I really don't understand mauli's parenting - Page 2

@arshi @tania -- guys i think she has genuinely tried... but love can not be forced..

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

@arshi @tania -- guys i think she has genuinely tried... but love can not be forced..

she always liked ishaan.. their marriage is a kind of arrange marriage for her, with an addition tjat she knows him really well. he is great friend and companion.. but it was her heart which wasnt allowing her to say yes as marriage is not only about companionship but also about love.. and she doesnt love him that way..

she was always ready for companionship but now she has decide to compromise in love thing..

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

@arshi @tania -- guys i think she has genuinely tried... but love can not be forced..

she always liked ishaan.. their marriage is a kind of arrange marriage for her, with an addition tjat she knows him really well. he is great friend and companion.. but it was her heart which wasnt allowing her to say yes as marriage is not only about companionship but also about love.. and she doesnt love him that way..

she was always ready for companionship but now she has decide to compromise in love thing..

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

I am not talking about ishaan here. I am talking about Mishti and Mauli as a mother. Mishti should be her priority right now but she is somewhere else.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

My point is why is even trying or forcing herself to feel love for ishaan??? Why?? No need to force yourself a specially to love someone .If her heart is not allowing her to say yes for marriage than she must follow her heart . No one can force her to marry ishaan without her wish.She said yes to marriage with ishaan because of her own stupidity .She must stop to force herself to love ishaan because no one has given her any kasam or promise to marry him .

If organically she is falling in love with ishaan and allowing her daughter to call that guy popsi than it is completely ok but if you are forcing yourself to love him than what is the need?? I mean she can live as single parent happily and explain your child that she is her mother and father both .

Before forcing herself to fall in love with ishaan,she need to make her wishes and priorities clear . Choose your wish and happiness and explain your child that ishaan can't be your popsi and she is her mother and father both .Atleast take a charge of your life by fixing ishaan's place in your and your child's life. Kab tak aisa without relation ka popsi popsi timepass chalega dosti ke naam par .

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

she is not forcing herself.. she is compromising only in romantic love but not in other things like companionship and love for him as a family.. forcing is i guess wrong word to mark her actions.

but i so so agree when u say she should think about it again if she really wants to marry him or not.. i don't want her to realise later when all the efforts are done..

When mishti was shown calling ishan popsy post leap mauli said to ishaan it must be awkward for you when mishti calls you popsy.So i think mishti herself started calling him popsy.If mauli was not sure about her marriage with ishaan she should not have allowed mishti to call him popsy.This thing has never been clarified.Now ishti bond as father daughter is very strong.Don't know what will be their future.Everything is messed up in the show.

I think as Mauli was living in an extended family situation she let radhika and Dida do a lot of care in mishtys upbringing. We can see that radhika is the one who sees to mishtys meals and homework etc. and Dida spends time talking to mishty and Ishaan does a lot of the outings with Mishty. So i don't think mauli has been a hands on mom to mishty because she had a lot of other people sharing her responsibilities...mishty also a few times said that Mauli doesn't have time for her and she once also blurted out that she hated Mauli..and the writers have also hardly showed us any Mauli mishty scenes. Whereas Kunal on the other hand despite working does a lot of parental stuff for pari,.he mentioned once about feeding pari..so he feeds pari, supervises her meals ..when the nanny is not there he takes pari to work with him..so I think he spends far more time with pari than Mauli does with Mishty. In my country most of us don't live in extended family situations ..so it's just husband , wife and children living together ..so even if the mother is a working mother , when she gets home she sees to the meals, and is involved with the children's bathing, homework, eating and the father shares these chores with her...so both parents are hands on parents. But in Maulis case when she gets home radhika has already seen to mishtys bathing, eating , homework ..And I think this has probably afected the bond between Mauli and mishty..Mauli is not coming across as a very involved parent ..to her child birth emotionally and physically ..

Originally posted by: prettywomaniya

Originally posted by: Indira1211

I think as Mauli was living in an extended family situation she let radhika and Dida do a lot of care in mishtys upbringing. We can see that radhika is the one who sees to mishtys meals and homework etc. and Dida spends time talking to mishty and Ishaan does a lot of the outings with Mishty. So i don't think mauli has been a hands on mom to mishty because she had a lot of other people sharing her responsibilities...mishty also a few times said that Mauli doesn't have time for her and she once also blurted out that she hated Mauli..and the writers have also hardly showed us any Mauli mishty scenes. Whereas Kunal on the other hand despite working does a lot of parental stuff for pari,.he mentioned once about feeding pari..so he feeds pari, supervises her meals ..when the nanny is not there he takes pari to work with him..so I think he spends far more time with pari than Mauli does with Mishty. In my country most of us don't live in extended family situations ..so it's just husband , wife and children living together ..so even if the mother is a working mother , when she gets home she sees to the meals, and is involved with the children's bathing, homework, eating and the father shares these chores with her...so both parents are hands on parents. But in Maulis case when she gets home radhika has already seen to mishtys bathing, eating , homework ..And I think this has probably afected the bond between Mauli and mishty..Mauli is not coming across as a very involved parent ..to her child birth emotionally and physically ..

I agree.Mauli has not been shown spending time with mishti much unlike kunal.They even shown mishti calling mauli bad mother.