Originally posted by: ...MonaCo...
@Mili, I have a very twisted logic on why I think Cancer or death at young age is not the punishment for something that people like Nandini do. As someone who lost a loved one to Cancer, and has seen that loved one suffer for several years in Chemo, Surgery, Radiation etc., I feel very sad that "Cancer" is said to be a "punishment". This loved one was one of the noblest, nicest, warmest person I know, who never even hurt a fly. I don't know a single person who has a negative thing to say about them. Even till this day if I meet someone who knew this person, they always say how great and selfless they were. Still they got cancer. And suffered a lot. We consoled ourselves ki pichhle janam ke paap honge. But when people say dying of Cancer was a fitting "punishment" for Nandini, they are implying for so many kids around the world who lost their parents or so many parents around the world whose kids are struggling with cancer that this is a punishment of something, and I hate that thought.
I don't even know if I wanted Kunal and Nandini to suffer I just wanted them to realize. But I guess real life mein bhi aisa hota hai - there are emotionally aware and sensitive people (like Mauli) , jo galti nahi hoti to bhi apne aap ko zimmedar maante hain and emotionally numb people who live in their lala land that they can do nothing wrong. I have an example or two in my own life - where the person has no guilt whatsoever because it is like they live in an alternate reality or something in their minds.
Nandini and Kunal both are like that - and Mauli the opposite, so although Mauli ki mistake nahi hoti, she often introspects and admits to her role in doing something - and comes clean. She apologized for hiding the truth of her pregnancy, because she genuinely believes that maybe she could have given a chance to Kunal the father. She introspects. Andar jhaankti hai woh. But Kunal and Nandini are not such people. They do not introspect at all, and do not jhaanko inside, so thats why guilt ka to sawal hi nahi uthha.
I just want both of them to first realize. which Nandini did not and the speed at which we are moving, Kunal will in the last episode maybe and just a sorry will be enough. This is what I hate.