as it is getting married. Just to drag for month, god knows y Gajra included ML track 😊...if it was Mauhan unka ache se explore karte y so hush hush now

Kunal is the main lead of this show...and maunal fans were very upset about not seeing Shakti and Aditi in the same frame for such a long time...so they created this track to show them together but i think it was also for us so see that Mauli no longer wants to Kunal. Mauli hasn't had one moment of weakness., remember she loved Kunal very much. And even after the Ema she tried to get him back ..before he accused her of lying about her pregnancy..even post leap..in the camp track she thought if she had told him the truth about mishty they could have had a chance ...even when got drunk she asked him why he spoilt everything and she's scared that she may start loving him again..but then she came back and reality set in, . I think now she's complete moved on..and it's only happened in the last few weeks ..and the ML sealed it,..when she realized that even with his memory loss Kunal still remembers nandu and what he loved about her..saree, earrings , kheer , beauty...it seems shallow ...but that's how they've written Kunal ...Anyway even though Mauli is sleeping in the same bed as him and he's tried to get close to her she hasn't wanted to ...so she doesn't want him anymore,.just like how when he fell in love with nandu he didn't want Mauli anymore ..now she doesn't want him anymore.,And I think it's time we realized that his relationship with nandu was not an Ema..yes it started as an Ema ...but it went far beyond that ..he divorced Mauli,and he married nandu. He is nAndus husband ..she's his second wife and the mother of the child he adores..and he lived happily with nandu until her death...this is what has been indicated in the show..