Ohhh nice to see some healthy discusson going on here after a long time... 😊
I will give my 1 dollar... 😉😆😆😆😆😆
I am neutral in this situation...
Younger Kashyaps doesn't know RB's past... and RB has hidden it... I completely am with RB in this... It's not easy to face ppl... though Everyone around you will treat you the same... and you know that... Victim feel pity for himself/herself thinking everyone knows... it's not easy to face...
I will share something from my own experience...
I failed in one of the subjects of First Semester of my Masters when I came to US... I won't give any excuse but it was difficult to cope up with the study system and apart from that... I was very bad in the subject I had chosen for the 1st sem... 😕 I had to change the Uni/College coz of the Grading system.. they said I can't continue in their Uni coz of such Low Grades... I had to enroll in other Uni/College within month as I was on Student Visa and I had to be Enrolled in Uni for the Visa to continue... It was difficult to get transfer as Term had already started in most of the other colleges...
I told my parents... they niether scolded me nor got angry... [my parents are very supportive... 😊]
and told be to come back if you have to... it was not easy for me to face everyone if I go back to India... and I only told this to my close frnds... I was feeling shameful... at that time... it had became the biggest failure of my life.. and I was feeling Shame in accepting it in front of anyone...
I did roam here n there in lot of Unis/Colleges and finally found one Uni which gave me admission in... But the College rankings were not so good... I did get admission coz I needed it... I worked hard for other sem... I got pretty good grades thru out then... but still was not able to accept that I was actually Resticated from my first Uni... 😕
Many frnds, ppl who I used to meet always used to ask me... oh you are in this college right... and I never said no I changed the college and not in that college anymore... was really difficult for me to say that I am now in Uni/College which is way below in the rankings... 🥱
Later on when I finished my study.. I realized.. Uni/College matters but what matters is your Grades and your Experience.. in getting job.. your dedication can get you that... Rankings of Uni doesn't make much difference if you are hard-working... 😊
I got Job... and am working... 😊 I can now accept and tell ppl that yes I studied in so n so college... and was resticated from my first Uni...
It took 3 years for me to accept in front of ppl... I was feeling very shameful when I say that I failed n resticated... 😕 now I don't feel it... coz I have realized that... jisko sochna hai soche... what matters is My Parents.. my Frnds stood by me and supported me... it makes matters what they feel... baki sab gire khadde me... 😉😆😆😆
and I will say the same for RB...
It's not easy... but I do agree that RB should share it with Younger Kashyaps... They have always repsted her and her decision... When RB said... stay away from Deepak... Everyone didn't questioned... and just Followed her and did what RB wanted... so, I will say Inder-Ilesh, Rajni-Disha... Ishika.. all are very good CHildren... who never questioned RB... though it was injustice.. they onyl stay quiet coz of RB...
I remember one Scene where Rajni was questioning Inder... that why can't we Talk to Deepak.. and why RB is not letting him mix up with us... then Inder replied... Rajni if RB doesn't want it then why do u have to ask this... just do what is been said..
Same question when Suhana asked Ishaan... then Ishaan replied the same as Inder did to Rajni... but wo Suhana mai hai... why wud she listen to apne Pati... the only Difference is Rajni ne Apne pati ki suni... Suhana ne nai suni... which is all ok to me...I don't think Suhana did some mahaan Karya by talking to Deepak.. I won't give an award to her for that... 😕 nor I will give an award to Rajni... both are right in their own place... 😃
So, the summary for all who doesn't want to read whole chapter... 😉😆😆😆😆
I agree with RB not letting Younger Kashyaps know about her past... It's not easy... and at the same time...I feel She should now tell them... and trust them... Inder-Ilesh, Rajni-Disha-Ishika will treat n respect her the same if they know... 😊
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