ancestral property fights & disputes

I really applaud the courage of bringing to light these realities of life, i would like you to shed light on the disputes that occur after the death of parents the children fight with each other or who will take care of the parent who is alive there are always disputes of who will keep the parents some thing the eldest one should some say the youngest should the girls thing the brother should my opinion. it is always happens that no one wants to keep the parents these days, i feel that when the boy marries a brother a son in him dies he only a father of his child a husband of his wife and son in law of his in laws and the daughter in thinks her husband is her property. wahi ladki jo shadi se pehle kuchh bhi karne ko tayar ho jati hai wahi ladki shadi ke baad itni badal jati hai ke use apne alawa kuchh dikhta hi nahin. wahi beti jiske paida hone ke pahle use marne ki koshish kee jati hai use apne parents ka khayal rakhna padta hai.

not just sons even daughters are taking care of their parents, many of them I have seen. but in most cases the daughter if probably already taking care of husband's parents, in laws, then it will take quite an effort and understanding for parents of both husband and wife to live under same roof, not impossible though. One of my friend's inlaws and parents along with her own family are living in the same house for more than 5 years now.

Think of a couple who only have one daughter. Will they be able to go and live with their daughter during their old age? The so-called Indian culture doesn't allow them because they cannot stay under the same roof as their daughter's in-laws. So what does the daughter do? She stays with her in-laws/husband yet visits them regulalry and supports them in whatever way she can..even if not financially. The parents are more than happy with this and they don't expect anything from a daughter.

Why can't parents of sons have the same attitude? If their son is able to stay separately and still visit them and even support them financially, they are not happy. They want to stay with their son, make their daughter-in-law serve them even inspite of all the responsibilities she might have.

Now please don't misunderstand me. I feel there shoudn't be any differentiation between sons and daughters.

Would Mr Bachchan in Baghban(forgot the screen name) have expected so much from his children if they were all daughters? I don't think so.. He would have got them married and stayed separately.

It was very interesting to watch the show about disabled people, to get awareness in our country it will take decades because our politicians are theives, corrupt and mentally sick, if a comman man tries to something these politicians will create millions of hurdles. Jab hum aapke show ko dekhte hai I am sure sab ke man mein vichar ata hoga ke kuchh kiya jaye magar jab shuruat karne ka waqt ata hai tab pehla roda to apne ghar wale hi atkate hai sab couples Mr. Mrs Lobo jaise nahin hote.aaj kal sab ko apni hi padi hai