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Posted: 6 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: amirthaa


Each persons point of view differs,,I appreciate urs too...

But according to me it takes a much stronger person to forgive and forget. Offcourse, mauli deserves more...She is a gem...But sometimes we have to be in her point of view and think, That girl was madly in love with kunal even after what all he did to her...That love needs reSpecet...

If maunal happens, Simply i can say only one think...
Mauli's love will win but mauli can loose...If develops feelings for Ishaan, Good for her..


mauli's love will win ?
Her love was nothing.


If kunal had left nandini and pari for mauli and mishti only that can come somewhere near to may be mauli forgiving kunal.


Repent and all would have looked good only if nandini was alive.
Now it will be like ...i have lost my love so i am coming back to you.
Is that so hard to understand ?

If nandini would have been alive kunal would have still maintained that nandu and pari makes his family and life complete.




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Posted: 6 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: chirpyhapibird


mauli's love will win ?
Her love was nothing.
If kunal had left nandini and pari for mauli and mishti only that can come somewhere near to may be mauli forgiving kunal.Repent and all would have looked good only if nandini was alive.
Now it will be like ...i have lost my love so i am coming back to you.
Is that so hard to understand ?
If nandini would have been alive kunal would have still maintained that nandu and pari makes his family and life complete.


After producing a child with Nandini if he says he never loved Nandini or he still loves Mauli...it will be double EMA and insult to both Mauli and Nandini. At least now he is loyal to one woman ...then he will do cheating to both the women. He will prove that he is a double kamina.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7


After producing a child with Nandini if he says he never loved Nandini or he still loves Mauli...it will be double EMA and insult to both Mauli and Nandini. At least now he is loyal to one woman ...then he will do cheating to both the women. He will prove that he is a double kamina.


yes too much has happened ...it would be ridiculous for Kunal to say nandu was a mistake ..then pari was also a mistake ..his marriage with nAndu for so many years was a mistake ..then that would mean that he just lusted after nandu..no I don't think we will get something ridiculous like that..because that will lower kunals character even more. Nandu and pari were his world..he better get his memory back and remember them and then get out of Mauli and Ishaans life 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: amirthaa


Each persons point of view differs,,I appreciate urs too...

But according to me it takes a much stronger person to forgive and forget. Offcourse, mauli deserves more...She is a gem...But sometimes we have to be in her point of view and think, That girl was madly in love with kunal even after what all he did to her...That love needs reSpecet...

If maunal happens, Simply i can say only one think...
Mauli's love will win but mauli can loose...If develops feelings for Ishaan, Good for her..

I just don't agree with this😆 Because that is what the show is trying to say.Jazbaat Jazbaat hotein hain 😆.Why do we hate on Kunnu? We can say Kunnu was madly in love with Nandini despite being married and that love should be respected

Kunal's love should win even if Kunal the husband loses.

I am sure no one will agree with the above then why Mauli.

Love without a moral conscious is selfishness

Loving some one who doesn't deserve it is de valuing your self respect

If writers want to show Mauli as some one who loves Kunal despite all the humiliation (not cheating) but despite the complete and utter humiliation, Kunal made her go through. then no that love doesn't deserve respect just like Kunnu's love for Nandini doesn't deserve respect.

Just like Kunnu was a cheater ,selfish jerk , Mauli would be some one who de values her self respect and is short selling herself.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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i totally disagree with you. if she ends up with ishaan it's just as regressive as if she were to go back to kunal. she doesn't love ishaan. marrying him would be for the sole purpose of giving misti a father and creating a family for herself and misti so that it would look better in society. if she is going to go with the whole " samajh kya kehenge" then how is the progressive ? at least if she went back to kunal it wouldnt be on the basis of society telling her to take him back but because of her unresolved feelings for him. i think the best option for her at this point is to find a place for her and misti to live in and start a new life from there. i never agreed with her staying with radhika / deeda after kunal left because they were HIS responsibility, not hers.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

i totally disagree with you. if she ends up with ishaan it's just as regressive as if she were to go back to kunal. she doesn't love ishaan. marrying him would be for the sole purpose of giving misti a father and creating a family for herself and misti so that it would look better in society. if she is going to go with the whole " samajh kya kehenge" then how is the progressive ? at least if she went back to kunal it wouldnt be on the basis of society telling her to take him back but because of her unresolved feelings for him. i think the best option for her at this point is to find a place for her and misti to live in and start a new life from there. i never agreed with her staying with radhika / deeda after kunal left because they were HIS responsibility, not hers.


If they show her marrying Ishaan, it will be because she loves him. Writers are hinting it, the only thing left is Mauli confessing it and hearing it from the horses mouth.
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Posted: 6 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

Marrying Ishaan = Progressive?

How?


exactly, i cant see how ending up in another loveless marriage is progressive ?
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Posted: 6 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0


exactly, i cant see how ending up in another loveless marriage is progressive ?


Progressive and regressive are cool words, but generally not used correctly.. It is a subjective matter, every relationship is different...

Nandini forgiving Rajdeep for rape and domestic violence = Regressive

Because forgiving a rapist or a murderer is not an option, it's not even upto her, there's no option of a rapist changing because he has already committed a crime, he should be punished for a crime ..


Cheating is not a crime, Kunal is not a habitual cheater, forgiving Kunal or not is upto Mauli...

Mauli can forgive Kunal and marry Ishaan because she loves him, Mauli can forgive Kunal and be with him because she loves him... There's nothing progressive or regressive here, it's upto Mauli, it's her choice to make...

If she marries Ishaan it will be because she loves him, she was marrying him for Mishti but in the end I think that will change ..

If Mauli marries Kunal, she won't accept a cheater, she is not accepting his cheating, she will accept a man who regrets leaving her and she believes has changed ..

So in Maunal endgame...Kunal will apologize and repent

In MauHaan endgame Mauli will confess her love..

There's nothing progressive or regressive in both relationships
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

i totally disagree with you. if she ends up with ishaan it's just as regressive as if she were to go back to kunal. she doesn't love ishaan. marrying him would be for the sole purpose of giving misti a father and creating a family for herself and misti so that it would look better in society. if she is going to go with the whole " samajh kya kehenge" then how is the progressive ? at least if she went back to kunal it wouldnt be on the basis of society telling her to take him back but because of her unresolved feelings for him. i think the best option for her at this point is to find a place for her and misti to live in and start a new life from there. i never agreed with her staying with radhika / deeda after kunal left because they were HIS responsibility, not hers.


You are not understanding the situation properly.
1)Mauli loves Ishan. So that shadi will not be loveless.
2)On the other hand she hates Kunal now. She mentioned Ishan that kunal makes her feel uncomfortable.
3( She was angry at Mishti, Pari and Ishan because they took Kunal to his house. Reason she thought this will delay his memory come back. She wants his memory back as soon as possible.
4) If she loved Kunal she would let it happen in the hotel. Did she?
5) More than anything Kunal doesn't love Mauli.
6) Kunal saw a dream of Nandu even in memory loss. He brought exact saree for Mauli, thinking it was Mauli. He was forcing Mauli to wear that saree. If Mauli was a |witch" who wants to get Kunal by hook and crool or a despo or a doormat to take anything Kunal gives...she would accept that offer. But what did she say"Are you sure ...it was me?" Did you see her expression?...It was lil bit of hate and taunting.
7) When Kunal went to his house he saw all the memories of Nandini. Nandini is in his mind and heart...he loves her only.


When Kunal doesn't love Mauli and Mauli doesn't love Kunal...why will they marry each other? Woh bhi when Kunal is suffering from memoryu loss. He will hate Mauli if she marry him now. And why will a self suffivient woman like Mauli will be a shoe dust to a guy who doesn't love her anymore?
Mia Biwi koi bhi raazi nehi...toh kaun sa payar or kaun sa shadi???
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Posted: 6 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: jhalak7


You are not understanding the situation properly.
1)Mauli loves Ishan. So that shadi will not be loveless.
2)On the other hand she hates Kunal now. She mentioned Ishan that kunal makes her feel uncomfortable.
3( She was angry at Mishti, Pari and Ishan because they took Kunal to his house. Reason she thought this will delay his memory come back. She wants his memory back as soon as possible.
4) If she loved Kunal she would let it happen in the hotel. Did she?
5) More than anything Kunal doesn't love Mauli.
6) Kunal saw a dream of Nandu even in memory loss. He brought exact saree for Mauli, thinking it was Mauli. He was forcing Mauli to wear that saree. If Mauli was a |witch" who wants to get Kunal by hook and crool or a despo or a doormat to take anything Kunal gives...she would accept that offer. But what did she say"Are you sure ...it was me?" Did you see her expression?...It was lil bit of hate and taunting.
7) When Kunal went to his house he saw all the memories of Nandini. Nandini is in his mind and heart...he loves her only.


When Kunal doesn't love Mauli and Mauli doesn't love Kunal...why will they marry each other? Woh bhi when Kunal is suffering from memoryu loss. He will hate Mauli if she marry him now. And why will a self suffivient woman like Mauli will be a shoe dust to a guy who doesn't love her anymore?
Mia Biwi koi bhi raazi nehi...toh kaun sa payar or kaun sa shadi???

good post jalak..

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