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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: venture
Very well written post, and I agree with all the responses to it. I only wish that it's not one of those tracks which ate half done or left without explanation , or concluded in a filmy way. Forgiving is one thing and forgetting is another. I am confused too regarding BM, s emotions , as per previous episodes she did say several times that it was her fault and BP was a gentle man very modern and she was not able to be his true partner, so I guess there is love in her heart, how strong ? That we have to see, if she forgives and forgets then I am not sure what my opinion would be of BM then, he left her and now he wants her back , where is SHE in this picture.

For BP, she was never in the picture so why for her should BP be in the picture? Shouldn't that kind of answer be BM's answer?

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MadameX

@MadameX

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#52

one always needs a partner in old age...when she gets old she will have support from Alok ..Rano ..and her kids..but even they have life Inder will get busy with his life..they all wont be around her 24/7...like maa and bauji are..so i think she should forgive him...and try to accept him..cuz it shows that Ishwer still loves her ..he did a horrible thing that anyone could ever think of...but yet he learned from his mistakes...[/QUOTE]

She's been living many decades with the support of entire family and entire family also had her support...she is not idle!!! So it's always been give and take on both sides and no issues whatsoever about it. So why the hell does she still need BP support...that too in old age...when she is already well supported by entire family and will continue to be. Did BP really realize his mistakes? Is it really love? Or is it an escape when things went wrong in the USA?

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MadameX

@MadameX

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: ramzzz

good post mj..i have heard sumwea about relationship that forgivin the person who d u wrong is not important but after whatever had happened to u ..u have to forgive urself and move forward. Whatever has happened u should not hold on to it or blame aniwun, wen u forgive urself it also means that u have forgiven the other person as well..and thus this will not have impact in ur other relationships with other people as well..and u kan cee wen BM thinks of BP in the past, she blames herself which means she has not forgiven herself or BP..😊

I agree...and more than your post, I'm admiring that you took the time to write in mostly proper English. 🤣

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: MadameX

I agree...and more than your post, I'm admiring that you took the time to write in mostly proper English. 🤣

thank eku..it took me a hell of tym to write this..😆

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MadameX

@MadameX

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

#55

I can just imagine...aww sooo cute. 🤣

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ramzzz

@ramzzz

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: MadameX
I can just imagine...aww sooo cute. 🤣

😆😆
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tanu

@Armu4eva

Moderator

+ 14

Posted: 14 years ago

#57

To err is human.. to forgive is DIVINE... (yep heard that many times..)

But... kuch... Galti... erm.. GUNAHO ki maafi nahi hoti ...

(the other version)

Should she/CAN she forgive him?

Being impersonal.. knowing how large Shailajas heart is.. the woman in her.. the bahu in her... mite think of forgiving... but would it be possible for the WIFE in her..to forgive him??? No... never hurt the heart that loves u.. never love the heart that HURTS u... well thats my thot in this regard...!!

Even if she wanted.. can she ever ever TRUST Ishwar.. EVER AGAIN??? Even if she wanted.. can she love the Man who deserted her.. n her two small children??

Ek biwi maaf kar bhi de... kya ek MAA maaf kar paegi??? No.. i dont think so..!!

(In Raunak n Pannas case also i had strongly maintained..that Panna should have opted out.. once Raunak returned...since she fulfilled her duty as a DIL n served n took care of her FIL n MIL in his absence! Staying back n being rude to Raunak wasnt what i agree to.. n if she stayed back... then mite as well work out the path ahead)

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madhu_d

@madhu_d

Navigator

Posted: 14 years ago

#58

Sheemu loved your way of expressing the thoughts.👏
I was waiting on...and...on... to see the interactions and feelings of panna & inder for more than a month! better late ... was worth watching..

i feel that there is no need for BM to develop soft corner towards BP, he left her to her fate without thinking about the future of his kids and her! how they are going to survive and lead their further life? had not dadaji & Alok extended their support I&P would not have been what they are today?

its not easy to forget pehla pyaar but vo tho one side pyaar BM ka tha na. for Eshwar it was always a thread of responsibility..he never felt that what BM does to him was a way of expressing her love towards him..a person who never understood that meaning when he was supposed to really deserves to be in the memories...for me No...

if i am in her position i would never accept that man and never throw myself in the river of emotions..as i learnt to lead the life independently, became mentally strong, and can lead the rest of my life with support of the family.

and also i would never allow him to do the same mistake to the other woman too analyse the reasons for his come back and make him to go back to that family whom he loved most and with whom he spent so called good days according to his dictionary

but i am afraid that the writings, directions and her actions suggest that she will accept him as she thinks that it was her fault coz he left her and i also feel that suhana will play her part in extending support to BM-BP re-union and finally makes the family to accept him & us to believe in the old Indian theory of Maha ...

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Sheema

@infinity00

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#59

Madhu I totally agree with your future prediction, I am having the same feeling too as these days Suhana is playing so dumb and all of a sudden she will all be sensible and sensitive the way she was before and would do the reunion. For me that would be very filmy type mahanta, reality is not simple , BM should ask for the explanation about his other family and don't just accept his version as remember what he did last time. Let's see which road would be taken the real way or the reel way!

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abhi

@abhi786

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#60

Very Good Post sheemu..

I think BM is in confusion.. But I want BP to enter and live in kashay house for few days..

If BM says she will not accept him..may be her mind will think later may be she has given one chance to Iswar.. Just like previously BM have that Gilt that she has not fulfill Ishwar wishes as a wife... May be now BM is in confusion..

I think once, Iswar comes into the house, and starts living with her in the same room, then she might decides, IS SHE FORGIVE AND ACCEPT HIM AGAIN AS A HUSBAND OR SHE ONLY FORGIVE HIS PAST MISTAKES ... BUT NOT ACCEPT HIM...

I think it will be easier for her to decide what she really wants and take a FIRM decision...

I want BM to forgive but not accept him again as her husband, who left her in the middle and went to fulfill his own desires & life..

Edited by abhi786 - 14 years ago

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