DOTW:Marriage A Blessing Or A Curse

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi and Hello SVians

Iam Here With DOTW Too And Some Serious DOTW

So Presenting

DOTW:Marriage A Blessing Or A Curse

As The Show Is All About The Disasters Of Marriages Thats Why Subject For The DOTW Is Serious One.

Somewhere I have heard that marriages are made in heaven is it true if it is why stil there are thousands of complains of domestic violences over one or the other reason.Why?

If To Be Believed The Storyline of mallu series the life after marriage of all the sisters will be hell they wil get tortured all their life.

Most Of The Women Becomes Target Of Domestic Violences Cos Of Dowry (dahej) Reason Even At This Time Woman Has To Bear Hell Its HeartWrenching.

The Second Major Reason Why Woman Gets Beaten,Tortured,Harrassed By Her Husband Is The Child Reason This Is The Mentality Of Mens Of Villages And Sometimes In Cities Also They Want A Boy Only And If They Couldn Get It It Results In Stated Above.

Mr.Saxena Is Good Father No Doubt But He Is Surely Doing Mistake By Hiding The things From all The Gals.


So My Questions Which To Be Discussed Are

Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse?

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System?

Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only A Boy Is Needed To Run Generations?

Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why?

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place?

Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage?

Keep Discussing,Keep Rocking.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i will giv simple answers ...😛

Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse?

Blessing

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System?

in our religion its imp giv to girls but had tak hoti hai had se zyada nahii ...😊 here is diff so i dnt know 😕

Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only A Boy Is Needed To Run Generations?

bhejafry Idiots ...😆

Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why?

yes bcz luckily she is not in love already..so its easy for her... most imp if the boy is a gr8 human and ..that what she and her father think abt Amrit 😉

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place?

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Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage?

shd b same but with more happiness...😛😳

Keep Discussing,Keep Rocking.


Edited by sakeenaLuvEK-KM - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arsh4life

Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse? Technically its meant 2 b a blessing, a beautiful bond which ties not only two people but also two families 2geva bt unfortunately nowadays its no longer the case with majority of people...

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System? against it...originally dowry was limited 2 necessities, so things which wer necessary given by a father to his daughter out of his OWN will. but nowadays in 21st century evry household has items of necessities themselves so they reali dnt need their D-I-L bringing dowry...also nowadays its becum mre of a demand by boys side rather than a gift the girl's parents want and are able 2 giv... 😕

Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only A Boy Is Needed To Run Generations? these ppl r sick...i dnt wna go 2 much in2 it as this is 1 topic i gt worked up with... its sad 2 think ppl like this stil exist...my ? 2 thm is...wer wud boys cum from if girls didnt exist😡😡😡😡😡😡

Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why? i'll cum bk 2 this

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place? i'll cum bk 2 this

Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage? i'll cum bk 2 this

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse?
marriage is blessing with the right person otherwise its curse

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System?
m agianst it😡 ..parents who give anything with their happiness to their daughter thats their love ..but when boy's parents demands its ridiculous 😡


Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only A Boy Is Needed To Run Generations?
in todays time this is surprising😔 how ppl differenciate between boy and girl ...as yuvika said wer wud boys come from if girls didn't exist😡..
Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why?
yes saroj is doing right as a daughter

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place?
i would have also done the same as saroj
Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage?
life after marriage should not b changed much as her own parents her husband's parents should also give love n care to her..and her husband's brother or sis also should give love n respect to her as her own bro. n sis..this way a girls life and her husband's life will become more beautiful after marriage...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse?

^ I dont really know :P It can go both ways depending on your partner AND his family

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System?

Does it still exist? lol its highly unethical :P I would take money from the guy (for us we make the dude do all our shopping so yeah :P The indian system needs to change if it still goes on)

Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only A Boy Is Needed To Run Generations?

I kinda agree, coz the girls change their name after marriage however that does not mean girls are any less, it just means that the son of the house carries the family name on

Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why?

She isn't doing anything is she? She's just doing what her dad says.

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place?

I would have probably shouted at my dad and forced him to decline the whole thing

Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage?

However she wants it to be

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse?

It's a blessing😳

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System?

I think There should be only few things which would be useful for a girl's future in Dowry..

Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only A Boy Is Needed To Run Generations?

They HAVE NO MENTALITY Actually

Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why?

She is doing right bcoz she is obeying her father..

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place?

Will do the same...😆

Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage?

Shud be same...

But with more love and hapiness😳❤️


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Posted: 13 years ago
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So My Questions Which To Be Discussed Are

Q.1.What Is Marriage According To You A Blessing Or Curse? Could go either way, u will never know until ur married, mines is a blessing 😳 If a person is allowed their own choice of partner and DIDN'T stay with husbands family after marriage then that has a bigger chance of being a blessings, families interfere too much.

Q.2.Whats Your Take On Dowry System? Don belive in it

Q.3.What You Think About The Mentality Of The People When They Think Only Boy Is Needed To Run Generations? very stupid mentality, women dominate businesses nowadays, we in 21st century

Q.4.Do You Think Saroj Is Doing Right?If Yes Or NO?Why? she did wrong, yes children should respect their parents but parents should also respect their children and their decisions, a child should never be emotionally blackmailed to risk their life for sake of parents. When we born we become individuals and yes our parents did look after us but did we ask to be created ? so should never use that as an excuse. but she did right based on it is Eijaz's character she marrying 😆

Q.5.What You Would Have Done If You Would Have Been At Saroj's Place? i would of said no but that is because i am not afraid to tell my parents how i want to live my life and whom i want to marry and my parents respect me for that 😃

Q.6.How Life Of A Gal Should Be After Marriage? A girl should be given extra love from her husband and also should give her husband love, arguments happen in every relationship and will always happen but if a women runs home crying and complainin at every argument, then that is not good

Keep Discussing,Keep Rocking.

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