'Sher Singh'

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Preeto is named "Sher Singh" by Papaji because she is a 'strong' person and a 'fighter'...

She is called "Sher Singh" cause she is a fighter in life who never gives up...and those who never give up are not those who never fall...but those who have the ability to get up after every fall...

There is a difference between fighters and warriors...Fighters are not attackers or defenders...

Preeto is definitely not a warrior...she is quiet a soft person...yes, she is a no nonsense person...but that is different from being aggressive...

And Preeto is called "Sher Singh" cause she is a strong person who can deal with difficult circumstances and difficult emotions...and that she has always displayed...come what may...the way she has dealt with all her emotions from the first break up to this current track she has shown immense strength...

A lot of people have been saying that in this track Preeto has been shown as a weak character and that she is not the 'Sher Singh' that she was when she dealt with Bobby Singh...to them, we would like to say (respectfully) that jhanda aur danda lekar morche pe nikal jane ko hi ladna nahi kehte hain... There is a huge difference between the Bobby Singh situation and this NA situation...

"Jaise ko taisa" is the rule of the jungle but we are not junglees...!😉

This is our take on how Preeto's Sher Singh avtar has not been compromised...

We would love to hear from you all... Cheers! 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: hamsafar

Preeto is named "Sher Singh" by Papaji because she is a 'strong' person and a 'fighter'...
She is called "Sher Singh" cause she is a fighter in life who never gives up...and those who never give up are not those who never fall...but those who have the ability to get up after every fall...
There is a difference between fighters and warriors...Fighters are not attackers or defenders...
Preeto is definitely not a warrior...she is quiet a soft person...yes, she is a no nonsense person...but that is different from being aggressive...

And Preeto is called "Sher Singh" cause she is a strong person who can deal with difficult circumstances and difficult emotions...and that she has always displayed...come what may...the way she has dealt with all her emotions from the first break up to this current track she has shown immense strength...

A lot of people have been saying that in this track Preeto has been shown as a weak character and that she is not the 'Sher Singh' that she was when she dealt with Bobby Singh...to them, we would like to say (respectfully) that jhanda aur danda lekar morche pe nikal jane ko hi ladna nahi kehte hain... There is a huge difference between the Bobby Singh situation and this NA situation...

"Jaise ko taisa" is the rule of the jungle but we are not junglees...!😉

This is our take on how Preeto's Sher Singh avtar has not been compromised...
We would love to hear from you all... Cheers! 😊

Preeto is Sher Singh, yes she is not agressive, but neither is shee too soft like ishu.. her character is very balanced, when we say fight like sher singh preeto.. it does not mean being aggressive or jhanda, morcha, etc.. but it also does not mean to give up at one instance and just keep crying and feel heartbroken,.. Remember in guruduara when the neighbourhood ladies taunted meeta after her marriage was broken to bobby singh.. inspite of her sister stopping her she did not keep quiet, and thats because her character cannot take nonsense, but she was not aggressive at the same time... she maintained her calm and kept her values of respecting elders , but she did speak out the truth, explaining to them that they were wrong,

So why did preeto so easily succumb to NA's nonsense and evilness, why did she so easily give up to this nonsense and the only thing she could do was to cry, phir preeto ke aur ishu ke character mein kyaa fark reh gayaa... Aggressiveness and giving up easily, both are very extreme characters, and preeto is neither of both.. Even in bobby singh's case it was not an aggression, rather she used her brains to deal with the situation, where is her brain and intelligence right now, when it comes to NA, kahaan gayi wo no nonsense(balanced) sher singh preeto????

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I agree Preeto isnt weak, But I feel she should have spoken to RB about the NA blackmail, she knows that RB will not fall for someone else, as she herself asked NA " you will separate me from RB but how will you make him fall in love with Simi" , Ishu marriage also he had clearly told her not try to set him up with Bharti as he will no one can take her place in his heart. Coming back to the sher singh part ... sharing your problem with a loved one does not make you weak, you just get a second opinion.

After his fight with Ranjeet in the confession episode she had told him "till today i have shared Happiness with you , today I want to share your sorrow" " khushiyaan baatne se badti hai aur dard baatne se kaam hota hai" so shouldn't she also share her problems with him, you have to trust him to understand you .

And if Preeto can pretend everything is fine in front of her family, cant RB pretend there is a problem between him and Preeto , to show NA ? . Jogi had also told RB about being surprised as to how a class conscious NA had accepted Ishu's proposal, RB was the one who initially informed Preeto about NA's disagreement with the DHRISHU marriage. So he is aware NA can create problems . He wont doubt what Preeto says.

Once the Roka is over , they could have explained to SKA everything or still better hatch a plan to expose NA .

Preeto didn't need to be so rude to RB , if they ever get together , what is the assurance she will never use the same words to hurt him , if any such situation comes up. Whatever the reason , words once said cannot be taken back. Even if she apologises and he forgives.

Regarding her being hurt to (its sad ) but its was her decision not to involve anyone.

She said "Jise maine jamane se alag samja usi ne muje jamane jaisa samja ..." (confession episode) what she did hurt him more than what the society had done to him. Some wounds heal but the mark remains

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Preeto is Sher Singh, yes she is not agressive, but neither is shee too soft like ishu.. her character is very balanced, when we say fight like sher singh preeto.. it does not mean being aggressive or jhanda, morcha, etc.. but it also does not mean to give up at one instance and just keep crying and feel heartbroken,.. Remember in guruduara when the neighbourhood ladies taunted meeta after her marriage was broken to bobby singh.. inspite of her sister stopping her she did not keep quiet, and thats because her character cannot take nonsense, but she was not aggressive at the same time... she maintained her calm and kept her values of respecting elders , but she did speak out the truth, explaining to them that they were wrong,

So why did preeto so easily succumb to NA's nonsense and evilness, why did she so easily give up to this nonsense and the only thing she could do was to cry, phir preeto ke aur ishu ke character mein kyaa fark reh gayaa... Aggressiveness and giving up easily, both are very extreme characters, and preeto is neither of both.. Even in bobby singh's case it was not an aggression, rather she used her brains to deal with the situation, where is her brain and intelligence right now, when it comes to NA, kahaan gayi wo no nonsense(balanced) sher singh preeto????

Replying to (random) neighbours with a strong hand and replying to your sister's Mother-in-law are two very different situations dear... She wants to resolve the situation for Ishu not complicate it further by irritating NA more and giving her yet another reason to torture Ishu...

In fact n true Preeto way, when Ishu is telling her about her problems with NA, she tries to show Ishu the other side- the mother's perspective...cause for preeto family has immense respect and especially a mother...even though she knows that NA is vicious but she still gives her the due as Dhruv's mother...that is very Preeto...It is sometimes difficult even for me to understand this as a city girl...but from a simple middle class girl from Amritsar...I understand this...

And she did not succum to her immediately...Infact the fact that she actually went to meet NA to discuss the ishu issue (on the day of the roka) is her Sher Singh avtar...facing a problem not hiding from it (which is what ishu would do)...even then she did show logical reasoning and resistance...she doesnt succumb immediately, she says that you can force me but how will you force Rb to fall in love with Simmi...
So in all honesty we don't think she succumbed...she was in a rather sticky situation...and i think she did respond to it in quiet the Preeto way...

We have explained our take on her decision after this NA blackmail, in another post, hence not repeating here...

Cheers!

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Posted: 13 years ago

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what you say is correct humsafar

preeto 's situation is like this "if you put your chunni on the thorn plant while taking out we should be careful otherwise the chunni will be torn" even preeto is in the same situation.She has to handle NA carefully otherwise her sister Ishu 's life will be trouble.That is the reason she has to agree to NA condition.

if you see today's episode your doubt will be cleared😉

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: preeti.r
Some wounds heal but the mark remains

you are so right, wounds heal but the marks remain

After all said and done and if he ever comes back I hope he forgives her for what she said to him when he walked out, that was downright nasty. There was no need for it.

In a relationship there will always be ups and downs, I am sure he would have made every effort not to be what his parents were.

In todays epi at least Beeji knows something is up and i just loved how Preeto put NA in her place, if only SKA hadnt walked in at that time..

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hamsafar

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Sorry for a delayed response...😊

preeti.r we totally understand what you are saying...

And we have been planning to write a post about why we think Preeto did not tell Rajbeer and why she acted so rudely towards him and why did they not 'hatch a plan' to tackle NA together... We will do so soon (sorry...our schedules & other work occupations is not allowing us to be as active and prompt on this forum as we would like to 😊 )

For now, we just want to comment on "Some wounds heal but the mark remains" :

Anyone who has loved and has known love, and we don't mean just the love that a man and a woman share we mean "love" cause "love" is the same...😊 So it could be this pure deep love that you have experienced with your child, parent, sibling or friend...you know that you forgive even before forgiveness is asked for...yes forgetting takes time but nothing changes your love...

pyar fiza nahi hai jo badalte mausam ke saath badal jata hai, na yeh woh rang hai jo dhoop-pani se halka/ pheeka ho jata hai...

Here also Preeto is the wound giver, she is the wound and she is the wound healer also...

Why she has done it? should she have done it? these are questions we will try to address in our post, but as much as we understand Rajbeer...the moment he knows why Preeto did it he will be feeling compassion for her, that what she must have gone through while doing it...so where will be the wound and where will be the mark of that wound?!

And I think that he has shown this in friday's episode...we did not see any hurt or any bitterness in him...and this is not because he is "mahan"...it is because he loves, he has known love...and it is love that is "mahan"...it gives you the strength to do this...

This is our undersatnding & persepctive, have we answered your concern friends? 😊

In the end love does conquer all (and I am not saying this in a mills and boon, blind and deaf, romantic love kind of way)...it conquers your own weaknesses and it heals the wounds also....

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Posted: 13 years ago

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originally posted by hamsafar

And I think that he has shown this in friday's episode...we did not see any hurt or any bitterness in him...and this is not because he is "mahan"...it is because he loves, he has known love...and it is love that is "mahan"...it gives you the strength to do this...

This is our undersatnding & persepctive, have we answered your concern friends? 😊

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I have put last part of your mail.Yes we did not see any bitterness or hurt. one thing I have noticed when preeto came to meet him i thought he will shout at her again but to my surprise was so cool as if nothing has happened through out the scene. indeed he loves her so much he would not raise his voice towards her.It was well directed.so also dialogues.

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