Illfitted Match ? No Spammers allowed ... rofl

After such a while , I thought to make a Topic that interest me . sorry , Resham feel free to close it if necessary

THanx to spoilers , V now know SanjDeep story is coming to light . Both set of parents r not happy with this match . I don't blam any if them , they all faces the choices . KK is following the road chose by society . RB is burned by one man's wickedness . She knows neither she or deepak r responsible for circumstances but they r the target of insult . Sanjana always knew what Kashyaps mean to Kk so its not in her wildest imagination that he will oppose !!! Deepak has suppressed his entire astitva before . V saw him coming out of whole circumstance with the help of Kashyaps and Sanjana. He doesn't like to talk abt his dad issue . It must hurt him to think abt it or talk abt it . Not a proudest moment or how U tell ur brothers how he was born? Not wanted , needed , or even loved . He got everything very late in life so he is going to cherish everything . I think he is the misfortunest in the entire Kashyap family . He never stood a chance against his birth . Its not like he asked to b born . And no matter what he does he can't change one fact abt his life . His Birth .

I Grew up in a conservative family . My parents were very vocal abt what they would approve and what they won't . So I thought my parents won't accept cirtain type of guys and lucky for them I didn't meet the one ... They found him for me . One of my childhood friend ran away with guy from lowercast and I thought My parents won't approve of this match . V went to see her friends . My parents and I . That day change what I thought of my parents . They were not only supportive to her parents but my dad told them that society acceots or jot but they will always find us beside them . My respect for my parents grew double that day.

Today when I saw SanjDeep in colledge scene reminded me of my college days . 10 out of only 1 reach to alter as mostly families rejects the ideas . Mostly those matchs were illfited from the begining . In this case circumstances r aweful . Cirtain truth in life don't leave us alone . What do u think ?

Great post Netri, and a pretty sensitive issue this..

I have been thinking about this as well. If I was in the same situation as KK , my objection would be more on Deepak's education and career. I am not materialistic but I do believe in education .Deepak has good upbringing , a good family , KK 's other daughter is in the same house ,but What is Deepak on his own??? Ishaan was educated , a professional, even if he didn't have family support he could look after his his family.Deepak has just graduated , in this tough economical situation what type of job he would be able to get with Out a good qualification, ?? Just because you are handsome and smart and in love doesn't mean you can get married and settle down. Would any of you marry a guy like Deepak ( not Akshay Deepak please)??? Yes Sanju's dad is rich ,so does she wants her husband to move in with her ?? As no matter how great Kyshaps are they can't realistically accommodate Deepak's wife and family as well, I know they would as it's a serial but in reality it would not happen. Deepak must prove himself first that he is RB's son by not compromising his self respect and make something out of him. I fully support KK at this time purely on ground of Deepak's stability in life.

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I have been thinking about this as well. If I was in the same situation as KK , my objection would be more on Deepak's education and career. I am not materialistic but I do believe in education .Deepak has good upbringing , a good family , KK 's other daughter is in the same house ,but What is Deepak on his own??? Ishaan was educated , a professional, even if he didn't have family support he could look after his his family.Deepak has just graduated , in this tough economical situation what type of job he would be able to get with Out a good qualification, ?? Just because you are handsome and smart and in love doesn't mean you can get married and settle down. Would any of you marry a guy like Deepak ( not Akshay Deepak please)??? Yes Sanju's dad is rich ,so does she wants her husband to move in with her ?? As no matter how great Kyshaps are they can't realistically accommodate Deepak's wife and family as well, I know they would as it's a serial but in reality it would not happen. Deepak must prove himself first that he is RB's son by not compromising his self respect and make something out of him. I fully support KK at this time purely on ground of Deepak's stability in life.

Good Post Netri.. I think now sanjdeep track looks interesting.. I think RB is not wrong in thinking deepak is not suitable to sanjana.. May be she is fearing, the truth or deepak birth will come out.. or may be she thinks KK will not agree to this marriage.. More over she doesn't want deepak and her be the difference between kashyaps and KK if he is against to this marriage..

KK doesn't know about sanjdeep love.. May be KK will ask sanjana what's there in deepak he wil be accpeted as damaad ? Deepak is still studying, yet to get job and have to make her own living. and prove himself.

May be KK was looking sanjana to get with married with a boy of high-society, well-educated business family guy just like any other normal father would see. I don't want KK object deepak on his birth, but ask deepak how could he fulfill and take care of her daughter's needs and if he loves her prove himself..

I want sanjana to be strong and undestand KK feelings and also encourage stood by deepak until he settles in his life and deepak get blessings from his mother and KK by proving himself.

This is a very nice topic; there are so many ways the story can move ahead. Whichever way the story ends it would be very near to reality. (Provided they don't mess it while executing it 😛).

Please bear with me as it may not be very much cohesive and crisp.

All love stories need not end on getting married, but still have a happy ending.

I also like BM's dialog during conclusion of Mumbai track on the lines of relationships, sometimes it blossoms and sometimes it doesn't. How true isn't it?

We have examples right in the serials and in real life. There are cases where people are in love for so many years and finally get married and within two years of their married life they get separated. Another cases they get married and try to understand each other and in the process they fall in love and united forever.

There are other cases also where the love marriage works and the arrange marriage just falls apart. This means that the person whom one chooses as a life partner may not be correct all the time, as well as the person chosen by the parents is also not right.

I feel Marriage is a gamble, which depends wholly on individuals luck.

In our culture Marriages does not happens between two individuals but it is between two families. It is believed that the family of same caste, creed, and religion can get along well as compared to cross culture family may be for various reasons. (Personally I do not agree with it.). Our society approves it also. We live for society but we forget that society doesn't live for us. Society has never been considerate to the people like RB or Deepak. Had RB given a birth to a girl child, then the things would have been even worse for that child.

KK being such a nice, broad minded, forward kind of person why is he objecting the relationship between Deepak & Sanjana?

It is that he cares about the society (which I doubt), or he doesn't trust Sanjana's choice (which again I doubt). KK knows Kshyap family, so he will (should) never doubt the upbringing of Deepak nor he would be too concerned about RB's & Deepak's Past. (If I understand KK's Character correctly)

KK has to wait till Deepak gets settle and makes a mark for himself, which can be a problem. Age would be one of the biggest factors which is going to play a spoil sport. Considering both Sanjana & Deepak are of same age and Deepak will take minimum 4 years to settle and lead a decent life, it would be late marriage for Sanjana, which no parents wants. (Late marriage for women is something which is not encouraged in our society even today. We talk about broad mindedness and being forward.)

Another reason which I can think of is (may be weird). Some families do not like to get their daughter married in the same family. Do not know why, but the only reason I can think of is knowingly or unknowingly there would be a comparison make between two sisters. When there is a comparison, all the relationship gets sore, which is last thing KK would like.

Why is RB objecting this relationship?

Sanjana is Suhana's Sister and she is from affluent family, can't be the only reason for objecting this relationship. I think she would have the same problem when if it would have been someone else. She is running away from the fact that anyone who is going to come in Deepak's & RB's life will have to know the past. While telling the past she would have to relive that moment which would be horrible. This behavior is very natural and justified. Even if the Girl's family need not know it, but any lady coming in Deepak's life has to know (will) know the truth someday or other.

Now what happens in Deepak's, Sanjana's love story we need to wait and watch SGP every day from Monday to Friday @ 7:30 PM. 😉

Me too , RES . 😉 I'll try to update the post with as much time I can find .

When I say Ill Fitted not in a literal meaning . My point regarding the issue .

1 ) Our society Cast - Religion plays a big part in this case That is not the case .

2 ) I think Education is not something V can ignore . As for Deepak , I believe he would want to get a job first then talk to his family abt it . He wants to merry her but he need stubility in life first . that's Y he is not too kin on the idea of talking to family just yet . Since KK has started looking for Groom , Things r not in their hands now. He has to act now . Ishan - Suhana didn't fall in love and then went to parents for permission. It was an arrenge marriage . so V can't compare the situations . If V go back and look at what happen at Inder - Ilesh time then It is comparable . Ilesh is married and for a while he was and still is without job so did it matter to Disha's parents or they just saw good family .

While I agree , When V r in college and fall in love etc . but V have to prove groom can take care of his bride . This is not the step any one should escape .

good to see a post like this after a long time...😊

Sushma, Sheema di, Jshree, and others...very well said...👏 you have all covered whatever i wanted to say...

I dont want KK to deny SanjDeep relation because he is not from Kashyap family...I dont want to accept too because he is from Kashyap family..😆 I want KK to accept Deepak for who he is...

but who is Deepak?? for now...he is just a student...he has to prove himself that he has the potential to make big in life...he should also prove his love for Sanju...till now...i still dont know how Sanjana and Deepak fell in love...😆

RB...i think she feels inferior if Deepak and Sanju come together...i think it will be great if KK tells he does not care about her and deepak's past...but what he is concerned is about the future(though...i agree no father will do that...they always look for the family's past)

I want Deepak to be matured and understanding...and KK and RB to be supportive...and Sanju to wait...if deepak denies wedding now...she should nt do like what Suhana did...😆

now what role Suhana will play in this...i dont want her to do anything...😆 just play may be a mediator between KK and RB/Kashyaps...

it will be interesting to see how Kashyaps reacts too...i want one person(except RB ofcourse) atleast to think about the future...