Originally posted by: solembaum
I think I agree with the post that said about the difference in maturity between Anu and Neil... That is the main thing... Neil is too immature right now and the gap between him and anu is too huge for them to make a couple... Anu can be a sister or friend or confidante at some point... but not a romantic interest for him...
As for Devyani... I wont say she is at fault really for loving Rajat... or that it is unnatural to feel insecure if you think there is something going on between the guy you have fallen for and your sister ... I wish she had wanted to have some conversations with Rajat or like how she had told Alka, tried to get things clear with Rajat ... Where i really felt she was selfish was regarding this wedding track... like @aashti pointed out she should not be jumping at a chance to get engaged to the brother of the guy she just rejected ... she should have sensibly told her dad that while she likes the rishta , she needs time or she would like to talk to Rajat or whatever... but not just think of Neil as an afterthought to be dismissed by a flimsy reassurance from her sis... she could have used the fact that Anushka is not yet engaged as her reason as well to not have the engagement now and get to know Rajat better in the mean time.. but she seems to just want to cement that relationship without giving a thought to anyone else in the picture...also, I do not know why Alka is not trying to find out what is the real situation... from what Anushka is saying she should have a genuine doubt as to what really transpired between Anushka and Rajat... if she knows some of the interactions between Anushka and Rajat - she would have enough grounds to think that Sareens are mistaken or that Rajat is two timing if he has indeed said such things to Anushka and then asked his family to talk to Shastriji about Devyani... those should be legitimate concerns for her as an elder sister... but seems like she is content to think Anu was mistaken although Anu is shown as the sensible one... just the payal instance should have been enough to give her doubts or the store room talk... but unfortunately she is not asking and Anu is not volunteering either... Also, I dont know why they dont have a conversation among Anu, devyani and Alka about the Neil situation... atleast Alka should tell Anu ... anyway will need to wait and see how things unfold... hopefully some palatable story will unfold!