Disclaimer- Abstain from commenting if you intend to make this post a battle ground. No bashing acceptable to anyone. Talk strictly about characters.
Since Kunal is not a character that goes well with my understanding, I want the ladies of this show Mauli & Nandini making the final decision of their respective relationships & future as well.
So, for Kunal apparently 5 years of blissful marriage is a "Purana Farz/Karz". Someone please show this guy a mirror.
Atleast Nandini has the decency of realizing how wrong she is going, Kunal on the other hand is on a completely different level. Literally forcing Nandini to think & accept her conflicted feelings about him when she wants to refrain from doing it. Nandu has a right to fight her feelings without being forced to accept them. She has a chance to do the unconventional.
1. I have literally no problem with KuNan. But it better gets started with a closure. Sooner they get it, better it will be. Allow Mauli to have a closure & take her final decision herself. Neither Kunal nor Nandini have to make a decision for her or on her behalf. Allow Mauli to face this bitter truth and move on from it. The more they keep her in dark, more hurt she will be when she comes to know of it eventually. I would have been more than happy of Nandini would have talked to Mauli about this, that would have been true girl friend power, but it's least likely to happen. CVs will show it in typical way. Both of them should take time to think & introspect themselves in this matter, more so Nandini because of her sensibility and maturity on the level of woman, a friend & a divorcee who herself faced the betrayal which is clearly lacking in Kunal in this case.
2. Also, Nandini should think before getting with Kunal. She has been bitten once in the institution of marriage & Kunal himself doesn't come with a clean record. Just because Kunal isn't as sadistic & abusive doesn't change the fact that he had a change of heart in overnight about a marriage of 5 years & on the top of that he is pushing it too somehow. And this needs to be kept in mind when you decide to enter into a relationship again. Nandini is not so modern women who could just discard everything & say that certain things didn't work. The guilt that it happened because of her is going to be with her for a really long time. Kunal's feelings wouldn't have died anyway since he already was past his limits, but Nandu's would have had Kunal been not so remorseful about his marriage with Mauli. Kunal literally makes his marriage like some sin in front of Nandu, something that should anger her like hell in the first place, had CVs made it a remarkable thing where for a change a friend stood for her friend.
How wonderful & fresh would have it been if CVs had shown Nandini to be not acting on impulse of her newly developed feelings & rather be concentrated on making a strong place for herself in this world but CVs had to go typical way. It would have been so different if makers had shown Nandini to be confronting Kunal for his supposed feelings even when he was in a beautiful commitment but that could have happened only before Nandini had forced realization of feelings on that trip. I would have loved fierce Nandini in this matter. Since promos showed differently, so no comment.
I probably shouldn't say it if guys can follow the motto of "bros before hoes", then ladies can have a similar motto too. Last time Nandini didn't choose Mauli over Rajdeep & Mauli left silently to not turn back ever. I hope this time, these ladies choose each other, i.e. Nandini chooses Mauli and Mauli too stands with Nandu if Kunal on his insane impulse lent out his feelings for her & leave Kunal to introspect some things in his lie. This guy needs to get his head cleared of certain confusion he is facing.
It could have been so wonderful to have shown women standing for each other had CVs not tried to introduce this track in such a ridiculous ways. Please don't come up with the argument that we don't know what will happen in the future, given the history with ITV, I think we all can see where this track might head in disastrous ways with all that true love, destiny thingy.
Makers are most likely to eventually succumb to the popular opinion of lead characters getting together & not showing a different side to such complicated relationships where women choose to stand for themselves at last. And thus this post is a wishful thinking of mine.
I wouldn't want the blame game between ladies. It's Kunal who started this Silsila.
For the tag line of the show, "Juzzbat sahi ya galat ni hote, Juzzbat bs juzzbat hote hn", in my opinion is a little overrated, considering that some juzzbats are inherently dangerous in the first place because they have the power to result in grave actions & consequences if acted upon & even thought to be acting upon.
Again, read the disclaimer properly & adhere to it.
Edited by arshi_asya - 7 years ago