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Jiya

@Jiyyaa

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 7 years ago

Hello Everyone. This is my first topic in this forum.

Ive been a silent reader of this forum but decided to finally start posting as so many people are also voicing their opinions about the characters. I wanted to share my thoughts too. Please no hate on me haha.😆

First whatever kunal and nandini are doing isnt all wrong.

It IS OK to fall in love after marriage. So many cases. Would you rather live trapped in marriage or confess to the person that also loves you so you can stop ruining your life,your wife/husbands life because you will never give them happiness, and the 3rd persons life who loves you and you love them back.

Kunal and Nandini i feel arent wrong to fall in love. Mauli kept sending Kunal to her and situations kept occuring where they were meant to develop feelings for eachother. And even mauli agreed that Nandini and Kunal are similar in so many ways. Feelings were bound to happen. They both ended up really liking eachother. Them coming together again and again and whole concept of this show was EMA. It happens and we bashing Kunan is only ruining marriages because then we know people in marriage arent happy leading to fights, misunderstandings or divorce. Its good that they found what they both really like and they like eachother.

Im happy with confession, atleast now their story will start and soon tell Mauli what their true feelings are.

Love can not happen just once. It can happen again. Imagine telling someone that broke up that "hey you will never fall in love again"

You wont say that. You will say "hey there is someone else for you. It wasnt mean to be"

Thats why most people have breakups in relationship. But kunal and mauli ended up getting married and realizing after. Which led to concept of this show.

Maybe it was just their college fling so they thought they really loved eachother but when nandini came kunal realized what actually love was and maulis a great girl. Who wouldnt love her so maybe kunal never did and realized love when he saw nandini?

It could be same for mauli too but she hasnt found anyone else yet. But definitely kunal and mauli arent meant to be after watching everything.

Its rare but it happens even after marriage and thats what they are showing.

I love mauli and I do feel bad for her as she loves Kunal but idk why is she so blind to realize that no hun, nothing is ok. She keeps asking kunal for his strange behavior "are you ok"

Clearly he is not ok. Your husband is all of sudden different person.

And someone also posted about mauli not letting kunal fulfill his dreams on his own.

Maybe they do not have that understanding that couples need? There are flaws in her too.

But i do love her character and do feel bad for what she will have to go through.

I just want them to quickly tell mauli so they can be happy and mauli can also find out and start her journey of healing and moving on from Kunal. I would love to see how she progresses

I dont know but i really like the track and i hope people will also consider it from this point of view😳

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WaveTeal

@WaveTeal

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ArTizAngel
Hello Everyone. This is my first topic in this forum.

Ive been a silent reader of this forum but decided to finally start posting as so many people are also voicing their opinions about the characters. I wanted to share my thoughts too. Please no hate on me haha.😆

First whatever kunal and nandini are doing isnt all wrong.

It IS OK to fall in love after marriage. So many cases. Would you rather live trapped in marriage or confess to the person that also loves you so you can stop ruining your life,your wife/husbands life because you will never give them happiness, and the 3rd persons life who loves you and you love them back.

Kunal and Nandini i feel arent wrong to fall in love. Mauli kept sending Kunal to her and situations kept occuring where they were meant to develop feelings for eachother. And even mauli agreed that Nandini and Kunal are similar in so many ways. Feelings were bound to happen. They both ended up really liking eachother. Them coming together again and again and whole concept of this show was EMA. It happens and we bashing Kunan is only ruining marriages because then we know people in marriage arent happy leading to fights, misunderstandings or divorce. Its good that they found what they both really like and they like eachother.

Im happy with confession, atleast now their story will start and soon tell Mauli what their true feelings are.

Love can not happen just once. It can happen again. Imagine telling someone that broke up that "hey you will never fall in love again"

You wont say that. You will say "hey there is someone else for you. It wasnt mean to be"
Thats why most people have breakups in relationship. But kunal and mauli ended up getting married and realizing after. Which led to concept of this show.

Maybe it was just their college fling so they thought they really loved eachother but when nandini came kunal realized what actually love was and maulis a great girl. Who wouldnt love her so maybe kunal never did and realized love when he saw nandini?
It could be same for mauli too but she hasnt found anyone else yet. But definitely kunal and mauli arent meant to be after watching everything.

Its rare but it happens even after marriage and thats what they are showing.

I love mauli and I do feel bad for her as she loves Kunal but idk why is she so blind to realize that no hun, nothing is ok. She keeps asking kunal for his strange behavior "are you ok"

Clearly he is not ok. Your husband is all of sudden different person.
And someone also posted about mauli not letting kunal fulfill his dreams on his own.

Maybe they do not have that understanding that couples need? There are flaws in her too.
But i do love her character and do feel bad for what she will have to go through.

I just want them to quickly tell mauli so they can be happy and mauli can also find out and start her journey of healing and moving on from Kunal. I would love to see how she progresses

I dont know but i really like the track and i hope people will also consider it from this point of view😳

Hello dear, Your views are welcome.

I would start straight underline with red. Complete disagree on that. If any other couple were at this situation that might have been even a bit justified(though ema is wrong is all aspects, exceptional cases might occur, but exceptions can never be examples).

Because - There is no certain solid base for Kunal to fall for Nandini and fall out of love for Mauli.
Can you tell me why he fell for her other than seeing her physical aspect? This whole thing started after that Barish segment...
What is the guarantee he would not fall out of love(!) with Nandini for someone else?? There is a very famous saying made for this only - once a cheater always a cheater!

Underline blue - So according to you if these circumstances are happening then that justifies EMA? Or you are saying the way Kunal fell was circumstantial?? But truth is completely opposite.

A man who is married and devoted(as Kunal claimed at the starting) to his wife then they usually do not cheat just because some circumstance comes up!! EMA majorly occurs when someone is facing emotional distress, physical distress, lack of support, lack of respect, boredom in a relationship or as a person they are born to be cheaters, mentally wicked, lacks proper ethics!!

In Kunal's case writers have totally messed things up by not projecting such a super sensitive matter in a mature way.

Lastly, I have no problems with falling in love or confessing. Sometimes it happens that we meet a lot of people in our life and after settling down we might find our soulmate(rare case) in someone else. But that has nothing to do with only mere physical attraction. It shall be inevitable heart connection. Which in the case of Kunan, far from happening.

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WaveTeal

@WaveTeal

Sparkler

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Posted: 7 years ago

Now, Here comes the difference between FALLING IN LOVE and CHEATING.

I completely agree with you on the fact that if somehow someone has fallen in love within a committed phase then they shall come clean to their spouses rather than playing hide and seek. No way shall someone be trapped into a relationship.

However, let's focus on what's cheating?? Today's episode showed that Mauli is alone and Kunal hugging Nandini, having tea. It was unnecessary. If you are in love, and sure about it, your feelings are pure then just go and confess to your spouse in a mature manner. But see this can't happen here because Kunal faked everything with Mauli. They don't even have any fight, argument or soreness which can lead him towards a fast divulgence. He rather shows everything is fine. That's called cheating. He kept the hope of love alive in Mauli's heart yet hugging Nandini in Mauli's distress. If he would have told Mauli before taking his relationship with Nandini further then that would have been way better!!

For eg : Kunal is engaged to Mauli. But falls for Nandini and decides to confess.
Sounds really familiar right??
In marital bonding this is way more difficult as a written contract is involved. But still things could be handled in a mature and mutual way. No need to act desperate.

If Kunal is in love with someone else then he should confide his wife in. But what he does? He firstly confirms from Nandini's side. Why so?? What if Kunal would have been fallen one sided for Nandini. According to your logic then also he should have left his wife. Because we don't want him to be trapped in a relationship right? But would Kunal have left his wife at that circumstances?? Now sounds a bit more hypocritical, isn't it??

Having said all this, the main issue which is causing audience to backlash is that they are trying to portray a grey/ black act of EMA as something pure, white and divine!!

At the end of it EMA is wrong, utterly despicable!! No matter what justification the cvs give but they shall not portray or brainwash viewers by projecting this whole disgusting vile act as something innocent and pure!!

(I am not even going to the details how this adds into another fold of disgust because Mauli who is the victim of ema here is stabbed by her own best friend or the fact how poorly the script is written!!)

I can go on and on about more but for now this shall suffice!!

Thanks!!!

Edited by WaveTeal - 7 years ago

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SHAJADHA

@SHAJADHA

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Posted: 7 years ago

Here all asking question, how and why Kunal have strong feeling like love toward nandani

The answer of this question is given by mauli many time in the show

Mouli know each and everything about them

She know that, the quality kunal wanted in his life partner and nandani have that quality

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WaveTeal

@WaveTeal

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SHAJADHA
Here all asking question, how and why Kunal have strong feeling like love toward nandani
The answer of this question is given by mauli many time in the show
Mouli know each and everything about them
She know that, the quality kunal wanted in his life partner and nandani have that quality

Hey, good to see you here. 😊 hope you are well.

So did he marry Mauli without those qualities??
By this logic, kisi ki eyes khubsurat kisi ke baal...Aise qualities dekhne jaye toh insaan har dusre din shaadiya karne laage... 😆

On a serious note - What are Nandini's quality how would Kunal know that, he is not her bestie, is he?? Yes Mauli might have said a few things...But that doesn't mean Kunal is psychic and knows every attribute of Nandini in and out.

In truth we saw him ogling her in the rain. Aftermath he found out he is in lust my bad in *LOVE* with Nandini. And out of in love with Mauli in whom he found out certain qualities which is why he married Mauli in the first place.

Qualities - Whatever little I have seen of this show, Nandini is nothing unique that Kunal wouldn't have had a girl like her before marrying Mauli. So if those "qualities" were so important he should have find such a girl. It would not have been difficult at all.

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Charu

@Krinya

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 7 years ago

Yeah it's a serial dear so it really doesn't matter who loves who but in reality (which everyone shouts that this serial is based on reality ) , love can happen anytime anywhere with anyone . So by this logic the divorce rate would have hit the roof and why divorce ? Cheating partners is real so it's normal? So whatever they want to do they can do without marriage also ..like nandini was living her dream of a perfect life with kunal yesterday..But every dream ends with a boom..And there came mauli who both the losers cannot face ..if their love is pure and divine , why not face it , why lie? They aren't doing anything wrong why lie to mauli..

in reality when a third person is associated with you , his/her life is attached with you , then it's not as easy as saying i have found my true love , Please get out of my life.

In which scene did you feel that kunal was trapped in this marriage ? Yes mauli has flaws and she "snatched Kunals dream , but flaws are there in kunal and nandini also ? Nandini is the type of girl for kunal ? Why was he fooling around with mauli in this marriage for 5 years ? I'm sure when he will be asked he will have no justification other than "socha nai bas ho gaya. And how is he so sure that nandini is his true love and these feelings are true?

Yes mauli did a mistake by bringing nandini home but what option did she have ? Rajdeep wanted to take her away at any cost and put her back in his cage . If mauli kept her at some other place rajdeep could have attacked her anytime and at that moment, nandini did not have the guts to face him . But eventually when mauli realized that nandini has got the courage to start a new life, she did help nandini with a new home .

Mauli was pushing kunal towards nandini ? We live in a society where we interact with the opposite sex every day . Be it our friend circle or at work or neighbourhood . So if kunal was an actor or gynaec or model , he should be excused for sleeping around ? Then he would be in touch with lots of beautiful females so for how long can one control their urges? Mauli asked him to help nandini , if he could not control his hormones it's not maulis fault .

Definetly kunal and mauli are not meant to be and mauli must abandon these losers and move on . Don't know how easy or difficult it would be in real life

No hard feelings..please feel free to post anytime ..

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alovi_21

@alovi_21

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Nice post, here ppl are not thinking about all 3 char n situation , most of the bashing post due to they want to think about one char only n show should be ethical correct in that case no show is ethical correct, ema no body support ,if enjoying the show doesn't mean they are supporting ema.they are taking as show for entertainment n watching the show with open mind to giving chance to understand each n every char. But show concepts was like that when we started watching w e were knowing its will happen but how thats what we want to know so not cmg here again n again crying n bashing.so much negativity ,some ppl policy na hum enjoy karenge na tumko karne denge.

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naq5

@naq5

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: WaveTeal
Now, Here comes the difference between FALLING IN LOVE and CHEATING.

I completely agree with you on the fact that if somehow someone has fallen in love within a committed phase then they shall come clean to their spouses rather than playing hide and seek. No way shall someone be trapped into a relationship.

However, let's focus on what's cheating?? Today's episode showed that Mauli is alone and Kunal hugging Nandini, having tea. It was unnecessary. If you are in love, and sure about it, your feelings are pure then just go and confess to your spouse in a mature manner. But see this can't happen here because Kunal faked everything with Mauli. They don't even have any fight, argument or soreness which can lead him towards a fast divulgence. He rather shows everything is fine. That's called cheating. He kept the hope of love alive in Mauli's heart yet hugging Nandini in Mauli's distress. If he would have told Mauli before taking his relationship with Nandini further then that would have been way better!!

For eg : Kunal is engaged to Mauli. But falls for Nandini and decides to confess.
Sounds really familiar right??
In marital bonding this is way more difficult as a written contract is involved. But still things could be handled in a mature and mutual way. No need to act desperate.

If Kunal is in love with someone else then he should confide his wife in. But what he does? He firstly confirms from Nandini's side. Why so?? What if Kunal would have been fallen one sided for Nandini. According to your logic then also he should have left his wife. Because we don't want him to be trapped in a relationship right? But would Kunal have left his wife at that circumstances?? Now sounds a bit more hypocritical, isn't it??

Having said all this, the main issue which is causing audience to backlash is that they are trying to portray a grey/ black act of EMA as something pure, white and divine!!

At the end of it EMA is wrong, utterly despicable!! No matter what justification the cvs give but they shall not portray or brainwash viewers by projecting this whole disgusting vile act as something innocent and pure!!

(I am not even going to the details how this adds into another fold of disgust because Mauli who is the victim of ema here is stabbed by her own best friend or the fact how poorly the script is written!!)

I can go on and on about more but for now this shall suffice!!

Thanks!!!

👏👏

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nammytat

@nammytat

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

Hi...ive always been a silent reader but today I felt I should probably say what I think. There is no condoning what KuNan are doing but for some reasons to them its not wrong.
Lets start with Nandini..throughout her marriage she was treated like a property by her husband and she never got his support in anything. She didn't know it was possible to have a support of a man and she got that from Kunal. It didn't matter what, he was there for her provided for just a short while but he was. Its human nature to want that for yourself...its sad that she found that in her best friend's husband but she found it and thats why that line which she wasn't supposed to cross got blurred.
With Kunal maybe its true he realised how he felt during that barish moment but I don't think that's the only thing that made him feel what he feels for her...Mauli is a very nice beautiful and strong girl who doesn't show her weakness and likes to be in control and maybe that's what the problem is with their relationship which is stupid I know but men like to be needed for small small things and they like damsels in distress which happens to be Nandini to the T. Its not about her qualities or preferences and choices but her fragility. With Nandini,Kunal feels needed and in control of their relationship while with Mauli he takes the back seat and she controls the relationship. Problems don't have to be yelling and fighting with each other. There are those psychological ones like the ones Kunal and Mauli are facing which re way worse that the normal spats..He tried so hard to make it work but his heart has already registers that there is someone who will treat him better than his wife so there is no going back for him. He will find any way to justify it and at the end if the day it might be the best thing for him no matter how immoral it is to the society. I am not saying this because I think, I am saying it because I've seen it before. My husband left me because I was in control and I wasn't fragile. I fought it at the beginning but I finally understood that he was no longer my husband for a long while, the signs were all there but I was the one who didn't want to see those signs just like Mauli is ignoring all the signs that her husband is not the same person but she justifies it by saying she doesn't spend enough time with him. It may be a bitter pill to swallow but somehow its that grey area where it might not be right but its not wrong.

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-Lehar-

@-Lehar-

Inactive

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: alovi_21
Nice post, here ppl are not thinking about all 3 char n situation , most of the bashing post due to they want to think about one char only n show should be ethical correct in that case no show is ethical correct, ema no body support ,if enjoying the show doesn't mean they are supporting ema.they are taking as show for entertainment n watching the show with open mind to giving chance to understand each n every char. But show concepts was like that when we started watching w e were knowing its will happen but how thats what we want to know so not cmg here again n again crying n bashing.so much negativity ,some ppl policy na hum enjoy karenge na tumko karne denge.

Very well said...They want to see whole show from once certain character and that's it...

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