What is worse?

PS: please dont lecture on loving children without judging. i am talking about the story being told..

#1 is by far worse. No one wants to know they were unwanted and unloved. If Mishti ever really finds out, it will have devastating consequences. Yes, she has a wonderful father figure in Ishaan😊 but knowing her father didn't want her and didn't love her (no whitewashing here), is bound to cause serious issues in the future.

And I hope these writers are NOT gearing up to make Mauli Pari's mother! Mauli's life is not in service to Kundani and their child. Her part in their lives is over. I don't even see a reason for her to have to know, care for or mother Pari. It's very cruel to Mauli,

Let Kunal find a mother for his daughter; all he has to do is check when it will be raining next and position himself by the nearest gutter. His candidate will show up soon enough.

But, comparing Mishti and Pari's situations isn't fair to either of them. Mishti doesn't know her father. She is in blissfully ignorant about what happened with her parents and rightly so because she shouldn't have to concern herself with such adult problems at such a young age. And she is receiving fatherly love from Ishaan. Which a lot of children without fathers do no receive and I am so so happy that she has Ishaan. She shouldn't have to miss out on father's love just because her own decided he didn't want her. (In Kunal's defense, he doesn't know he has a child but that's another argument). In a way, Mishti does have love from her mother, a father figure, a grandmother and great grandmother. That is a lot of love. And coming to your point, Mishti doesn't know what she is unwanted and unloved. Maybe once she knows the truth then we can gauge the situation fairly.

With Pari, I truly feel for her. She lost her mother at such a young age. She obviously has a father but as someone mentioned above, a mother's love is deeper in a sense. And especially if Pari and Nandani had a great relationship, which seems that they did from all the food making lol. Of course it's kheer and pasta. Anyways, all Pari has in the world is Kunal. That is it. And she may also have to face the consequences and the repercussions of being Nandani's daughter given the circumstances with no fault of her own.

But i would hate it if CV'S try to portray one's struggle lesser than the other..

And well know who's the bechaari gonna be here...

I don't think both option are same... Death is an ultimate reality of life, all of us have to die one one, sooner or later one has to experience the last truth of life- death. I'm not trying to say that loosing parents is not big deal, it's a big trauma, but at last you come out of it with good memories of your parents.. But I don't know how does one feel after getting to know that he/she was unwanted child, not only that one of parent was wishing and praying that you should not exist. That parent was satisfied and content when he got to know that you don't exist because for him more than his own flesh and blood some 'barish me thumka lagane wali' was more important. Is there any name for such feelings?