Ok point by point 😊
Like I said Ishaan is a lot like Mauli .Like how Mauli is with Kunal ,Ishaan is like that with Mauli. Like how Mauli kept running after Kunal begging him to come back while Kunal continually insulted her on her face and how post leap Mauli was like I am sorry I hid my pregnancy from you and Kunal was like ya fine i forgive😆 without even acknowledging that he was wrong as well. Mauli wasn't wrong here she didn't need to apologize but well she did same is with Ishann. He is running after Mauli even though she isn't reciprocating his love with the same intensity , he is apologizing when he isn't wrong. I don't dislike either of them for that. Its their characters , they love so selflessly that they don't think about themselves. But even for selfless people there needs to come a point when one thinks about themselves and stand up for themselves .Its a beautiful character arc. Like Mauli finally thought about her self and kicked Kunal out by not telling him she isn't pregnant , in same way I hope that moment comes for Ishaan. as well. Kunal is some one who doesn't apologize or even acknowledge when he is wrong 😆 whereas Mauli and Ishaan are the opposite. And all 3 need redemption in that respect.Kunal needs to acknowledge his mistakes and start to redeem himself and Mauli and Ishaan need to start standing up for themselves.
Ok now regarding Ishaan apologizing to Mauli for sending her to Kunal hmm he did that for Pari right as that 4 year old needs her father back. Asking Ishaan to apologize for that is like saying Mauli should apologize for bringing Nandini home and allowing Nandini and Kunal to grow closer.I don't think so.At least I don't think so that people should apologize for doing good and selfless acts.The problem here is for whom are you doing? are you doing it for some one who deserves it or some one who doesn't? Does Kunal deserve a selfless act from Ishaan ? May be no. But Pari does deserve.Did Nandini deserve all that Mauli did for her ? Yes atleast at that time but now if we look back do we still say she deserved it ? I really don't know that is another debate.My point being good and selfless acts are not to be apologized for .Its just that we should be careful that we should be selfless for people who deserve it.
I don't know what camp track has to do with my post but all I will say is what I have always said and in bold for Maunal to happen primary weight of expectation is on Kunal and not Mauli .Kunal cheated on Mauli, lied to her, said horrible things to her,insulted her on her face in front of Nandini, threw divorce papers on her face, made love to Nadini while Mauli was all broken, had a kid with Nandini and didn't care if Mauli was alive or dead for 7 years. Hence Kunal needs to take steps or decisions to rebuild Maunal and not Mauli .Mauli is the victim here hence expectation should be from the person who destroyed the relationship. Kunal's one act of helping Ishaan doesn't erase all of the above. Let kunal first redeem himself ,at least accept that he never loved Nandini and it was always loved Mauli. Then Mauli can find out about how Kunal helped Ishaan and make a decision. I am sorry I don't accept women to always cary the burden even though she is the victim.Let Kunal redeem himself for all the horrible things he did then we can talk about his one good act.
And you want Ishaan to apologize to Mauli for taking Kunal's help but not Kunal for all the horrible things he did😆? hmm ok I literally don;t know what to say.What Kunal did and what Ishaan did are not even comparable in my opinion. Like not even close.
I do agree with you that I wish they would have written Ishaan more in a layered way. It would have been more interesting. More complexity and more realism would have been great. But like some one said ,EMA is divine, that is the mental level of the writers of this show.😆 I don't expect any well written character from them.
Any one should stand up for themselves if they are hurt.That is my point. Mauli has been loyal and truthfull but Ishaan is feeling hurt at places, completely unintentional from Mauli's POVs.Any person should not avoid it. All I am saying is that he needs to stand up for himself and tell Mauli that he is feeling hurt. Mauli's explanation can very well be what you are saying that Ishaan was the one who sent Mauli and Mauli didn't want to do that in the first place. Let her explain that. My point only is that Ishaan should ask and Mauli should explain. Rather than just sweeping it under the carpet.
See I do agree Ishaan should tell the truth but what I don't agree is why there is no expectation from Kunal? Why not expectation from him to acknowledge,apologize and redeem himself and prove himself worthy of Mauli for all the horrible things he did. For me both should happen. Kunal should redeem and Ishaan should tell the truth. And frankly with 10 episodes left if need to give priority to one these two it will be Kunal should redeem himself,Because for me there is absolutely no comparison between what Kunal did and what Ishaan did .None. Zilch. Hence i am saying let Kunal first acknowledge,apologize and redeem himself. Then we can talk about rest of the stuff.
[/Quote]
Note - We are discussing Ishaan here and whenever we have discussed Kunal, everyone has said that in Maunal's case all expectations are from Kunal not from Mauli and even if you give time to read the discussion in Maunal AT, You will see people there are genuinely happy for Mauli's marriage, they don't really care if Mauli marries Kunal or not, so if Kunal does not apologize or repent his EMA, Maunal is non existent, I have said it time and again...
The primary problem here is that people compare Ishaan with Kunal, Ishaan is good for Mauli because kunal is bad, I don't see it that way.. For me Ishaan has to be good for Mauli, now there's a huge difference between a good human being and a good husband...
For me a good husband would be a man who wouldn't ask his wife/fiance to live with her ex husband who cheated on her, when she is literally crying in front of him saying it's difficult for her... Good human caring about Pari...of course but a good husband/ fiance...No
I genuinely liked Ishaan before he took Kunal's help, you can read my post before that track, I expected Ishaan to tell Mauli the truth before starting a new life, but he is yet to tell her, in their relationship Mauli doesn't hide anything from him, she tells him everything... She has always been upfront and no nonsense about their relationship...
About Nandini and Mauli.. Mauli brought Nandini at her home, she helped Nandini in her capacity, apologize to whom? In Ishaan's charity on Kunal, it's Mauli who has to face her past, now a woman who says that living with Kunal is a torture, Ishaan's primary concern should be Mauli. .. He is good... He can be Nobel peace prize winner for all I care, Mauli should be his first priority, not Pari or Kunal and if he is interested in charity, he should do it in his capacity, because he is not doing anything, in his charitable conquest Mauli is being tortured as she said... So he apologized when he wasn't even wrong because of course nice guy but he won't apologize where he was wrong...
Cricket
