Could you forgive Astha if you were Shaurya?

I know that Shaurya's eyes are clouded with venom filled by Devi and her hubby. But honeslty, Im still trying to fogure out what kind of mother can leave her child and just leave. Even if she was forced, she could go to court. Fight for his custody. Like we all know, that a 4-5 year old child needs his mother the most.

When she was saying stuff like " Ek rishte ke kiye tumse tumhare aur bahut saare rishte nahi cheena chahti thi" , I was like 'are u mad' cause the mother-child relationship is the most important. The child *needs* his mom the most.

And if she is so strong why did'nt she fight for her own son? What kind of love is this?

Now, Shaurya is not completely right here too. But honeslty, I get his anger. Even if she did wait for him for long hours, nothing can negate the fact that she didn't try hard. If she had such a hold on Shaan, shw could aaram se meet Shaurya chuo chup ke or even brain wash Shaan. Or go to the court. Take legal actions. She literally just sobbed and waited. Im sorry, but Aastha Maam, u should have tried harder.

What are your thoughts?

PS: I still think Shaurya should evetually dheere dheere forgive her. But it will take time. And honeslty he needs to stop with the, I hate her jaap. Hating someone with that intensity is harmful for your own health.

A simple two line answer-

My hatred for her might have diluted but things could never have been same for us.

Ps- Whatever they say, whatever they show, I dont care ...Aastha had been wrong to Shaurya. That's it.

I agree and I hv a cousin of my husband whose mother left her when she was 11.She eventually started talking to her and also contacted her after she was 18 but never forgive till her mother death.It is just not possible.

I could have forgiven slowly and gradually but things wouldn’t have turned back to normal and also, it would have been tough to forget whatever has been done.
Words said, actions done cannot be taken back or be undone. The hurt is too big to cure. The hate would fade, the pain would fade but it cannot be eradicated altogether because it has come from the mother who you need at all points of your life whether good or bad. She’s the guiding light of your life.

Shaurya’s behaviour is really justified and I guess I would have reacted in a similar manner.

All in all, I feel "You can get over things and move on but you cannot forget"🥲

Regarding the custody thing, I think she said she did not want Shaurya to be separated between the two households, so I'll give her the benefit of the doubt on that. Plus, I don't believe she had the power to fight THE Sabherwals in court. She tried to make efforts, but couldn't get through. I know it hasn't been easy for Shaurya, it's traumatic for a child to go through what he did, but Astha hasn't had it easy as well. I may not agree with the approach Astha took, but choosing between your old parents who made you and your son and husband is not easy - it's a crossroad where no matter what decision you take, you are bound to suffer.

Agree Shaurya suffered a lot and I empathize with him and understand that he is the way he is because of the feeling that he was abandoned - heck, it was painful to see him comparing himself himself with a toy which she so easily discarded, according to him.

It's frankly difficult to walk a mile in his shoes, but, Shaurya loves Astha a lot, I do not care what he says, he loves her. It was too obvious when he got so restless when he heard that Astha was shot. Plus, the hospital sequence where he held her hand - so, I want Shaurya to forgive Astha (like you said, dheere dheere) for himself, not for her and not because she is hurting. I want him to forgive her because when he hurts her, he's hurting himself. I want him to experience his mom's love, which he craves for.

Maybe I wd nt hv mistreated her, bt no it wdn't hv been a normal relationship. The hurt, the betrayal that a child felt wd ensure that.

Nopes! Even if evey mu gets resolved, still she could have taken him with her and he would be a better and more emotionally balanced human than what he is now!

Can be forgiven but cant forget!

I would forgive Aastha if I get know Devi & Tej’s true colors & why was shaan so spineless

Varna bahut sochna padega 😬

Right now Shaurya is blindfolded with his gratitude towards his badi maa & bade papa

He sees the picture of his dysfunctional family through their eyes

He is right now very conflicted over that this lil birdie Anokhi tweeting at his ears

I really feel his brain is on a full on roller coaster ride

Kaash

if Aastha only knew shaan was so spineless who cannot take a stand even for his son she would have taken him with her and his last name would have beenshaurya kashyap