28th Oct Epi discusns - Page 11

Originally posted by: Sachi16

I was insulted with continuous Comaprison to my Cousin... Mama's Daughter... we r at same age... and she knows cooking since her childhood😆 I didn't know coz I lived in Joint Family... never turned up to go in Kitchen... was used to tell me but Nicely... with Concern... Whereas My Aunt used to Taunt me in front of 10-15 ppl... I used to feel bad... Then I came here... and what... I was the only one in the house of 5 girls who knew little cooking... 😉😆😆 I was so happy & proud of myself... and gradually learned... when I went to India for the First time... and When I Cooked... everyone was like... wow you learned on your own... 😃 and You can even Cook good... Tasty Food sometime... 😃🥳

but ya I agree Insult can make you Learn Cooking... if it's made to make you Learn... but I don't like when Someone Purposefully Taunt You & Insult You to look good...by making you Low... 🤢

Originally posted by: netri

in my case shwetha , V learn English from Brithish. American English is different than British. Brits calls it curd so V too call it curd. american calls it yogurt . Both have same meaning so Technically I m not wrong , but she could have ask me what is curd ? But she made insult instead . So I gave her back. But in Suhana's case what Bijlani said is true. She can't deny that . Day she will cook food , not to mention Amazing food , she too can give back tHe insult . She can right now too but It will not change the fact other than her husband is the boss so she will get away with return Isult but it will not change the point of insult . NOT ABLE TO COOK. bigger problem is that.

Originally posted by: 111192

Netri as you rightly pointed out bijalani insulting suhana regarding her cooking will work as catalyst and now suhana will try and learn cooking from madhuri godbole who by end of this mumbai track will turn into another dolly didi/meena😊

Originally posted by: netri

Resham , the way I see it Everyone told her multiple different ways , what she should do ? Her Mother's Letter , BM , Ishan ... They r all waiting patiently for her to understand responsibilities. What she do ? Suhana still taking her time to learn . Or not to kearn as work doesn't apeal to her . Many of us don't want to go in to kitchen , but V still go & learn the craft bcauz it is expected of us. Just as whn People find bride for groom they expect groom to earn decent money & girl to know how to cook . They don't say if groom can't earn sigle money its ok . Let him take his time . No one gave Suhana bitter truth of life , Bijlanis r reality . If U think U don't have one single Aunt , Uncle or Cousins in ur family who don't insult people for less things than unable to make Gulab Jamun then U r mistaken . I saw one aunt of my insulted my mom in front of me , saying she makes moti rotis . I told her she knows how to make patli rotis but she is cooking for 15 people , when U have to make 50 rotis then come & tell us how V should cook .My mom yelled at me for being disrespectful but aunt never critisize my mom's cooking again.

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

bt one thing we are failing to discuss abt USM...is the actor...the actor is doing a fab job according to me...

Originally posted by: Sachi16

but ya I agree Insult can make you Learn Cooking... if it's made to make you Learn... but I don't like when Someone Purposefully Taunt You & Insult You to look good...by making you Low... 🤢

Originally posted by: netri

My aunt & My mom gets along very well . They never compare themselves with each other , outsiders did. Which hurt my mom alot .They both have sisters like relationship. But both grew up in different circumstances. So naturally My Mom being the Eldest Daughter & DIL of the house had to secrifice more. That's Y Rajni reminds me so much of my mom , I can relate to her . The way Rajni is upto her neck & has to find time for meethi's homework , My mom too It was hard. So I can more or less relte to it. I used to think my mom is weak as she never stood up for her self U know . I regreat it now , she told me what she did is hard. It is always easy to loose cool & say hurt ful things in anger but To drink the Zaher of Insult & prove other wrong by doing the right thing is hard. I so try to achieve it but fail misrabley... 👏 Your mom is so right...but ya like you said, it's very difficult. Even I want to be able to drink in poison and do right but I always end up giving tit for tat. 😆 My dad always constantly told me that I can't be like this and even my mom was like what's going to happen when you get married? You can't be like this...you need to learn to swallow things better. But I don't know how I can do this...I liveby the Hammurabi code: eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth. 😆

As for my Co-Worker I gave her nicely back . But never show others what went between us . For sake of work environment My Boss had to ask both of us what went that day . But he too understood what was wrong . If U ask any of my co-workers they won't believe as I said things this way . But unless I m provoked I won't say anything . For me thing ended that moment & time . For her it lasted for a month . As V have to work togather & she was wrong so she had to go back to normal. Oh yeah, I can just imagine...she's probably defintely feeling resentful of you. 😆 I bet she's waiting for some weakness of yours to show up so she can get you down without falling in the same pit as last time. 🤣

English is English , words r different , spellings r different like yogurt - curd same thing different names. Colour - color r same thing different spelling . I don't know U understand this or not but V indians learn English from Brits as they spend 200 years in india... bole toh RANI KAA RAJ THAA Well, Americans were British in the first place. 😆 But I guess since you live more northward, you probably more exposed to British English.

Originally posted by: netri

My aunt & My mom gets along very well . They never compare themselves with each other , outsiders did. Which hurt my mom alot .They both have sisters like relationship. But both grew up in different circumstances. So naturally My Mom being the Eldest Daughter & DIL of the house had to secrifice more. That's Y Rajni reminds me so much of my mom , I can relate to her . The way Rajni is upto her neck & has to find time for meethi's homework , My mom too It was hard. So I can more or less relte to it. I used to think my mom is weak as she never stood up for her self U know . I regreat it now , she told me what she did is hard. It is always easy to loose cool & say hurt ful things in anger but To drink the Zaher of Insult & prove other wrong by doing the right thing is hard. I so try to achieve it but fail misrabley...