What mauli did was Right or wrong?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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All fan groups seem to agree ishaan should tell mauli even though briefly Kunal helped him pursue her.. or else its equivalent to hide something in a relationship.
Now coming back to Mauli : she is in a relationship with Ishaan let her name it what ever but she was always clear some day she's gonna end up with him..
Yet she breaks up with him without giving a reason ( same thing when kunal did to her it was considered a crime).
Now she leaves her own mehndi upon Insistence of a 4yr old..( very bad move by CVs to gain sympathy.. am i the only one who cannot sympathise with pari's situation.. cos mauli is not a part of this family.. they should understand that..
Mauli, takes a word of a child and runs to rescue.. does not bother to verify with the doctor or radhika.. secondly.. does not even bother to Inform ishaan that there's a emergency and she needs to check on kunal..
Honestly its a good thing sandhya is forcing her to face her true feeling than keeping ishaan hanging in between like this..
In this situation if u r taking advantage of ur partner in the name of helping some one .. is also a kind of manipulation .. 😭
My take is helping kunal or her ex sasural might not sound wrong, but the way it's done can be wrong, like she could atleast tell ishaan before leaving..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Like much of Silsila, I think it was a domino effect of bad choices (like the kidnapping).
Sandhya in the beginning lying to Mauli about why Pari called. Pari asking Pramilla to help her instead of Dida/Radhika. Pramilla taking Pari to Mauli's knowing very well that she is getting married. Mauli not informing Ishaan of leaving. Sandhya then not telling Ishaan the full truth of why Mauli left.

Mauli should have called Radhika for clarification, but also, it's Mauli. She is an emotional fool, let's be honest. We love and hate this about her at the same time. She wears her heart on her sleeve and can't see people crying. She goes above and beyond and the extra mile for people she loves, and she does love Pari, who is an innocent crying child, begging her over and over.

Everyone had a hand in it for sure. But the person, in my opinion, to blame the most, is Sandhya, because she began the domino effect. Had she just let Mauli call back Pari then maybe it wouldn't have happened this way. Second person I will blame is Pramilla, because Pramilla was there between the Radhika/Dida confrontation, when Radhika told Dida Kunal has memory loss and they have to go back to how their lives were 6 years ago and Dida asked Radhika to call Mauli and Radhika said she cannot be selfish. Pramilla heard all of this and was even crying.

So, Pramilla should not have taken Pari, knowing full well, Radhika did not want this. And secondly, even if she took Pari, don't know why she didn't just update Mauli on the partial amnesia information.

But Sandhya, Pramilla, Pari, Mauli - these are just excuses. The real culprit here are the CVs and writers 😆


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ritzbitz786

Like much of Silsila, I think it was a domino effect of bad choices (like the kidnapping).

Sandhya in the beginning lying to Mauli about why Pari called. Pari asking Pramilla to help her instead of Dida/Radhika. Pramilla taking Pari to Mauli's knowing very well that she is getting married. Mauli not informing Ishaan of leaving. Sandhya then not telling Ishaan the full truth of why Mauli left.

Mauli should have called Radhika for clarification, but also, it's Mauli. She is an emotional fool, let's be honest. We love and hate this about her at the same time. She wears her heart on her sleeve and can't see people crying. She goes above and beyond and the extra mile for people she loves, and she does love Pari, who is an innocent crying child, begging her over and over.

Everyone had a hand in it for sure. But the person, in my opinion, to blame the most, is Sandhya, because she began the domino effect. Had she just let Mauli call back Pari then maybe it wouldn't have happened this way. Second person I will blame is Pramilla, because Pramilla was there between the Radhika/Dida confrontation, when Radhika told Dida Kunal has memory loss and they have to go back to how their lives were 6 years ago and Dida asked Radhika to call Mauli and Radhika said she cannot be selfish. Pramilla heard all of this and was even crying.

So, Pramilla should not have taken Pari, knowing full well, Radhika did not want this. And secondly, even if she took Pari, don't know why she didn't just update Mauli on the partial amnesia information.

But Sandhya, Pramilla, Pari, Mauli - these are just excuses. The real culprit here are the CVs and writers 😆



What fails mauli here is.. she can see everyone's pain except for ishaans...
It's almost as if she doesn't care at all...
Its good they feel marriage is broken as of now..
Mauli needs to come to terms with her feelings first..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ritzbitz786

Like much of Silsila, I think it was a domino effect of bad choices (like the kidnapping).

Sandhya in the beginning lying to Mauli about why Pari called. Pari asking Pramilla to help her instead of Dida/Radhika. Pramilla taking Pari to Mauli's knowing very well that she is getting married. Mauli not informing Ishaan of leaving. Sandhya then not telling Ishaan the full truth of why Mauli left.

Mauli should have called Radhika for clarification, but also, it's Mauli. She is an emotional fool, let's be honest. We love and hate this about her at the same time. She wears her heart on her sleeve and can't see people crying. She goes above and beyond and the extra mile for people she loves, and she does love Pari, who is an innocent crying child, begging her over and over.

Everyone had a hand in it for sure. But the person, in my opinion, to blame the most, is Sandhya, because she began the domino effect. Had she just let Mauli call back Pari then maybe it wouldn't have happened this way. Second person I will blame is Pramilla, because Pramilla was there between the Radhika/Dida confrontation, when Radhika told Dida Kunal has memory loss and they have to go back to how their lives were 6 years ago and Dida asked Radhika to call Mauli and Radhika said she cannot be selfish. Pramilla heard all of this and was even crying.

So, Pramilla should not have taken Pari, knowing full well, Radhika did not want this. And secondly, even if she took Pari, don't know why she didn't just update Mauli on the partial amnesia information.

But Sandhya, Pramilla, Pari, Mauli - these are just excuses. The real culprit here are the CVs and writers 😆



I don't think Pramilla was a part of that scene where Dida and Mumma are having a showdown, as far as I remember it was just the two of them, I may be wrong.

But anyways I just wanted to add, I guess seeing that Pramilla accompanied Pari, maybe that was the confirmation Mauli needed? I mean it wasn't like Pari showed up by herself in a hysterical state, clearly Pramilla brought her there so doesn't that count as confirmation? IDK. I bet the writers don't even think about the logic as much as we do.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumoos


What fails mauli here is.. she can see everyone's pain except for ishaans...
It's almost as if she doesn't care at all...
Its good they feel marriage is broken as of now..
Mauli needs to come to terms with her feelings first..


Well that's true, she doesn't consider Ishaan's feelings, but Ishaan also doesn't end up in these ridiculous situations that Kunal coincidentally keeps ending up in. Au contraire, Ishaan is Mauli's support when she is facing these situations. But then when he did hurt himself, she went running to him and he said "Pyaar hai but thoda hi hai," or something like that (can't remember).

But it has definitely gotten to the point where she's started taking him for granted though.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Wrong !
Mauli never understands how to priorities things since beginning that's why she used to send nandini with kunal in place of her in concerts and all. She had compromised her personal life to help nandini in her problems and had kept marriage and friendship at the same ground which is not good for marriage life. she fails to understand what will her partner feels if she compromised their personal life for third person.

Here Ishaan was not on date with mauli to justify mauli's action.It was their Mehendi ceremony damn it which is not so casual day or normal event at least understand the importance of the event of your life before compromising your partner's happiness for third person.It was not life or death scene for kunal so mauli's reaction is completely unjustified .

Mauli's problem is still same which was before too.If she end up with kunal again than kunal will get license to cheat her again because her basic trait of keeping everything over marriage is still same.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: NainoMeinSapna


I don't think Pramilla was a part of that scene where Dida and Mumma are having a showdown, as far as I remember it was just the two of them, I may be wrong.

But anyways I just wanted to add, I guess seeing that Pramilla accompanied Pari, maybe that was the confirmation Mauli needed? I mean it wasn't like Pari showed up by herself in a hysterical state, clearly Pramilla brought her there so doesn't that count as confirmation? IDK. I bet the writers don't even think about the logic as much as we do.


Yeah, the only reason I remember Pramilla being there is because I pause and rewind each scene multiple times as I am writing the written update, so I remember as a fact Pramilla was there.

And Lol @ the writers part. So true!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: NainoMeinSapna


Well that's true, she doesn't consider Ishaan's feelings, but Ishaan also doesn't end up in these ridiculous situations that Kunal coincidentally keeps ending up in. Au contraire, Ishaan is Mauli's support when she is facing these situations. But then when he did hurt himself, she went running to him and he said "Pyaar hai but thoda hi hai," or something like that (can't remember).

But it has definitely gotten to the point where she's started taking him for granted though.


Perfectly said. Couldn't have said it better, even if I tried. You nailed it.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Wrong !

Mauli never understands how to priorities things since beginning that's why she used to send nandini with kunal in place of her in concerts and all. She had compromised her personal life to help nandini in her problems and had kept marriage and friendship at the same ground which is not good for marriage life. she fails to understand what will her partner feels if she compromised their personal life for third person.

Here Ishaan was not on date with mauli to justify mauli's action.It was their Mehendi ceremony damn it which is not so casual day or normal event at least understand the importance of the event of your life before compromising your partner's happiness for third person.It was not life or death scene for kunal so mauli's reaction is completely unjustified .

Mauli's problem is still same which was before too.If she end up with kunal again than kunal will get license to cheat her again because her basic trait of keeping everything over marriage is still same.



This point may be hard for hardcore mauli fans to agree upon..
But i feel the exact same way..
Nobody should keep there spouse n friend at the same level.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania



It was not life or death scene for kunal so mauli's reaction is completely unjustified .

Mauli's problem is still same which was before too.If she end up with kunal again than kunal will get license to cheat her again because her basic trait of keeping everything over marriage is still same.



This is so accurate, Mauli really needs to reevaluate her priorities. Even if she does decide to help Kunal, she shouldn't let that take precedence over her relationship with Ishaan.

And I 100% agree with the fact that she could've waited till the mehndhi was over to go and see Kunal, there was no need to go running.

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