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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: WhyHate



In your second question, I don't know why I have a feeling that Kunal will try to bring Nandini to the house as well and say that she suffered a lot for a mistake and then she will be thrown out of the house by Yamini and Mauli. I just have this feeling, but based on what the CVs have been doing so far, I'm guessing that they'll actually just show Kunal taking his stuff and leaving, and Nandini just accepting it.


Thank you for your explanation!! Yes, psychology is very interesting subject and hence I, like to analyse characters. It sometimes amazes me, how different people react to the same situation differently and it really interesting to see how its always connected to their past.

Regarding Nandini, Kunal is the only man who has treated her with respect. Her parents were of old school thought where "Pati is parmeshwar" thinking was prevalent. Her father was of similar kind like Rajdeep, may be not abusive , but someone who thought women are inferior. Hence, she was very surprised to see Kunal behavior towards women and may be one of the reason for her initial attraction.

@bold: I do hope that Kunal and Nandini have enough sense to not do that especially after the whole fiasco that has happened and If its does happen, then that would be my last day of analyzing this show. I would be only watching it for pure entertainment purposes.


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Posted: 7 years ago
finally some interesting dialogues from kunal -- he said that their love isn't wrong. it may be selfish, careless but not wrong. so what did folks think -- finally some anti-heroish point of view from kunal.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

finally some interesting dialogues from kunal -- he said that their love isn't wrong. it may be selfish, careless but not wrong. so what did folks think -- finally some anti-heroish point of view from kunal.

He has said it before too.He doesn think it is wrong. But then why was he so zoned out then when Mauli found out? Why didnt he come clear with her before itself ?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


@bold 2: If this is happening, they will show it as their redemption track. Currently, they are showing that they love each other a lot and can go to any lengths to stay together even to the extent of hurting an innocent soul. So what would be the their biggest punishment. It would be not seeing each other, not talking to each other, not knowing where the other is, not living together right? If we go with what they have shown, Kunal biggest fear is Nandini walking out of his life and if that happens, it would be his biggest pain too. Similarly, we all saw Nandini in the hospital, her state when she thought something has happened to Kunal. Hence, logically, them separating does make sense if they have to pay for their wrong deeds. That would be their punishment.

If they show that he has fallen back in love with Mauli, then where is his suffering? The only person suffering would be Nandini who would have lost everything because of this person. That would be so unfair.

The only thing though is Mauli. She might get her happy world back but how happy it would be, only time will tell. IMO, if she is accepting Kunal back, then she should make sure that the Kunal that is coming back is her Kunal and not Nandini's else she should not reunite with him,



Actually what you say here makes more sense than my second thought of Nandini being brought into the home. Keeping them apart is like a punishment for both. They love each other. They can't live without each other, so what better than to tear them apart.

But after seeing today's episode and based on the articles that have been coming out, I feel the CVs should do this. Kunal and Mauli decide to spend a month together, but Mauli refuses to forgive or talk to Kunal. Then when a month is over, both part. Kunal returns to Nandini and Mauli is independent. But Dida again forces the two to come back together and Nandini finally leaves their life. Now Kunal and Mauli are living a forced life and Kunal and Nandini are apart. After 2 years they finally come face to face where Mauli is happy to see Nandini back because now she no longer has to live a fake life and she finally shows Dida the reality and Kunal and Nandini end up together.

But Kunal and Nandini need to realize their mistake. So when they end up together, Kunal realizes that he never actually loved Nandini to begin with. It was just infatuation. Now he wants to go back to Mauli, but she refuses to take him back and Nandini has become dependent on Kunal again so she won't let him go either.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


Thank you for your explanation!! Yes, psychology is very interesting subject and hence I, like to analyse characters. It sometimes amazes me, how different people react to the same situation differently and it really interesting to see how its always connected to their past.

Regarding Nandini, Kunal is the only man who has treated her with respect. Her parents were of old school thought where "Pati is parmeshwar" thinking was prevalent. Her father was of similar kind like Rajdeep, may be not abusive , but someone who thought women are inferior. Hence, she was very surprised to see Kunal behavior towards women and may be one of the reason for her initial attraction.

@bold: I do hope that Kunal and Nandini have enough sense to not do that especially after the whole fiasco that has happened and If its does happen, then that would be my last day of analyzing this show. I would be only watching it for pure entertainment purposes.



@ Bold: Thank you for giving me the background on Nandini. That's what you get for starting a show in the middle. Well that explains why Nandini is so dependent right now. She was also raised in the school of thought where women are only supposed to be homemakers. Such women end up becoming dependent no matter how independent their thought because they have no way of making livelihood, they lose touch with current times, and so much more. My mother is a homemaker and even though she was a professor before marriage, you ask her to do the same today and she would be completely lost.

It also lends to her psychology. After having been abused and tortured so much by Rajdeep, even the slightest hint of abuse and she'll curl up. She needs someone to tell her that everything is okay, she's fine, nothing is wrong. She needs constant praise and support. She's been broken inside and out and it'll take her time to heal and only kind words and love can heal her inside.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

finally some interesting dialogues from kunal -- he said that their love isn't wrong. it may be selfish, careless but not wrong. so what did folks think -- finally some anti-heroish point of view from kunal.



That was utter f**king bullshit. And I try not to swear but he just brings out the worst in me.

I like that he finally accepted it was selfish and careless, but where the f**k did he get the idea that it wasn't wrong? ARE YOU f**kING SERIOUS?!!

Okay calm breath and let's continue...

Love isn't wrong. I accept. But they weren't wrong? Kunal and Nandini knowingly broke someone's trust. They broke a home. They hurt someone so deeply she may never be able to trust again. They claim they did that all to protect her. Protect her from what? Does Kunal seriously think that by not telling Mauli they were protecting her from a world of hurt? Did he not think about the consequences if Mauli found out and especially if she found out that this had been going on for months or years? Wouldn't it have been easier just to tell her that he was no longer in love with her and wanted a divorce so he could live with the person he did love?

Being selfish is never a good sign. Think about the word. Self-ish. Self comes before anything else. When that happens, someone always get hurt. Let's think about it on a small scale. Say you and your sister both love ladoos and there is one left. You are selfish and take it. Your sister is hurt. Or let's say you're in school and you and a student both want a front row seat, but there is only one. If one of you is selfish and takes it, the other gets hurt. Or at work you are selfish for a promotion, then the other people who could have gotten that promotion get hurt.

I'm not saying selfish is wrong. Heck I would want that promotion over another. Why should I give it up? But I'm saying it always hurts someone.

Being careless also hurts someone. You leave a stone in the middle of the doorway because you're careless and don't notice that you tracked it. Someone could step on it and hurt themselves. Or you leave toys lying around. Or you back into that anniversary vase your father gave your mother. So on and so forth. Again you're being careless and hurting someone either physically or emotionally.

All of these are wrong. Then how can Kunal say that they weren't wrong? They were wrong! 100% wrong!
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

finally some interesting dialogues from kunal -- he said that their love isn't wrong. it may be selfish, careless but not wrong. so what did folks think -- finally some anti-heroish point of view from kunal.


Wow, the train wreck is offcially over and what a ride it was. His journey, yes this was totally his journey, not Mauli, not Nandini, which started at this very door when Nandini spelled out all her wishes. Nandini, at that time, had said that she wishes that the road that comes from me to you was easy and not filled with difficulties. If he would have only listened. He did not and today here, we are at the end of that journey where he is promising her the world, giving her everything that she wished for but never thought would be fulfilled but at what cost. The only thing he is asking in return is to be with him. Nothing more nothing less.
So, when you only look at the intention and the motivation of this journey, it does not seem wrong at all but look at the damage. In short, a total train wreck, which has created debris with his every step and in the process he has destroyed his values, marriage, integrity, wife, family and everything that he had spend half of his years to build. In a way, its really commendable that the person who has made a mockery of his marriage vows, never once moved his focus from his commitment. From the beginning till the end, he was firm in his intention, and his focus has always been on the end goal. It never shook inspite of the roller coaster ride of emotions that he been riding on which came from Mauli's heartbreak, his mothers anger and Dida's tears..
The person who used to strive to be a perfect husband son and man of the society, today does not care, what the society thinks of him, It does not matter to him if he is called a selfish, careless, bad or a weak person. He, in his "devil may care attitude only cares is that she be with him and if shunned by the society, is the prize the he has to pay for it, so be it. What do we call this, what emotions are this, that has made this normal righteous person ready to stand against the world and fight for the happiness of only that one person who has become his world at the cost of his own people.

So to answer your question, if you just look at them without the bindings of the society, those emotions are actually not wrong. The relationship was wrong but that was because of the shackles that were binding them to the other people. Today, even the process to unravel those has started thus giving him the freedom to make those promises which was his destination. But even though his intention was right, his motivation was correct, his path was so very wrong.
You cannot build your tower of happiness on the grave of someone's sorrow. You have to pay the prize for it. and now that journey will start where they will have to atone for their sins.

"Love gives freedom was the key. Today, Kunal gave freedom to Nandini from Rajdeep so that Nandini can start her real journey but tomorrow, Nandini will give him freedom from his promises, so that he reunites with his family but they will not be with each other and that is the prize they will pay. One things that is utmost important for them.

PS: Did you notice the use of word "Pyaar". Nandini used it the other day when she was fighting Rajdeep to describe her emotions and today Kunal used the same word to describe his. Such a small word but with such deep meaning and such devastating effects.


Question: Why do they leave their door open even after all the mishaps that they have faced due to it? When did Mumbai become this safe?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: chulbuliladki

He has said it before too.He doesn think it is wrong. But then why was he so zoned out then when Mauli found out? Why didnt he come clear with her before itself ?



yea you are right, he said it before and at the time, thought the CVs were coming from a "all is fair in love and war" kind of thinking but it seems like that actually wasn't that they meant. this time, he gave a whole list of negatives about their relationship but again he insists that their love isn't dirty and they aren't wrong and no one has the right to judge them.

@whyhate, @pamk06 -- rather than morally right or wrong, my thought was that kunal is coming from a very different angle when he says "their love isn't wrong". now, we really need kunal's backstory but the way the CVs cut their scenes with the scenes at home was a bit strange because the mom's reaction stood out in super, stark contrast.

when mouli says divorce, the mom seems to not only expect such an action but she actually seems to silently approve it. there is no word to discourage her and neither is there any hurt or disappointment. instead, it is dadi who gives those reactions. then when dadi asks mouli to forgive kunal and give their marriage a second chance, kunal's mom looks like she wants to throw something. she is very disapproving, tsking, annoyed and gritting her teeth -- again, aren't those really strange reactions if she is his mom?

so that makes me think that kunal is rather referencing himself to his own parents situation. often our view of relationships is based on experience or what we observe at home. so in this case, what exactly did kunal observe and experience in his own parents relationship? think what he means by "they aren't wrong" is that they are willing to own their choices and take responsibility for their actions and therefore, this love is not tainted. he actually seems much more confident and very self-assured now with nandini like he knows exactly what he wants and what he is going to do. there is no second guessing himself.

also in the scene where he comforts nandini, wondered if it was more than instinct that he wasn't startled by nandini's meltdown. instead, he seemed very much in his comfort zone like he has seen this kind of behaviour before and knows exactly what to do...

so back to my theory, I am leaning more and more that kunal's mom is actually his stepmom and something happened with their marriage and his biological mother. he married mouli who is more like his stepmom but perhaps his biological mother may have been closer to nandini and hence, he knows exactly what to do to calm her down and also seems more confident and comfortable...

the CVs seem determined to give us clues in bits and pieces and so we might be really surprised when kunal's backstory comes out. perhaps, it will frame this affair far differently than how viewers read it...
Edited by mango_pudding1 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
i am guessing kunals father had a affair with someone and kunals mom dint forgive him. they either lived apart or kunals mom lived apart& he died in the end. that is why dida blames kunal's mom because she dint forgive her husband.
i hope we get to know the back story

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Posted: 7 years ago

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i am guessing kunals father had a affair with someone and kunals mom dint forgive him. they either lived apart or kunals mom lived apart& he died in the end. that is why dida blames kunal's mom because she dint forgive her husband.

i hope we get to know the back story



yea we definitely need kunal's backstory and I hope that he has fights with dadi and mom which brings out the backstory and their views and perspective on it. am seriously thinking if kunal is the stepchild because if it is a child whose mom/dad was hurt because of an affair, then your thinking would strongly be that ema is wrong. however, if you are a child that is a product of an affair, then what would your reasoning be? you might think that love is not wrong when you take responsibility for your actions...

wish I could remember the way he phrased it but was half asleep but feel like he wasn't just presenting "all is fair in love and war" kind of argument. there was something else in the way he phrased it that makes me think that kunal's view of their affair is strongly influenced by his own backstory...

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