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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Lovely reply Ekta pie. It'll take time but yes she should forgive not for his sake but for her own sake. I know from experience that the longer you delay forgiving someone the heavier it feels in your heart and mind. It's very hard but then it becomes like a burden on breath. Yes it will be tough but like you, I also want her to forgive him so free herself from the burden and the agony. Forgetting will not be possible as he's the one who did it and him being in front of her will remind her of those horrible lonely days, months, years and decades. Forgiving is tough but it's much easier than forgetting.

Perfectly said. 👏

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Netri

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Lo, everything is Ekta's fault!😆

That Goes without saying 😳 😆

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: netri

Normally I have good Memory so I'll just say I m right but If I m wrong then It's all Ekta's Fault so send I HATE U PMs to her 😎 🤣 🤣 It will take time to find that exact scene as I don't remember the month so have patience Balike 😆

Again, hate mail must contain return postage stamps. 😆 Btw Netri, who do I send my hate mail towards you?

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mjtruelegend

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: firefly99
Good POV mai👍🏼and Forgiveness is necessary in this case even the removal of symbols,living with a spurious everyday can only give u never ending pain as symbols keep the memories alive even if they are bitter one's

But is she wearing those symbols for the man who betrayed her or is she wearing for the man she loved?

I honestly think that she wears them specifically for the husband she knew and lived with for the time that they did. For the man who fathered her children. She embedded him in her heart and mind has her "SUHAAG" and I think it's reason she can't take them off.

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: firefly99
Good POV mai👍🏼and Forgiveness is necessary in this case even the removal of symbols,living with a spurious everyday can only give u never ending pain as symbols keep the memories alive even if they are bitter one's

Sometimes I think even bitter memories (aka symbols) can be good...because for me, when I keep symbols of things that remind me of bad things, I think to why those things were bad, how it affected my life, and what have I learned from it. It reminds me not to make mistakes of other people because then I vividly remember how I was hurt so I won't hurt others the same way. It tells me how I can never stray from my path, especially when I can easily be prone to straying from it.

Man, that sounds kinda masochistic. 🤣

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Lo, everything is Ekta's fault!😆

I've become an easy scapegoat it seems. 😉😆

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: netri

Mai has Chorified my thoughts from Morning Discussion 😆 I told her all that 😆

I was hoping you wouldn't notice. 😳😉😆

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MadameX

@MadameX

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

But is she wearing those symbols for the man who betrayed her or is she wearing for the man she loved?

I honestly think that she wears them specifically for the husband she knew and lived with for the time that they did. For the man who fathered her children. She embedded him in her heart and mind has her "SUHAAG" and I think it's reason she can't take them off.

Hmm tough question to answer considering BM's true feelings are still not clear yet.

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mjtruelegend

@mjtruelegend

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: MadameX
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Sometimes I think even bitter memories (aka symbols) can be good...because for me, when I keep symbols of things that remind me of bad things, I think to why those things were bad, how it affected my life, and what have I learned from it. It reminds me not to make mistakes of other people because then I vividly remember how I was hurt so I won't hurt others the same way. It tells me how I can never stray from my path, especially when I can easily be prone to straying from it.

Well that's very good and that how it should be. Remember God only gives the amount of pain that you can tolerate. The fact you've surpassed those bitter memories shows you are strong and capable of tolerating pain. In a way, pain is good, it keeps you grounded, it makes you appreciate the good things in life and it reminds you that despite all the sad agony, you are still carrying on, you're living, you're learning which mean you are a progressing towards becoming a better human being each time. In life there will be many stories of the good and the bad but what's important that you've remained a good human being throughout and nothing can touch you!