Kunal Nandini & Mauli - Page 3

Originally posted by: _Nightmare_

One of the most sensible replies i have ever seen.

But my dear, i think it has nothing to do with a girl being strong or fragile, it is in their mind .There are guys who love fragile women and wants to be a knight in shining Armour to save a damsel in distress , but there are also few guys who like smart girls who can handle the household as well as the job..

I have seen so many different personalities in my surroundings. There are guys who wants to be dominant n control their wife, there are guys who are insecure of their wives success, there are guys who can't handle the fact that the wife is more intelligent and successful and yeah offcourse if she earns more than him, it will add to his insecurity. Having said that,there are also few guys who love dominant girls , there are guys who consider their wife as better half in real sense and help them out in the household chores be it cooking, cleaning and other stuffs.So, my dear, these kinda stuffs has nothing to do with the girl's personality..

Why do people fallout of love and why infidelity and affairs takes place we can never answer those questions.

If you take the example of this show itself, nandini was fragile and mouli was strong, there is a reason they showed such extremely different personalities.Rajdeep prefered smart and modern woman and abused the fragile nandini, probably he expected someone like mouli who had a career , while kunal fell in love with nandini who was completely opposite from mouli..

Originally posted by: SHAJADHA

Hi😊

But I have a question in my mind, why mauli taking nandani name whenever talking about kunal choice even she said that if he met nandani before mauli he fall in love with nandani only even once she said that if kunal have any affair then that person will be nandani only

Ps I didn't get that why she said that which quality nandani have that she doesn't have and if kunal fall in with any girl that will be only nandani

Originally posted by: nammytat

Hi...ive always been a silent reader but today I felt I should probably say what I think. There is no condoning what KuNan are doing but for some reasons to them its not wrong.
Lets start with Nandini..throughout her marriage she was treated like a property by her husband and she never got his support in anything. She didn't know it was possible to have a support of a man and she got that from Kunal. It didn't matter what, he was there for her provided for just a short while but he was. Its human nature to want that for yourself...its sad that she found that in her best friend's husband but she found it and thats why that line which she wasn't supposed to cross got blurred.
With Kunal maybe its true he realised how he felt during that barish moment but I don't think that's the only thing that made him feel what he feels for her...Mauli is a very nice beautiful and strong girl who doesn't show her weakness and likes to be in control and maybe that's what the problem is with their relationship which is stupid I know but men like to be needed for small small things and they like damsels in distress which happens to be Nandini to the T. Its not about her qualities or preferences and choices but her fragility. With Nandini,Kunal feels needed and in control of their relationship while with Mauli he takes the back seat and she controls the relationship. Problems don't have to be yelling and fighting with each other. There are those psychological ones like the ones Kunal and Mauli are facing which re way worse that the normal spats..He tried so hard to make it work but his heart has already registers that there is someone who will treat him better than his wife so there is no going back for him. He will find any way to justify it and at the end if the day it might be the best thing for him no matter how immoral it is to the society. I am not saying this because I think, I am saying it because I've seen it before. My husband left me because I was in control and I wasn't fragile. I fought it at the beginning but I finally understood that he was no longer my husband for a long while, the signs were all there but I was the one who didn't want to see those signs just like Mauli is ignoring all the signs that her husband is not the same person but she justifies it by saying she doesn't spend enough time with him. It may be a bitter pill to swallow but somehow its that grey area where it might not be right but its not wrong.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Your post is very good ..But..just one but 😆I agree nandini is fragile and mauli is strong . But I don't believe that "kunal" is the knight in shining armour . In reality a man is as much flawed and wrong .

I'm sorry to hear your story. But can you please honestly tell me how you felt . Like do you really believe that women must take a backseat and be the traditional wife in order to be "loved and not betrayed? " let's say 30-40 years back women in general were like this..But they were still treated like trash . They had no meaning in life other than making babies and raising them . And when nandini was being abused , everyone wanted her to fight back , Like mauli . Now when kunal is fida over her , you are trying to say my dear , it's because of this very quality ?

Kunal and nandini can burn the tv screens or the satellite with their supposed hotness , they are still wrong and honestly I can't enjoy this immoral hotness...do you enjoy it ? Now I am hooked , just to watch how karma bites them back..ulta in real life it doesn't but here karma can play it's part if cvs ki kripa hogi

Originally posted by: WaveTeal

If Mauli is saying so or taking Nandini's name in such a matter then what is the point you are trying to prove?? That's just because Mauli said it so now that becomes a valid cause or gospel commandment hence now Kunal can have affrair with Nandini?? Is this some white flag or approval from Mauli's side??
Now if Mauli says Some xyz person can be killed by Kunal. Does that mean if Kunal kills that man is because Mauli said so?? This has to be one of the absurd logic I have seen so far!

Mauli also said a lot of more things like "She doesn't know what she would do if she loses Kunal" Or even those every I love Yous to Kunal. Why are those becoming worthless??

Now let's see why Mauli said such - It's an irony and pathetically tragic that this whole fact just shows one conflicting matter vividly, that being how much trust and comfort she might have on her best freind and husband to state such a word!! See how she gives a respectful trust on both of them that she might have said such a thing.
This actually makes Kunal and Nandini more sinister to break such a beautiful trust like this!! This is plain melancholic and morose!!

Originally posted by: SHAJADHA

I just wanted to know why mauli said those words, what quality nandani have that she doesn't have

Why she always appreciate that woman, what she have that she doesn't

After completing 6 year success marriage life why kunal fall for this gawar (illitrate)woman

I never glorify EMA even I hate all those actor who indulge in this EMA

PS even if GC and DD (gurti) get married I hate them I hate many actor like Sridevi, Jennifer Winget, Bipasha basu etc

Originally posted by: WaveTeal

The episode you are talking about I have not seen that. I probably have missed it. So which quality actually Mauli referred to that I don't know...But my guess would be on Nandini's submissive demure ways!!
you are right why did Kunal fall for Nandini?? In that case I have only one answer, his taste must have got rotten!! 😆

GC and DD's case is completely different. Seeing your comments, I am pretty sure you have extremely less information about that so better not bring it here. I have stated in my posts EMA can rarely be even a little comprehensible, rare cases are there. And those exceptions can not be used as example. Gurti is one of those exceptions, so lets not bring their saga here.

Rest of the ones I totally agree with you. 👍🏼
So if you despise EMA then why are you trying to justify here at Kunan's case?? Is it because DD is playing Nandini? What would be your take if she was to play Mauli??

Originally posted by: SHAJADHA

Thank god you are not critcize me for taking only women name

I think you have less information about GC and DD

I never ship on Kunan

Yes I am worry about nandani bcz this stupid woman taking another wrong decision by trusting a man even she is not coming out of one abusive relation and stepping in one more disaster relation

Originally posted by: SHAJADHA

I just wanted to know why mauli said those words, what quality nandani have that she doesn't have

Why she always appreciate that woman, what she have that she doesn't

After completing 6 year success marriage life why kunal fall for this gawar (illitrate)woman

I never glorify EMA even I hate all those actor who indulge in this EMA

PS even if GC and DD (gurti) get married I hate them I hate many actor like Sridevi, Jennifer Winget, Bipasha basu etc

Originally posted by: WaveTeal

Bold - Unable to understand the formation dear!!