WU: 7th Feb: Gauri aur Sanjdeep ki kahani shuru - Page 5

Only watched Deepak scne , must say both did good job . 👍🏼

As for RB n truth coming out . My 2 cents

R B has made peace with her past now by accepting what is n deepak . She should say it out loud to everyone not just to ishan or kk . Usually truth comes out , sooner or later .
From Ishan's perspective , he sees RB as a mother . Some times U see they both have this partiality with eachother . RB cares or worries for Ishan more than deepak . Ishan puts RB more than Rano . Nothing against others but that is love for each other . RB thinks of Ishan as a son . She doesn't ask Ishan to call him mother , nor Ishan calls her mother but It s how U feel abt each other . What U feel in ur heart is what matters most . As it should . Now what if Ishan finds out abt RB truth or worst finds out suhana knew abt it then ? He will not feel jealous of the fact that suhana knew . But what will hurt him most is , RB didn't had faith in him that she ever shared her pain with him . He must have done something wrong that RB didn't find him trust worthy . As for Inder Ilesh , They too love her as a mother but Ishan is the One who gets most love from RB .
Ishan already has a complex that his family doesn't include him in their fair share of problems . BP issue has hurt him deeply , now RB too ? Does he matter to his family ? Do they share their problems with their son ? When does Bahu matters more than Son? I m not gonna argue on how suhana find out abt RB . That's past . I m looking at present . RB should have faith in her love , upbringing , care towrds not only Ishan but to all Kashyap family . When U don't trust ur own kids , U r doing injustice to them .
Knowing , understanding , accepting , loving someone with their misfortune , n flaws is called love . Which one of the kashyaps don't have flaws ? Inder also had to go through hardship due to his dad , people had insulted him on that issue in the past . Ilesh grew up with out his dad side's help or any kind of acknoledgement . They r who they r but they r one people who also had felt some of that pain . Not all of it but some yes . I have faith in both of them to understand this & make sure in future to b there for Deeak .
I think RB thinks , if they finds out they will think pity for her . She can't bare to see them look at her like that . Just as I thought Bm owes biggest truth of her to her kids [ not DIL ] I think RB should tell the truth or Deepak should . They won't feel Pity for RB n Deepak but they will b proud of them .

Sorry for long post , & read it ur own risk 🤣

thanks for the update

I loved yesterday's episode and loves today's as well. These couple of episodes have been great

But I wonder if they are using their own production team and sets and stuff like that for the "serial". I must say thought hats off to everyone in this serial business their hard-work is just immense and almost unrecognized. I was a part of a amateur project for my dad's 30th school reunion where they had the kids reenact their parents school scenes and even though the video was only 15 minutes long I had to stay there the whole day, I was exhausted, and this was just an amateur project so I couldn't imagine how film and TV sets would be like so just a shout out to them😆


also did anyone else notice that when Ishan said "Inder bhaiya ke umar ke log papa/dada ka role kar de te hai" I felt like that was sort of a hint at Inder(Jiten) in real life because he was in KSBKBT as a papa/dada to par-dada type role😆😆😆


also I loved the serious aspect of the episode with Elesh and Disha convo regarding the job, it reminded me of the olden days when they used to have the same types of arguments. And of course , development in Saju-Deepak story...both of them were brilliant today👏




@netri- agree with your post but one thing though, none of the young Kashyaps know about RB's rape, only Suhana and Deepak and the elders of the house know so I think when the truth does come out it wont be only Ishan who is affected but all of them and also remember that Suhana found out about RB's rape by accident, she didnt hound her or anything to tell her the truth, RB simply stated her truth to Deepak and Suhana happened to be in the room, so Ishan cannot really blame Suhana for that one and THIS time it was for the best interest that he and the young Kashyaps do not know about it because then their opinions about Radha Bua might change(not saying that will happen but a lot of shows and movies have shown that victims of rape are often misjudeged) and the elders did not want that

Originally posted by: netri

Only watched Deepak scne , must say both did good job . 👍🏼

As for RB n truth coming out . My 2 cents

R B has made peace with her past now by accepting what is n deepak . She should say it out loud to everyone not just to ishan or kk . Usually truth comes out , sooner or later .
From Ishan's perspective , he sees RB as a mother . Some times U see they both have this partiality with eachother . RB cares or worries for Ishan more than deepak . Ishan puts RB more than Rano . Nothing against others but that is love for each other . RB thinks of Ishan as a son . She doesn't ask Ishan to call him mother , nor Ishan calls her mother but It s how U feel abt each other . What U feel in ur heart is what matters most . As it should . Now what if Ishan finds out abt RB truth or worst finds out suhana knew abt it then ? He will not feel jealous of the fact that suhana knew . But what will hurt him most is , RB didn't had faith in him that she ever shared her pain with him . He must have done something wrong that RB didn't find him trust worthy . As for Inder Ilesh , They too love her as a mother but Ishan is the One who gets most love from RB .
Ishan already has a complex that his family doesn't include him in their fair share of problems . BP issue has hurt him deeply , now RB too ? Does he matter to his family ? Do they share their problems with their son ? When does Bahu matters more than Son? I m not gonna argue on how suhana find out abt RB . That's past . I m looking at present . RB should have faith in her love , upbringing , care towrds not only Ishan but to all Kashyap family . When U don't trust ur own kids , U r doing injustice to them .
Knowing , understanding , accepting , loving someone with their misfortune , n flaws is called love . Which one of the kashyaps don't have flaws ? Inder also had to go through hardship due to his dad , people had insulted him on that issue in the past . Ilesh grew up with out his dad side's help or any kind of acknoledgement . They r who they r but they r one people who also had felt some of that pain . Not all of it but some yes . I have faith in both of them to understand this & make sure in future to b there for Deeak .
I think RB thinks , if they finds out they will think pity for her . She can't bare to see them look at her like that . Just as I thought Bm owes biggest truth of her to her kids [ not DIL ] I think RB should tell the truth or Deepak should . They won't feel Pity for RB n Deepak but they will b proud of them .

Sorry for long post , & read it ur own risk 🤣

Netri.. None of the young generation bothered about deepak.. Neither Inder nor ishaan felt bad for deepak the way RB neglected him, after Slap fisaco.. But rather happy that RB-suhana have patch up.. Atleast after knowing deepak left without telling none of them tried to talk to BM or dadaji how is deepak.. Even knowing about deepak sucide , none of them wanted to see him.. But it was suhana who insisted RB she want to meet deepak.. Later when RB accpeted deepak all the young kashyaps have accpeted him as brother..

All the young kashyaps avoided deepak for RB sake.. they didn't question atleast to dadaji or BM regarding deepak.. They followed what RB wants.. now also they have to accept that RB was the one who doesn't want to tell the truth of deepak birth.. So just like before, they have respect RB wish...They can't question, as they were silent when injustice is going on deepak.

i just want deepak to share his feelings and ask how inder, ishaan and all how they neglected him, even though he is their brother living in the same house for years alone.. None of them bothered he is existed..

none of the younger kashyap neglected deepak. i remember one episode where suhana was playin with mithi & deepak & then RB comes & deepak left.there was another epi where dadaji asked deepak play karam with him but deepak answered ma ko achha nehi lagega.that means RB never wants deepak 2 mix with k children. we dont know about the childhood of deepak & K children.may be RB always punished deepak thats why all k children avoided deepak 4 the sake of both RB & deepak.

Netri it's not easy to tell everything to everybody in the family , especially something as serious as RB's situation. I agree with Abhi, the younger generation if not completely ignored Deepak but at the same time did not behaved normally with him, Ishaan never bothered about him despite knowing that Deepak is his beloved RB's son, he told off Suhana saying clearly "Stay away from him "... So yes he would get hurt after hearing it but would be more hurt about the trauma and not about that nobody told him as much, the matter is serious and awkward to tell the younger member of the family, and what would RB or elders said " by the way RB was raped" it's not an easy thing to tell, and the only time it was going to come out anyways was whenever Deepak was going to get married , even then I don't think its easy to tell or not everybody needs to know,in my opinion. Suhana came to know was an accident m she didn't tell Ishaan because BM asked her not to plus it would have hurt Ishaan more then anything. In my opinion some secrets are so painful tht it's better to keep them away from the younger generation unless it's an absolute necessity . Sanju or any future life partner of Deepak needed to know , I am not very sure about the family of the bride as most people will not accept it .

If U don't want Ishan including younger lot know abt it then good for U . I feel differently .

I never said its abt suhana . I said n presented love between RB - Ishan .

Usally , after the trauma , people talk abt it . Talking helps . If it didn't help then Y would people go n liedown on chair n talk abt the entire trauma ?

Either U can put ur head in the sand like ostrich or face ur past and present with head held high . RB has always turned away from her past but never tried to face it. It was not her fault what happen .

Kashyaps kept distance as RB asked for it . I remeber she once said for me ? Or something . Younger lot avoided deepak cauz of RB . It is not their fault in it . Going against RB n hurting her , troubling her , thats not what they wanted .

They r not idiots , they all have wonder abt RB's past . Deepak suicide incident . They did thought its bcauz of RB .

If U want to give medal to suhana for her saafheartedness then go ahead , i never said anything against her . Present suhana is not past suhana . Ishan will not b angry with suhana but my point is cares so much for RB that he might feel just like his family RB kept him out or he could have something for her out of love not pity .

I have faith in younger lot to understand the megnitude of the problem . If U don't want it to happen ur choice .

Hey hey ... I didn't do Suhana Parchaar here ..When this trauma happened the younger lot were kids , very young , what was the point to tell them .
I work with people who lie down on the couch to talk about there traumas!! It's not easy .RB did her sessions with BM and family ... All the adults knew about it , even the RELATIVES , remember the Relative who refused Deepak to touch her feet . It happened a long time ago , at that time everybody knew , younger generation were kids that's why they didn't know . Now whenever Deepak would get married it was bound to come out and knowing about it then makes sense then randomly . There was a chance during Deepak's suicide track but nobody really asked just thought may be because of RB's behaviour he did that , Inder was upset with RB at that time .
I only suggested Suhana's name as she came to know accidenyly , the saaf dil haseena should have blown the horn then and hence loose the title of being saaf dil as she is dumb anyways .
The younger generation would offcourse understand , they will be angry at the guy , they will be angry about the incident , they might want to kill the guy , but I doubt they would say that " why didn't she tell us " .
It's easy to lie down on the couch when you want to talk about your other mental problems but when you have been a victim of rape you want to hide yourself in the ground . Many mental illness in later life in women arises because of going through this in there past .
I just said that there things which can't be told to every one even from your family members .

Originally posted by: venture

Netri it's not easy to tell everything to everybody in the family , especially something as serious as RB's situation. I agree with Abhi, the younger generation if not completely ignored Deepak but at the same time did not behaved normally with him, Ishaan never bothered about him despite knowing that Deepak is his beloved RB's son, he told off Suhana saying clearly "Stay away from him "... So yes he would get hurt after hearing it but would be more hurt about the trauma and not about that nobody told him as much, the matter is serious and awkward to tell the younger member of the family, and what would RB or elders said " by the way RB was raped" it's not an easy thing to tell, and the only time it was going to come out anyways was whenever Deepak was going to get married , even then I don't think its easy to tell or not everybody needs to know,in my opinion. Suhana came to know was an accident m she didn't tell Ishaan because BM asked her not to plus it would have hurt Ishaan more then anything. In my opinion some secrets are so painful tht it's better to keep them away from the younger generation unless it's an absolute necessity . Sanju or any future life partner of Deepak needed to know , I am not very sure about the family of the bride as most people will not accept it .