What this serial is teaching us

What this serial is teaching us

1.

. Don't spend money on your daughter to make her a doctor or else you will not have enough money when your son will need it.

2. A girl is for sasural. She earns for her sasural not for her parents. So what's the need to teach her? Spend your love and money for sons only because he will earn money for you.

3. Bahu should earn money and take care of the house even if son is nikamma, everyone in the family sleeps and eats and do nothing bahu should come home and cook and take care of house. After all bahu is bahu and this is the duty of bahu to work at home.

I am absolutely not impressed by Kunal's character( not Shakti...his character). In fact he is worse than Rajdeep. This guy leaves job because he doesn't have the guts to stand up against clinic's rules. How about work there and change the prescription of patients, cut all the unnecessary tests...uske baad authority keya karega dekha jayega...fire him? Court hai na. But this noble guy doesn't have the guts to do all these. He can only act like a coward , leave the job, dump his family's pressure on wife's shoulder, take no responsibility of his family or her family. Damad sirf naam ka nehi, kaam ka bhi hona chahiye . He has responsibility for wife's family too. That's why damad is called "Jamai Raja. Or else who respects a nikamma damad even if he is a Doctor and has sympathy for rest of the world. But at home he is also a manipulator like Randeep. Randeep slaps with hand , Kunal slaps with love...emotional blackmailing. Maulii will work whole day at clinic and at home. After that she must give some time for him and dance at the terrace...which working girl got this patience and energy? How is he better than Rajdeep?

4.

A wife is a wife ...more like slave. Although during the shaadi a man and a woman takes vow that " in good and bad they will stand for each other, he will be her shield...protect her take responsibility. Wife does house works because husbands do the outside jobs. Being a female doctor is for her social cause and duty. An educated girl has a responsibility for her society too. That doesn't mean she will earn and take responsibility of a husband and his family too. "kitchen mein keya jaroorat hai...he can't make that list too? Mauli has to do that too? What is the need of this kind of gadha pati then? Naa toh paisa kamate hai naa kitchen smabhal naa aa taa hai. After quitting the job what the great humanitarian work this guy is doing? Saturday mein bhi wify needs to work...is he blind?

It's not that Naindini is the only tortured one here. Mauli is also tortured. Ek gets thappad physically another emotionally. One can cry. Another can't cry. Everyone sees how Nandini is tortured, no one sees how Mauli is tortured. But yes these two female characters are very common characters of our society. Nandini a very simple girl, who lives in the world of Ramayan. Jab Raam tha pati and Seeta thi patni. They believe if they keep suffering the world will change someday. But aisa kucch hota nehi. Mauli is today's tortured modern woman... they too believe that if they keep sacrificing the world will change. But aisa bhi nehi hogi. Like Nandini's pati Mauli's pati will also turn bad. After all what a man will do when he has no work at home or at office, no responsibility , just khao , piyo and payar karo. Wify toh office mein busy hai...so aao uski saheli hi sahi. He will do exactly what Nandini's hubby tried to do with Mauli may be slowly but matlab wohi hoga. But the question is will Mauli do the same like Nandini? ------throw Nandini out and support her hubby?

No matter what both loses. As Mauli's hubby Kunal is not a trophy husband.

5. Never help someone in need because if you help her she will snatch your pati. Even if you see her hurt and abused keep ignoring her.

After a break up every man and woman go through a mental trauma. They think they are trash and they are not capable for love and they have no respect. At that point it is very possible for any man and woman to fall in love with a wrong person or anyone they get . But it is not a love actually. Love doesn't come with condition. You can't take someone as lover just because you are miserable. As when this will be over neither Nandini nor Mauli's hubby will feel any attraction for each other in reality. As long as a person is capable to feel she/he is enough for his/herself after the breakup and gets the self respect ...they are still sick and not cured. Whatever they will do at that time is because of their insecurity and for the effect of breakup. In here who is the other person ...doesn't matter. This is definitely not love. This is more like a glass of wine. Madira payar nehi. That is just a dawai.

In promo we saw Nandini saying "bure shaadi ko bhulna assan nehi. That's what her problem is. She needs to forget that first. After that if she is a lover, she will be loved. Love is friendship too. Breaking friend's love story to repair her "bure shaadi ko bhulna assan nehi is not love. Mauli's hubby is a just a jerk. I have no sympathy for him. If your love or shaadi is so weak that it can break up so easily or get troubled...you don't know what love is and in this much immaturity don't get married.

By the way I am loving acting of all the major leads. Sp Drasti is doing fabulous work. In fact if this was not Drasti I would just get irritated by her character Nandini. She is helping to bring sympathy for Nandini . Most probably after Geet(GHSP) this will be the most challenging role for her. Although as far as Indian viewers I am afraid she will very soon get lots of hate notes...as in our society dusree awrat is never respected and all the blames belongs to her. Where Shakti may get sympathy from some ...bechara pati. In every 56seconds an average guy thinks about a girl. So a bekar , nikamma guy may fall in love with anyone. Iss mein bari baat keya hai? Shakti is a strong actor and I am hoping to see a good work from him with Drasti. Abhinav as usual doing justice to his character. He is looking just like the moron guy he is playing, I'd say perfect...so all the best for him.

I agree the story is very realistic. All the 4characters also live in our society. So this kind of shit happens.

I am 100% sure they will never show this... but how about both Nandini and Mauli dumps the two jerk and moron? Both male characters( Kunal and Rajdeep...not Shakti or Abhinav) are disgusting. The girls should just tie both the guys with the same rope and put both in a single bag and kick them off from a hill😆😆...

then date with some hotties like Abhinav and Shakti ...date only no love no shaadi. 😆

This kind of stories just ruins the mood to marry or fall in love with guys. 😡

Originally posted by: jhalak7

I am 100% sure they will never show this... but how about both Nandini and Mauli dumps the two jerk and moron? Both male characters( Kunal and Rajdeep...not Shakti or Abhinav) are disgusting. The girls should just tie both the guys with the same rope
and put both in a single bag and kick them off from a hill😆😆...then date with some hotties like Abhinav and Shakti ...date only no love no shaadi. 😆

Originally posted by: jhalak7

What this serial is teaching us

1.

. Don't spend money on your daughter to make her a doctor or else you will not have enough money when your son will need it. - Moly's mother is so selfish.

2. A girl is for sasural. She earns for her sasural not for her parents. So what's the need to teach her? Spend your love and money for sons only because he will earn money for you. - Mouli do spend money on her brother her in laws are decent.

3. Bahu should earn money and take care of the house even if son is nikamma, everyone in the family sleeps and eats and do nothing bahu should come home and cook and take care of house. After all bahu is bahu and this is the duty of bahu to work at home. - Mauli is like all of us trying to overdo. But it does not pay her at end. Husband will show excuse you did not have time for me.

I am absolutely not impressed by Kunal's character( not Shakti...his character). In fact he is worse than Rajdeep. This guy leaves job because he doesn't have the guts to stand up against clinic's rules. How about work there and change the prescription of patients, cut all the unnecessary tests...uske baad authority keya karega dekha jayega...fire him? Court hai na. But this noble guy doesn't have the guts to do all these. He can only act like a coward , leave the job, dump his family's pressure on wife's shoulder, take no responsibility of his family or her family. Damad sirf naam ka nehi, kaam ka bhi hona chahiye . He has responsibility for wife's family too. That's why damad is called "Jamai Raja. Or else who respects a nikamma damad even if he is a Doctor and has sympathy for rest of the world. But at home he is also a manipulator like Randeep. Randeep slaps with hand , Kunal slaps with love...emotional blackmailing. Maulii will work whole day at clinic and at home. After that she must give some time for him and dance at the terrace...which working girl got this patience and energy? How is he better than Rajdeep?

Kunal is 'osul' person. He is quite impractical dreams without reality. I want to see how does his osul hold good when he justifies his feelings for Nandini. IProbably blame glame Mouli loves her proffession.

4.

A wife is a wife ...more like slave. Although during the shaadi a man and a woman takes vow that " in good and bad they will stand for each other, he will be her shield...protect her take responsibility. Wife does house works because husbands do the outside jobs. Being a female doctor is for her social cause and duty. An educated girl has a responsibility for her society too. That doesn't mean she will earn and take responsibility of a husband and his family too. "kitchen mein keya jaroorat hai...he can't make that list too? Mauli has to do that too? What is the need of this kind of gadha pati then? Naa toh paisa kamate hai naa kitchen smabhal naa aa taa hai. After quitting the job what the great humanitarian work this guy is doing? Saturday mein bhi wify needs to work...is he blind?

It's not that Naindini is the only tortured one here. Mauli is also tortured. Ek gets thappad physically another emotionally. One can cry. Another can't cry. Everyone sees how Nandini is tortured, no one sees how Mauli is tortured. But yes these two female characters are very common characters of our society. Nandini a very simple girl, who lives in the world of Ramayan. Jab Raam tha pati and Seeta thi patni. They believe if they keep suffering the world will change someday. But aisa kucch hota nehi. Mauli is today's tortured modern woman... they too believe that if they keep sacrificing the world will change. But aisa bhi nehi hogi. Like Nandini's pati Mauli's pati will also turn bad. After all what a man will do when he has no work at home or at office, no responsibility , just khao , piyo and payar karo. Wify toh office mein busy hai...so aao uski saheli hi sahi. He will do exactly what Nandini's hubby tried to do with Mauli may be slowly but matlab wohi hoga. But the question is will Mauli do the same like Nandini? ------throw Nandini out and support her hubby?

No matter what both loses. As Mauli's hubby Kunal is not a trophy husband.

5. Never help someone in need because if you help her she will snatch your pati. Even if you see her hurt and abused keep ignoring her.

Bang on - Bekar Paati Abala dost dono ke pas kaam nehi nein toh pyar karo.

After a break up every man and woman go through a mental trauma. They think they are trash and they are not capable for love and they have no respect. At that point it is very possible for any man and woman to fall in love with a wrong person or anyone they get . But it is not a love actually. Love doesn't come with condition. You can't take someone as lover just because you are miserable. As when this will be over neither Nandini nor Mauli's hubby will feel any attraction for each other in reality. As long as a person is capable to feel she/he is enough for his/herself after the breakup and gets the self respect ...they are still sick and not cured. Whatever they will do at that time is because of their insecurity and for the effect of breakup. In here who is the other person ...doesn't matter. This is definitely not love. This is more like a glass of wine. Madira payar nehi. That is just a dawai.

In promo we saw Nandini saying "bure shaadi ko bhulna assan nehi. That's what her problem is. She needs to forget that first. After that if she is a lover, she will be loved. Love is friendship too. Breaking friend's love story to repair her "bure shaadi ko bhulna assan nehi is not love. Mauli's hubby is a just a jerk. I have no sympathy for him. If your love or shaadi is so weak that it can break up so easily or get troubled...you don't know what love is and in this much immaturity don't get married.

Is there only one way to forget bad marriage kisi aur ki pati ko pyar karo. I feel like slapping Nandini in the promo. Though what has happened with her is bad.

By the way I am loving acting of all the major leads. Sp Drasti is doing fabulous work. In fact if this was not Drasti I would just get irritated by her character Nandini. She is helping to bring sympathy for Nandini . Most probably after Geet(GHSP) this will be the most challenging role for her. Although as far as Indian viewers I am afraid she will very soon get lots of hate notes...as in our society dusree awrat is never respected and all the blames belongs to her. Where Shakti may get sympathy from some ...bechara pati. In every 56seconds an average guy thinks about a girl. So a bekar , nikamma guy may fall in love with anyone. Iss mein bari baat keya hai? Shakti is a strong actor and I am hoping to see a good work from him with Drasti. Abhinav as usual doing justice to his character. He is looking just like the moron guy he is playing, I'd say perfect...so all the best for him.

I agree the story is very realistic. All the 4characters also live in our society. So this kind of shit happens.

I am 100% sure they will never show this... but how about both Nandini and Mauli dumps the two jerk and moron? Both male characters( Kunal and Rajdeep...not Shakti or Abhinav) are disgusting. The girls should just tie both the guys with the same rope and put both in a single bag and kick them off from a hill😆😆...

then date with some hotties like Abhinav and Shakti ...date only no love no shaadi. 😆

This kind of stories just ruins the mood to marry or fall in love with guys. 😡

Originally posted by: Nandini30

Originally posted by: 55sasa55

See that's what I hate, when people bash characters based on actors. I said this before in my earlier post too. It's obvious fans will support the characters their fav is playing. But I really hope they don justify the scenes where Kunal and Nandini will have feelings for each other or wish for unrealistic things like their romance scenes 🤢

But Nandini is Nandini, a not so brave woman. She is always gullible. I hope she doesn't stay the same way in future. If they really going to show just feelings then it's fine.

But I don't like the idea of Kunal feeling something. Cos even if they hide it for Mauli, one day she will bound to know. I really can't see Mauli heartbroken again especially with Nandini hurting her again.