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Posted: 13 years ago
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I've just started watching this show, and I must say, after yesterday's episode, I don't think I'll be watching anymore.

I have received these messages: (1) Go have sex with a married woman on the night of your marriage to another. (2) Barter your daughters like they're dry goods on a shelf. If the boy's family doesn't like the first one, they can put her back, and request one with a better expiry date. (3) Marry any man who offers, because that is best you'll ever get. Don't wait for someone who is not in love with your sister. Don't wait for someone who is respectful and as gentle as your deserve.

My problem with this show, is that it claims to fight such behaviour, when it doesn't. I've seen quite a few shows which claim to fight injustice against women, but end up only promoting it. Like in Mann Ke Awaz Pratigya, Krishna's brother was extremely abusive, and even tried to murder his wife, but then suddenly everything was alright. People like that don't just turn a leaf in real life. They stay that way. And if a woman wants to live, she has to leave. Sticking around in hopes that her husband will miraculously change is dangerous, and promotion of such a view is unfair to society as a whole. But the same will happen here.

Watch, Eijaz's character will fall in love, and that love will miraculously turn him into a good guy. How does that, in any way, fight injustice against women? I know its just 26 episodes old, but so far, the men pull the strings, and the women puppets dance to their tunes. Even Madan is a disappointment. I still can't get over that scene where he yelled at all the sisters (telling one to sit up straight) and then stormed out.

The reality of this show is, the protagonist slaps his brother for showing the tiniest bit of concern for him, doesn't think anything of adultery, and neglects and slaps his wife.The last is what turned me off. I don't think I'll be watching anymore. I feel bad for the cast, they were probably told that this is a progressive and positive show, but its not. Its has cheap gimmicks and OMG moments galore, but when it comes to actual meaningful scenes, it has none.
Here's Shubh Vivah's recipe: Dictatorial men (who order, abuse, and neglect the women) + Strong Women (but strength is defined in terms of "self-respect"-- the quietly put up with everything type, because that is a women's lot in life) = ratings. It claims to have a social agenda, but it doesn't. Nothing I've seen so far has convinced me otherwise.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Charishma

I've just started watching this show, and I must say, after yesterday's episode, I don't think I'll be watching anymore.

I have received these messages: (1) Go have sex with a married woman on the night of your marriage to another. (2) Barter your daughters like they're dry goods on a shelf. If the boy's family doesn't like the first one, they can put her back, and request one with a better expiry date. (3) Marry any man who offers, because that is best you'll ever get. Don't wait for someone who is not in love with your sister. Don't wait for someone who is respectful and as gentle as your deserve.

My problem with this show, is that it claims to fight such behaviour, when it doesn't. I've seen quite a few shows which claim to fight injustice against women, but end up only promoting it. Like in Mann Ke Awaz Pratigya, Krishna's brother was extremely abusive, and even tried to murder his wife, but then suddenly everything was alright. People like that don't just turn a leaf in real life. They stay that way. And if a woman wants to live, she has to leave. Sticking around in hopes that her husband will miraculously change is dangerous, and promotion of such a view is unfair to society as a whole. But the same will happen here.

Watch, Eijaz's character will fall in love, and that love will miraculously turn him into a good guy. How does that, in any way, fight injustice against women? I know its just 26 episodes old, but so far, the men pull the strings, and the women puppets dance to their tunes. Even Madan is a disappointment. I still can't get over that scene where he yelled at all the sisters (telling one to sit up straight) and then stormed out.

The reality of this show is, the protagonist slaps his brother for showing the tiniest bit of concern for him, doesn't think anything of adultery, and neglects and slaps his wife.The last is what turned me off. I don't think I'll be watching anymore. I feel bad for the cast, they were probably told that this is a progressive and positive show, but its not. Its has cheap gimmicks and OMG moments galore, but when it comes to actual meaningful scenes, it has none.
Here's Shubh Vivah's recipe: Dictatorial men (who order, abuse, and neglect the women) + Strong Women (but strength is defined in terms of "self-respect"-- the quietly put up with everything type, because that is a women's lot in life) = ratings. It claims to have a social agenda, but it doesn't. Nothing I've seen so far has convinced me otherwise.



It jus ur normal daily dose of Indian serials then 😆 only this is done in a different way but outcome be the same, Husband will love wife and have suhaag raht months, even years later, wife is to scared of husband and doesnt stand on her own too feet when fightin back, i beg the creatives to make Saroj strong and knock Amrit out with a left hook 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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by showing this kind of serial where husband sleeps with other woman and later wife will be fine and forgive...what a crap..and this guy ezah khan he looks ugly i dont know but his face is worst...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bapatel81

by showing this kind of serial where husband sleeps with other woman and later wife will be fine and forgive...what a crap..and this guy ezah khan he looks ugly i dont know but his face is worst...


who is EZAH? 😕. If ur referrin to EIJAZ i suggest u don make abusive comments about him as it is against rules and i am sure no matter how much the serial has wrong doings, the audience are mature enough not to copy and if they do copy, then they really need to live in the real world. It is fiction only
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Posted: 13 years ago
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its E I J A Z not EZAH as for ugly hmmm looks like to me u only go by looks of actors and not the storyline if u don like at all why watch the serial? and yes believe it or not there are guys like Amrit in this damn world so maybe because its not your cup of tea because its not your average boy meets girl and fall in love type of story then
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Posted: 13 years ago
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and i suggest u refrain from using abusive language near future because u will be banned
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i request the topic maker not to use such language and make such topics...if u don't like the show just don't watch it its simple ...eijaz is not ugly looking he is playing a role like that of a simple guy of u.p u can't see him in formals here😆 ..i m liking him as he is dressed according to his character here...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinuchinu

i request the topic maker not to use such language and make such topics...if u don't like the show just don't watch it its simple ...eijaz is not ugly looking he is playing a role like that of a simple guy of u.p u can't see him in formals here😆 ..i m liking him as he is dressed according to his character here...


The topic maker did not use foul language or bash an actor. He/she brought up an interesting topic that is relevant in many of the dramas on TV. I also thought it was sad and ridiculous to see something like this on Sony, a channel that broadcasts non typical dramas. I was also disgusted by how Amrit slapped Saroj after coming back from his mistress.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: megustajalebi


The topic maker did not use foul language or bash an actor. He/she brought up an interesting topic that is relevant in many of the dramas on TV. I also thought it was sad and ridiculous to see something like this on Sony, a channel that broadcasts non typical dramas. I was also disgusted by how Amrit slapped Saroj after coming back from his mistress.


m just saying that if u don't like watching the show don't watch it...its as simple as that
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well First of all...My point is that all of the serials we watch on TV are somehow inspires by real life...
The things which are showed in the show is happening around us in daily life too...
It is said that the artists(Painters,Writers and Directors) Are good Observers...So The things they observe reflects in their creations...
The examples given by the tppic maker can be seen in real life if we open a single news channel...
As well as Amrit is concerned then it is an another masterpiece of Eijaz,He is doing that character by filling true colours of life..That's why we don't like Amrit..But Even some people who like Eijaz before are loving him...

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