Was Anokhi's behavior so wrong as Kanchan claimed? - Page 4

Originally posted by: sree07

its just the different perspectives. As per kanjan, Anokhi didnt trust Shaurya. Kanjan knows Shaurya loves only Anokh. Kanjan may not know Anokhi’s state of mind. In the opposite side its Babli di who does not know how much Shaurya loves Anokhi, so obviously Babli will see only Anokhi’s broken heart not Shaurya’s desperation. Both of them are not wrong. its just the difference in their perspectives

Also.. I felt.. more than blame.. Kanchan was trying to convey/warn this to Anokhi that DM is really evil and she doesn't things without Shaurya's knowledge.. and this is how it's going to be in future as well..

So, Anokhi really needs to trust and listen to Shaurya only and ignore what others..

DM aur Apshagun ko chodke .. everyone is right. Reasons below:

1. Anokhi - Even though she loves Shaurya and trusts his feelings for her.. she was heartbroken as Shaurya didn't take stand for her... So.. her actions were fully justified. Her insecurities emerging from Financial and Class differences and also Shaurya's family not approving of her - are perfectly placed from Anokhis POV.

2. Shaurya - Poor fellow.. he is never able to execute what he plans.. it won't be wrong to say.. he never really got time to address Anokhis insecurities.. even though he voiced his feelings in haste to make her comfortable.. he couldn't has his first date, then later Babli came in.. and then BM😡😡.. Shaurya's biggest weakness is he doesn't expect his own family members to stoop so low. So, coming to bday party.. first he was shell shocked himself and then most important he didn't want to confront BM in public.. which is fair enough.. but later he spoke to her in very clear terms.. but then there is a communication gap with Anokhi.. somehow Anokhi needs to understand how things work in Sabharwal family.. I guess her Astha mam can help her there... Kanchan would but not so directly.

3. Kanchan - She was blaming Anokhi impulsively more from concern for bed ridden Shaurya and also like putting an alert for her - again trying to tell her this is how things r in Sabharwal mansion and Anokhi really needs to hold tight and act intelligent and just trust Shaurya.. he will take care of everything.

4. BM and Apshagun - do I even need to write about them😡😡😡

Thanks for bringing this up!

Kanchan guilt tripping Anokhi wasn't right when seen from Anokhi's perspective and if you're a viewer interested in Anokhi's story. But if you see from Kanchan's perspective or as a viewer who is invested in Shaurya's story then she wasn't totally wrong.

(I'm trying my best to see this show from a very neutral perspective so I can continue to watch it with the same interest 😆)

Let me give you a very irrelevant but somewhat relatable analogy. Consider a joint family when children from different parents (parents are siblings but the kids in the house are just cousins) are raised together. When two kids fight about something, the parent sees the whole narrative from their kid's perspective. It's human nature. Right or wrong? It's definitely not right but try telling this to the parent!

Anokhi is made to seem helpless and lost about the whole relationship and this is where some viewers (including me) feel disconnected from the original Anokhi - the confident, brave, independent go-getter. (I cannot tolerate that her Goa trip is sponsored by someone else! I know it's the real life situation with the pandemic but writers could have spun something that didn't make her seem like she's using Kanchan's money for her vacation).

But let's cut her some slack because she's in love for the first time and I know some strong women who fell weak in love but only a matter of time before they rose stronger than ever! So fingers crossed to see her stand tall and strong. But for that to happen Shaurya should make her feel secure and trust their relationship. So far he has made some efforts but didn't pull the right strings. I don't think he should have stood frozen through the BM announcement. When he wakes from his long slumber let's hope he does something wise!

I feel bad for Shaurya too because he's insecure himself because of his baggage and that's why there is a gap. He is bound by the shackles of fake love around him - love that is just masked debt.

I'm curious to see how these two people fill those gaps and forge their fort, strong enough so no BM or Shagun can break them apart.

I think that the entire sequence of Kanchan "guilt-tripping "Anokhi was put in as a "reminder" sequence so when Shagun tries to instigate Anokhi against Shaurya - Anokhi remembers to TRUST Shaurya ( top of the head before any emotional reaction) and gives it back to Shagun. There seems to be no other reason for that dialogue.