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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: solembaum

I think I agree with the post that said about the difference in maturity between Anu and Neil... That is the main thing... Neil is too immature right now and the gap between him and anu is too huge for them to make a couple... Anu can be a sister or friend or confidante at some point... but not a romantic interest for him...

As for Devyani... I wont say she is at fault really for loving Rajat... or that it is unnatural to feel insecure if you think there is something going on between the guy you have fallen for and your sister ... I wish she had wanted to have some conversations with Rajat or like how she had told Alka, tried to get things clear with Rajat ... Where i really felt she was selfish was regarding this wedding track... like @aashti pointed out she should not be jumping at a chance to get engaged to the brother of the guy she just rejected ... she should have sensibly told her dad that while she likes the rishta , she needs time or she would like to talk to Rajat or whatever... but not just think of Neil as an afterthought to be dismissed by a flimsy reassurance from her sis... she could have used the fact that Anushka is not yet engaged as her reason as well to not have the engagement now and get to know Rajat better in the mean time.. but she seems to just want to cement that relationship without giving a thought to anyone else in the picture...

also, I do not know why Alka is not trying to find out what is the real situation... from what Anushka is saying she should have a genuine doubt as to what really transpired between Anushka and Rajat... if she knows some of the interactions between Anushka and Rajat - she would have enough grounds to think that Sareens are mistaken or that Rajat is two timing if he has indeed said such things to Anushka and then asked his family to talk to Shastriji about Devyani... those should be legitimate concerns for her as an elder sister... but seems like she is content to think Anu was mistaken although Anu is shown as the sensible one... just the payal instance should have been enough to give her doubts or the store room talk... but unfortunately she is not asking and Anu is not volunteering either... Also, I dont know why they dont have a conversation among Anu, devyani and Alka about the Neil situation... atleast Alka should tell Anu ... anyway will need to wait and see how things unfold... hopefully some palatable story will unfold!

The writers have created confusin to bring the situation to this state. If you analyse the characters of the four sisters Alka is the most stupid girl with no brains. Anu is the sensible of the lot. Devyani only day freams and lives in the world of fantasy. the fourth one is a nice kid.
The whole confusion is deliberate and all the three sisters are at fault. Now the sensibilities of Rajat the main lead are at stake - if he doesn't take charge of the situation - shame on him as a person who doesn't even deserve to be in Indian Air force - IAF ko toh badnam na karo
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: NBT-BV

The writers have created confusin to bring the situation to this state. If you analyse the characters of the four sisters Alka is the most stupid girl with no brains. Anu is the sensible of the lot. Devyani only day freams and lives in the world of fantasy. the fourth one is a nice kid.
The whole confusion is deliberate and all the three sisters are at fault. Now the sensibilities of Rajat the main lead are at stake - if he doesn't take charge of the situation - shame on him as a person who doesn't even deserve to be in Indian Air force - IAF ko toh badnam na karo


In the confusion of course there is a contribution from everyone .. with Rajat being the main one... leaving the name of the girl in such ambiguity... but froma character perspective right now alka comes across as again not thinking deeply enough and Devyani comes across as selfish... and anu comes across as being too unsure of herself and her guy... But I wont fault Anu too much because her relationship has not reached a stage yet where they ahd made concrete declarations.. so it is natural to have doubts when the family is saying he asked for rishta for devyani... but as a third and objective party Alka would have been in a better position to assess the situation... unfortunately neither is Anu opening up nor is Alka pushing her to do so...

I am also waiting to see what rajat does... whether he goes the usual route... wanting to say but not saying because Anu will feel bad etc etc...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The main problem is with the producers- they take the easy route for the TRPs which is create negativity and it will attract viewership and producers don't have to use brains and work hard to create interesting plots. Negativity is so easy to create as you must be seeing in this show. So far the show has been positive and maintain the same positivity on a normal track interesting, funny, romantic, love fights, emotional, teaser situations could be created for everyone to enjoy, laugh, feel emotional. Such situation based tracks are difficult to comprehend so that they maintain interest and keep the show going. This can only be done with proper thinking and lot of homework which the producers teams don't want to do. They just want to make money without effort and they produce such negative tracks.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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u r right devyani is a selfish girl!!

1."she was jealous of her sister" - we dont get jealous when we r in luv !! right !! we tell d person whom we love that "jao uss ladki ke paas jao'' ..
guys when u r in luv u bcm jealous !! thats natural !! thats why v r in luv !! its not being selfish!!

2."she doesnt deserve niel" and d reason why is tht she rejected her when he luvd her?? really !! this is for all the guys out there - if u luv a girl,bring her flowers, fight wid sm other guy fr her doesnt mean that she will start lving u back she wont !! every has their own feelings!! devyani never ever hinted niel that she luvs him!!

3." she has an unmarried sister at home so she cant maary" u r right usko anu ko bolna tha " anu fall in luv wid sm1 and marry tab tak mai wait kar lungi !! its ok u r my elder sister nd marriage is first come first serve kind of thing!!

3."anu sacrificed for her sister bt if devyani would hav been in her palce she would hav bcm jealous" u r right .. we know future prediction . hum future ke baare me pehle se bata sakte hai right!!
nd how d hell wil dev knw tht her sister luv rajat i mean rajat always flirted wid her , anushka told her to stay away from rajat , iss pagal ladki ko future predict karna nhi aata i mean usko dikhai nhi deta ki bhale hi rajat uske saath flirt karta hai nd anu hated rajat but they can always fall in luv !! use ass pass dekhna chahiye tha pyaar karte time!!

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Posted: 10 years ago
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though i am not a rani fan bt u knw wht guys i wd want to see devraj !!

nd mayb anushka can pair up wid sm1 else , mayb a new lead !! u knw sm1 who is rude, heartless , sm1 who would complement her !! if she is north then he would be south!! and the best couple in the history of television are like that
1.arnav khushi
2.jodha akbar
3.rudra paro

i mean responsible and nice people marrying responsible and nice people is just too mainstream!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: himadrishekhar

u r right devyani is a selfish girl!!

1."she was jealous of her sister" - we dont get jealous when we r in luv !! right !! we tell d person whom we love that "jao uss ladki ke paas jao'' ..
guys when u r in luv u bcm jealous !! thats natural !! thats why v r in luv !! its not being selfish!!

2."she doesnt deserve niel" and d reason why is tht she rejected her when he luvd her?? really !! this is for all the guys out there - if u luv a girl,bring her flowers, fight wid sm other guy fr her doesnt mean that she will start lving u back she wont !! every has their own feelings!! devyani never ever hinted niel that she luvs him!!

3." she has an unmarried sister at home so she cant maary" u r right usko anu ko bolna tha " anu fall in luv wid sm1 and marry tab tak mai wait kar lungi !! its ok u r my elder sister nd marriage is first come first serve kind of thing!!

3."anu sacrificed for her sister bt if devyani would hav been in her palce she would hav bcm jealous" u r right .. we know future prediction . hum future ke baare me pehle se bata sakte hai right!!
nd how d hell wil dev knw tht her sister luv rajat i mean rajat always flirted wid her , anushka told her to stay away from rajat , iss pagal ladki ko future predict karna nhi aata i mean usko dikhai nhi deta ki bhale hi rajat uske saath flirt karta hai nd anu hated rajat but they can always fall in luv !! use ass pass dekhna chahiye tha pyaar karte time!!

1.There is a huge difference between Love and Chahat... Love = I want you to be happy even if your not with me Chahat = I want you to be with me it makes me happy. Devayani isn't even mature to know what is love.. most of the people these days don't know what's love.. Attachment, Chahat, Attraction And Lust are totally different from Love.. And people these days dont know the difference between those 4..they group all if them Into one single category "Love" 2.She doesn't deserves Neil.. Not cuz she rejected him... But.. She left him.. If i had a bestie who proposed me.. I would never leave her hand instead I will sit with her and explain that I do like and love her but in another way.. and am always there for her.. and she deserves a guy who loves her.. loving is good and getting loved is Best.. So wait for the right guy.. ur an amazing friend and as a bestie I want ur best... But. what Devayani did? she just left him.. didn't even went to his room and she goes to his room after the engagement is fixed.. but not cuz she cares him.. Just cuz she said.. plz act normal so that engagment shouldn't get any problem..and as u said She never gave any hints.. even Rajat never gave hints to devyani.. he always calls Anu and tries to hang out with her but not Devayani and Atleast Devayani always called Neil and hugged him cried and shared her pain.. 3.When ur in family you must know you have a responsibility.. And a duty.. U can't just live according to your wish. u must always think about your family 4.Rajat never flirted with devyani.. he always acted nice with her the way guys act with little kids.. Flirting is what Rajat did with Anu.. Basically If Devayani was a good girl or whatever she must have shown as an ideal girl.. but in the serial she always created problems to her family.. Just cuz she s cute or she our favorite doesn't mean.. we should support her wrong deeds..
Edited by Santhoshlee - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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u knw what leave it!! u win be happy!!👍🏼
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: himadrishekhar

u knw what leave it!! u win be happy!!👍🏼

Arey Win? I was just explaining .. I don't hate devyani or I didn't say ur wrong.. Am just saying that Devyani should think about her family too.. so that everyone would be happy. itne problems nahi hote. dats wt I was trying to say .. I respect ur opinion :) Galat mat Lena plz :)
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Firstly Devyani is a character etched by the cvs, The entire lot of people are calling her selfish is because she is being portrayed that way. We are mentioning it again and again so that if any one from the creatives take a look, they should know that they need their vision of Devyani isnt coming out right somewhere.

When Rajat and Anu were lost in the jungle, I loved Devyani. Her concern was with her sister. even when Rajat walked with Anu in his arms, she didnt care about anything but Anu's well being,

There is jealousy in love but here it was overplayed. If she was shown to be very close to Rajat and really in love with him, it would somewhat be understandable, somewhat being the operative word. But it was more of a tantrum throwing than jealousy. Besides you get jealous when the person you love pays more attention to your friend or colleague but when it is your own sister, the emotions range mostly from pain to a twinge of jealousy. Not the 'you stole my cake' scenario that was shown.

Its not just about not thinking about Anu being unmarried and rejecting Neil, it is about jumping the gun to marry Rajat by not giving a damn about everything else.

We are trying to tell the cvs not to murder a character that stole the hearts of many on the show.

And yes, I agree if we are to get a handsome brooding Arnav Singh Raizada for Anu, I will love the show even more

Edited by aashti - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: himadrishekhar

u knw what leave it!! u win be happy!!👍🏼


Sweety this is hardly a contest. You like Devyani and find her behavior understandable, its perfectly okay. But you cannot force your opinion on others right??
If we want to watch realistic characters, we would watch reality shows or something of narrative non fiction. When we watch a soap, we want likable characters, They might be flawed (like ASR) but likable. Even when great movies have 'too stupid to live' heroines they are criticized just so that the writers take a note that they are lagging somewhere.
Characters are written. CVS are the gods of the storyline. characters can be improved by removing petty flaws and keeping the essence of the character. That is all everyone is trying to voice out here.

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