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Posted: 14 years ago
#41
Very well written post, and I agree with all the responses to it. I only wish that it's not one of those tracks which ate half done or left without explanation , or concluded in a filmy way. Forgiving is one thing and forgetting is another. I am confused too regarding BM, s emotions , as per previous episodes she did say several times that it was her fault and BP was a gentle man very modern and she was not able to be his true partner, so I guess there is love in her heart, how strong ? That we have to see, if she forgives and forgets then I am not sure what my opinion would be of BM then, he left her and now he wants her back , where is SHE in this picture.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: venture

Very well written post, and I agree with all the responses to it. I only wish that it's not one of those tracks which ate half done or left without explanation , or concluded in a filmy way. Forgiving is one thing and forgetting is another. I am confused too regarding BM, s emotions , as per previous episodes she did say several times that it was her fault and BP was a gentle man very modern and she was not able to be his true partner, so I guess there is love in her heart, how strong ? That we have to see, if she forgives and forgets then I am not sure what my opinion would be of BM then, he left her and now he wants her back , where is SHE in this picture.



Thankyou Di.

I also don't want it done the filmy way. Keep it natural and SGP like please! I really do think that there is love in her her heart for him which why she cannot decide fully as to what to do. Lets hope that no one pressures her for anything and that she is free to make the decision herself based on what she wants and no one else!

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Posted: 14 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: venture

Very well written post, and I agree with all the responses to it. I only wish that it's not one of those tracks which ate half done or left without explanation , or concluded in a filmy way. Forgiving is one thing and forgetting is another. I am confused too regarding BM, s emotions , as per previous episodes she did say several times that it was her fault and BP was a gentle man very modern and she was not able to be his true partner, so I guess there is love in her heart, how strong ? That we have to see, if she forgives and forgets then I am not sure what my opinion would be of BM then, he left her and now he wants her back , where is SHE in this picture.


True Di , Now a days None of the characters behaves the same way they did Year ago . If U had ask me How would have behaved BM year ago I would have said Close the Door on BP's face , let alone go to see him . I can't believe this is the same dadi V saw who said " Badi kahi nahi jayegee ? Woh iss ghar kee baite hain, Yahin rahe gee " That Dadi stoop so low & asks BM to accepts BP back ? so I can't predict or even little afraid to predict what is going to happen as They have taken Characters 360 & story along with it. BM 's confusion is making us confused together . But I really hop that BM takes a stand once & for all .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mjtruelegend



People like that are not right mentally to know how to walk in the straight path. They go astray and lose themselves in self pity and depression and then they become ignorant of their own strengths and capabilities. Their self esteem and and confidence hits rock bottom. They have no faith and soon they get lost in their own world. Otherwise why would they be depressed in the 1st place? God comes and saves people who are capable in like Raunak but not everytime. You are given a chance to recover and redeem but one has to remember to use their strength to fight negative thoughts, such as suicide. God gives that skill to everyone but it's up to to the individual to utilise it to the best of their abilities. He won't keep helping if that person doesn't use their given strengths in a positive way.

Hope it made sense!

Not really...still kinda confused (hope you don't mind). See, the way I see it...when people say that God gives only a certain amount of pain that a person can tolerate...so then if we say a person had tolerance towards pain of about 50%, and then something happens in that person's life wherein the pain is too high and not within the tolerance range...so then that person will commit suicide, thereby negating the idea of God only giving a certain amount of pain that can be tolerated. Get what I mean? I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't agree with the statement, "God gives the amount of pain that a person can tolerate." I also don't believe that God purposefully gives pain...that's just one's own karma.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: netri


It's all Ekta's fault as she chorify My Lines from the Morning . Here is the Link to the Episode . Where BM receives letter from BP saying BP has married Meera without Divorce . Now makes me wonder which is worst , Meera or BM or both . Really Guys , BP did wrong with 2 Women . It doesn't matter How much he learnt in life . 🥱


If U want to put the Link on the first page go ahead .

Okay, saw the video...and yeah, even I felt so bad for BM...Ouch But at least you realized that BM wasn't divorced yet. 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
#46
one always needs a partner in old age...when she gets old she will have support from Alok ..Rano ..and her kids..but even they have life Inder will get busy with his life..they all wont be around her 24/7...like maa and bauji are..so i think she should forgive him...and try to accept him..cuz it shows that Ishwer still loves her ..he did a horrible thing that anyone could ever think of...but yet he learned from his mistakes...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#47
I m really confused seeing BM reaction...I don't know whether she still loves BP or not...sometimes she says that there is no place for BP in her heart and she even she even thinks that it was all her mistake and she was the sole reason why BP left BM...
here I m totally not at all in predicting anything and looking forward to what CV's are going to show.I just hope they show it in sensible way with taking into consideration every words of BM and other family members.
I personally don't want BM to accept BP as she lived 2 long painful decades without him and he never ever thought of her ...she managed really well to upbring her children.where she lived 20 years without him now why to forget everything that happened...
she can forgive him but I don't want her to accept him as a husband...BP is a selfish man...for sake of money and success he left BM...and now he still thinks that BM loves him...how can he still think that he is worth loving😡
Edited by meenakshi_16 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: MadameX

Great post, Sheemu. Personally, I want BM to truly forgive BP so she can truly be free of him from her heart. It's like they won't be tied together through these emotions of hurt and anger once that happens. Usually a stranger is a stranger when there are no connections of any kind...for BP to truly be a stranger to BM and the family, they need to sever any connections with him whether they be physical or emotional. So yes, forgiveness is necessary to finally let go of the person and the past you shared. Then even the symbols themselves will come off easily.



good post mj..i have heard sumwea about relationship that forgivin the person who d u wrong is not important but after whatever had happened to u ..u have to forgive urself and move forward. Whatever has happened u should not hold on to it or blame aniwun, wen u forgive urself it also means that u have forgiven the other person as well..and thus this will not have impact in ur other relationships with other people as well..and u kan cee wen BM thinks of BP in the past, she blames herself which means she has not forgiven herself or BP..😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
#49
Di, A very Meaningful and a very Touchy Post Ya👍🏼😃. I Know people Believe That when one gets Pain,Its all becoz of Karma but its just a Passing Phase...i know this as a personal experience that Good People who have never ever Done anything wrong in their Lives Get what they don't deserve. But i Don't understand Why is BM under such a Confusion?? This Man Never Cared for HER and HER kids and only was self-obsessed with his JOB,and His Life...Okay there are Some person who don't want to Share everything with their family, But AAp itna Paisa kamake Karoge kya?? Kiske sath enjoy karoge??And just See This Dashing Dude's Guts😆...He is still in his lala Land Of Shailu,Him and THEIR kids 😆
i Wonder Why did BP's Second Wife(dont know her name) Left him🤢...Bur now BM has HER kids, Such a lovely Family Members(excluding Dadiji😆)...who were with her throughout her Bad phase ...SO she should probably Let him Go and give Dadi a piece of mind And live life happily ever After😳 😆...But I know,Its not gonna As Cv's Didn't even say that BP' track is a Cameo So maybe We have to Jelofy him as our Bhartiya Naari will Kind of forgive him at last🤢🤢🤢
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P.S: Nets, i know u'll read this, so was wondering whether its okay if i copy-paste some thing from This post on Ur thread??? 😉 🤣

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Posted: 14 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend



Ji 🤗Aaapki BADI meherbaani hogi ji ...shukiya shukriya.

Are my eyes deceiving me? Sheemu-sama and Netri Ji in a purposely jovial conversation? 😲😲 Oho,kya baat hai...🤣 I want to screencap this rare moment now. 🤣

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