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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Soulfuldream

Agreed she shouldn't have questioned her alone.. but right now Shaurya is accident ka mara majnu. He should get an earful too from Kanchan.. If both are made to be shown the mirror then it's fine..

If Anokhi did not listen to him ,Shaurya also kept mum

So it's not fair to burden only one for this fiasco..

But then human nature is such we blurt out things in anger ,concern and pain..

Kanchan knows that Badi MA will strike hard and deepen the wedge seeing the cracks.. she is trying to do a shoddy patch up job.. but then she can only do so much..

It is upto the person to evaluate it and act upon it.

Here I feel Anokhi was far more sensible to not do the mud slinging and react to every word kanchan said..

She heard ,she processed and acted the way she felt right...


If she does this... I will regret making this post 😆 trust me...

@Purple - She did not react because she agreed... I am not saying she should have reacted that way anyway.. But then taking blame for Shaurya's condition is not cool.


Ab Astha is here... She will manage everything now.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

That was what I was fearing. And I said in that other thread that I hope no one guilt trips Anokhi for Shaurya's condition. Now Anokhi feels this happened because of her. Let's see what Shaurya does after he wakes up. I think he is going to give her the silent treatment for the time being.


I remember you telling that we are hoping Astha or Shaan does not guilt trip... But it was Kanchan... Anyways it was bound to happen...


He has had zero dialogue in the show since yesterday! I am waiting to see him out of trauma coma... Koi kitni der tak behosh reh sakta hai yaar...

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Posted: 4 years ago
#23

Also the same goes with babli! If kanchan did not understood anokhi's state of mind then babli too did the same for shaurya! Its both ways I think!! Both kanchan and babli were wrong but at the same time they were right too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#24

No.


Kanchan is Shaurya's family at the end of the day, so there'll be bias. Plus, she knows and she's seen how things happen in that house, so she is speaking from a vantage pov.

Anokhi isn't aware of that, so she was right in her actions.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

No.


Kanchan is Shaurya's family at the end of the day, so there'll be bias. Plus, she knows and she's seen how things happen in that house, so she is speaking from a vantage pov.

Anokhi isn't aware of that, so she was right in her actions.

💯! I haven’t seen the episode but saw the clip on Instagram. I feel both are right in their POV.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahsb_26

The post is for those who can take some salt against Shaurya and Kanchan and Anokhi.


I still don't get this... I understand Kanchan stands with ShaKhi and wants best for them...


But her constantly guilt tripping Anokhi is NOT fair!!! No matter what....


How else did she expect a heartbroken girl to behave? It's sooo unfair that people keeps blaming Anokhi for not trusting Shaurya... Like how is it her fault?? Had Shaurya ever clarified what conspired between Shaurya and Shagun in the past? Had Shaurya even tried clarifying or assuring her how she shouldn't be threatened by Shagun.... And she stands way above Shagun.... No!!!!


She had presented her insecurities which were cut off by confession, then some drama around Goa and rushed romance... And ab you thought that she should have stayed in the hall... Enjoyed the party... Spoken to Shaurya... And then made conclusions???? Itna karna hota toh she would have thought about it before falling in love!!


He had come to talk to her... But without even giving sometime... Had she been in state of thinking.. She should have thought if that was his aim to break her heart , he wouldn't have been here to talk... But no person is in senses to make any conclusion after feeling betrayed....


I am so fed up of this constantly blaming on Anokhi for Shaurya's behaviour and outcome.... And she takes it too! She has been taking such blames too... Since past few weeks... Gosh... Now I am wondering if we are still going to continue seeing bewakoof wali nikki or still poor bechari nikki... Who is dheet only for lovesake...

There is no question of blaming Anokhi. She was not wrong at all. She handled everything with dignity without creating any scene. She waited for him to say something and then ran away. What more is expected from a girl who is hurt so badly. I didn't get Kanchan today. He is expecting Anokhi to wait and take selfies with them?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

💯! I haven’t seen the episode but saw the clip on Instagram. I feel both are right in their POV.


Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

No.

Kanchan is Shaurya's family at the end of the day, so there'll be bias. Plus, she knows and she's seen how things happen in that house, so she is speaking from a vantage pov.

Anokhi isn't aware of that, so she was right in her actions.


As a relative or friend I understand that she was biased towards Shaurya... But her blamming Anokhi for running away from engagement hall and not talking to him post the whole thing sounded little harsh to me..


But agreeing to what most members have said on forum... Kanchan just reacted to Anokhi for other reasons too.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: anuprem

Even I didn't like Kanchan blaming Anokhi today. How can she expect Anokhi to stand in the party hall and see everyone congratulate Shaurya? And Anokhi accepting all the blame and telling Aastha that it's all her fault. How is it her fault if Shaurya drives recklessly and meets with an accident. He should have given Anokhi some time to come out of the shock and then spoken with her.It is this impulsive behavior of Shaurya that Babli is worried about. Atleast Anokhi told Aastha that she was hurt when Shaurya did not even open his mouth after the announcement.

Good thing in the episode is that Aastha is back with a bang. So one sensible person around Shakhi now.


Poor girl was already in distress... Being heartbroken, then accident, then Devi insult... And on top if Kanchan blaming... No matter what my heart went out to her... When she blamed herself for his condition to Astha. 😭 Shaurya ka one day heartbreak and he went on injured unconscious person.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#29

Exactly!! What does Kanchan wants? That despite being humiliated so openly Anokhi should stay there and celebrate Shagun Shaurya engagement.

There is no question of Anokhi being wrong. She herself cleared it with one single statement when she asked Shaurya what did he do when he came to know about engagement.

And what is wrong with Anokhi .Girl, this is not your fault. You were right all along. That was the logical behiviour darling. Why do you need to go on guilt trip all the time. While we are on her behaviour, I just want to know what was she planning by staying dheet and keep standing outside Shaurya's home. When Rima asked her to go inside she said she is not going to trouble anyone anymore. What were u expecting girl? That suddenly Devi will have heart change and invite you in. Stop crying start doing something.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I don't think the reason Anokhi left the party was that she didn't trust Shaurya, or his love for her, as Kanchan thinks.

The reason she felt hurt was that Shaurya didn’t take a stand for her, he just stood there heartbroken. She stayed there for sometime and looked at him expectantly but he just stood there. I get that he didn’t say much at first because he was in shock, then he tried but Devi didn’t let him, but I feel the least he could have done was not let Shagun hold his arm, he should have removed her hand just like he did on the stairs when he was introducing her as the new Economics teacher. That would have counted for something.


In-fact, Anokhi clearly asked Shaurya when he came to see her that what did he do when he found out, nothing. She didn't say that u cheated me or made a fool of me by saying that u love me, the only thing she said was u did nothing. The way he reacted or rather his lack of reaction while she was there indicated to her that when it came to choosing between his family and her, he clearly chose them.


Their relationship is so new, the insecurity level is too high, they haven't even voiced their feelings to each other properly yet, for crying out loud.


As far as Babli is concerned, her taking Anokhi’s side is very natural, she is her sister so obviously she will take her side. Plus she doesn't know how much Shaurya loves Anokhi, she only saw a glimpse of it when he involved her for the birthday surprise, though it was just a glimpse, it would take much more to convince her.


Hopefully Aastha and Shaan will help them reunite.


Waiting eagerly for Shaurya to wake up. Missed him.


Preet ♥️

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