Dynamic of Mauli Nandani and Kunal (what went wrong and why?) - Page 2

Originally posted by: pamk06

I don't think Kunal feelings were random. His feelings started with attraction during the dance and from that day he started seeing her as a woman rather than Mauli friends. From then on he started seeing in her the qualities which may be he wanted in a wife as Mauli always claimed that Nandini has all qualities that Kunal wanted. Then, every time he tried to control his feelings circumstances worked the other way such fear when he thought she went back to Rajdeep, jealousy when she dance with her friend, relization that she reciprocated his feelings or Mauli forcing him to help Nandini and his feelings grew. I will not say it love yet but it is defiantly much more than attraction.

Also, I don't think their long talks were about deceiving Mauli or of sweet nothings. Their talks have always been about separation and what is right which was their mind thinking. If they did not do the eye locks how would we as viewers see the fight between heart and mind. I am not saying they are right but the dedication is where they come back to the right side. I mean they were locked in a room but they did not give into their feelings till they were in a life threatening situation.

Also, this is just my view as a viewer.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

if beautiful is main reason of feelings then he would have keep photo of Nandini and keep looking at her

I think it is over protective nature of Kunal for Nandini which makes Kunal think about Nandini

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Kunal emotions only come when something bad happens to Nandini other Wise if really love beautiful girls then he will visit 7 star hotel dailywhere girls r dancing and beautiful and entertaining customer

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

@music_lover36 - I also wonder if nandini is truly in love with kunal or just on a rebound. she went through a traumatic time. someone showed her kindness and it has turned into love.

as for kunal, it is not about whether mauli is a bad wife but his kindness and soft corner has turned into affection/concern and now love. during the dance, he all of a sudden realized that she was a woman.

in most dramas where the guy ends up leaving his wife, she is always shown as this bad person who was trying to steal from the family or some nonsense like that. the wife is a sort of vamp/villain character.

here mauli is actually a good person but she is quite bossy. is being bossy a flaw? it actually depends on the person. the fight about the electrician -- kunal said she was making him feel small. it may have been something he felt before but never expressed. for him, her making the decisions and expecting him to follow might have felt like she was not giving him respect.

whereas for another man with a very independent personality, it might be interpreted as a good wife, someone who lessens the burden. that kind of personality would hate someone like nandini and find her too clingy and exhausting. so really, it depends on the need of the person.

the problem is that we are often not aware of our needs and find it difficult to express or articulate them. we could argue that if this was a problem, kunal should have expressed it earlier but it may be that before nandini came into his life, he didn't know that he needed to express his protective instinct and feel that he was respected. it may not have even struck him and it may have been something he was vaguely unhappy about but just adjusted...