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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: MadameX

But how much should one absorb other's insults and/or bitterness? I mean, is it wrong to put someone in their place too? When you're quiet about it, ya, it might be strong of you...but you're still letting others walk over you, y'know.

I feel the same but few don't.Its necessary to speak out sometimes otherwise u will be saturated one day and will burst on others having no concern with it and also people will take advantage of it.
Edited by firefly99 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: netri

My aunt & My mom gets along very well . They never compare themselves with each other , outsiders did. Which hurt my mom alot .They both have sisters like relationship. But both grew up in different circumstances. So naturally My Mom being the Eldest Daughter & DIL of the house had to secrifice more. That's Y Rajni reminds me so much of my mom , I can relate to her . The way Rajni is upto her neck & has to find time for meethi's homework , My mom too It was hard. So I can more or less relte to it. I used to think my mom is weak as she never stood up for her self U know . I regreat it now , she told me what she did is hard. It is always easy to loose cool & say hurt ful things in anger but To drink the Zaher of Insult & prove other wrong by doing the right thing is hard. I so try to achieve it but fail misrabley... 👏👏

Your Mom is so right... and we have seen the same Exact Similar things... and that's the reason for me too... that I relate to Rajni more... My Mom is Elder & hence She has to sacrifice... and I understood that since very small Age... that She is indeed a very Strong Person to have the Courage to drink the Zaher of Insult... 👏 and I have always Given her that Credit... wherever I go, if talk is about Mom... I proudly say & give Example of My Mom... if Someone Praises me or my Sanskaar... I always tell... Give all credits to my Mom... I haven't done anything...Me & My Dad call my Mom -- Tyaag ki Murti, I am no one if My Mom & Dad has not made me what I am... But Still I don't have Capability like My Mom to Sacrifice or to Let it go... I can do it till some Extent... but then I fail... 😊 I seriously am so Proud Daughter of her...and I think giving her Due Respect is the only way I can Applaud for her for all the things she has done for my Dad's Family... 👏

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Posted: 13 years ago
ISHWAR HAS A NERVE. HOW LONG WILL THE FAMILY PUT UP WITH IT. THE MORE THEY DO NOTHING THE MORE HE WILL THINK THEY WILL MAKE UP SOON . THEY REALLY HV TO DO SOMETHING. I REALLY FELT WHEN HE WAS PUTTING ALOK DOWN.
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Posted: 13 years ago
Rups , First Settlers when they came to America in "MayFlower " hated Brits . They left Briten in hatred. They didn't wanted anything associated with them along with Language. u should know this . This is ur history . They change lot of names like soccer , color , etc. Y do U think they changed all that. Now do ask me abt mayflower. It was ship. I believe they left it in great distress.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: netri

Rups , First Settlers when they came to America in "MayFlower " hated Brits . They left Briten in hatred. They didn't wanted anything associated with them along with Language. u should know this . This is ur history . They change lot of names like soccer , color , etc. Y do U think they changed all that. Now do ask me abt mayflower. It was ship. I believe they left it in great distress.

That was only a small group known as the Pilgrims who travelled because they wanted to be able to practice their own religion freely. However, much of the area settled by the British in America were in fact people who were taking contracts from monarchy of England to set up colonies and expand the British empire.
And yes, I do know about the Mayflower. And FYI, this is not my history just because I live here. 😆
Edit: Also wanted to add that there is no direct link between the changes in American English from British English because of the Pilgrims. The Pilgrims didn't say, "Oh we hate the Brits so we'll change the language too". No, rather Americanization of the British English happened because of contact with Native Americans for the most part during the days of settlement. Plus, you also had the French and the Spanish settlers in the Americas...and then regional boundaries between Britain and America caused a divergence in language much like how evolution of a new species of finches on an island separate from the Galapagos islands worked. Moreover, England was never homogenous in its language throughout the country so settlers from different parts of the nation came to America and met with other settlers. Hence all this mixing created the American English.
Edited by MadameX - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
I finally saw the episode, it was pretty good. Some body in living in LA LA LAND !!! Everybody acted well and somebody brought back the WALK which I absolutely ADORE !!! 😆😆 Loved Ragini today as she portrayed the sad and embarrassed face of Suhana very well. I am glad in a way that somebody is pushing her as thats what she needs , a jhtaka of realisation. I am glad I got the same jhatkas once upon a time and I literally took it to my heart and thank God I did as I owe it to those jhtkas to be where I am today !I hope and crave to see Suhana progress and try to find her inner strength and have her self respect and self esteem back.

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