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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Why is that Renu?
It happens in real life too. In fact its actually very sweet and works out really well for them, so I am happy but do explain what you mean. I would like to know.



Sheemu, there are two reasons for me saying that...firstly my mom says whenever two sister marry in same house something or the other happens to one of the sister's and my mom gave me 2-3 examples and secondly my mom says whenever 2 sister's get married in same household the rista of devarni and jethani takes over the rista of sister's.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Sorry Shweta, I think I am not making myself clear. I don't mean that they have to do the "jai jai" types and I am not saying that they need to praise them in front of them but what I am saying is that where they noticed the coldness of the Sharma's and had discussions about it, they should also recognise the warmth of the Bajpaye and at least say to themselves that they are indeed lucky to have them in their lives otherwise it would have been twice as bad if the Bajpye's were the same as the Sharma's. It's a matter of princple.

i totally get u sheemu...and iam again saying that a scene like that will be nice...
bt its understood how Kashyaps feel abt Bajpais...

and again its a matter of opportunity...there has to be a occasion when Kashyaps should tell abt KK and Sanju...just like that wont be nice too...

the last line i meant abt arguments was in general...😊

and we both are agreeing with each other...and are still telling the same thing...😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yaar 30 minutes mai kis ko yaad rakhain aur kis ko nahi. They do respect them but I guess its human nature bad news is always in news , good news once told then forgotten. A disruptive child in a class is more noticed , more time is given to him but a acha bacha is always acha bacha nothing else to say about him. Kyshaps are not really into talking about anybody, khud say fursat milay toh karain naa. Infact they didnt even talked about Suhana how she is adjusting, it was like an understood thing that she HAS to adjust , only Ishaan once talked about her to the ladies of the family what she was like and how she is now .
Dont count on having something like this mentioned as there plate is already so full with so many things to cover. But yes it would have been nice to hear something about KK besides , " Suhana bilkul apnay Dad ki tarha Bawlee hai " ( Ladies in Picnic making fun of KK)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sheemu, there are two reasons for me saying that...firstly my mom says whenever two sister marry in same house something or the other happens to one of the sister's and my mom gave me 2-3 examples and secondly my mom says whenever 2 sister's get married in same household the rista of devarni and jethani takes over the rista of sister's.

Hhhmmm thats very interesting. I guess its like anything, sometimes its good, sometimes its not so good. There is good and bad in everything but I think its whatever works for some people.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

i totally get u sheemu...and iam again saying that a scene like that will be nice...
bt its understood how Kashyaps feel abt Bajpais...

and again its a matter of opportunity...there has to be a occasion when Kashyaps should tell abt KK and Sanju...just like that wont be nice too...

the last line i meant abt arguments was in general...😊

and we both are agreeing with each other...and are still telling the same thing...😆

There have been many opportunities, but they were never used it. Still they have yet to acknowledge how much Suhana has done to adjust to the family. I think there should be an episode where the family are at the Bajpaye houselhold and see what Suhana used to have, then they will realise, MY GOSH, THE GIRL HAS SACRIFICED ALOT. Rajni and Disha used to moan about her habbits, but they didnt realise that OLD HABBITS DIE HARD.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

There have been many opportunities, but they were never used it. Still they have yet to acknowledge how much Suhana has done to adjust to the family. I think there should be an episode where the family are at the Bajpaye houselhold and see what Suhana used to have, then they will realise, MY GOSH, THE GIRL HAS SACRIFICED ALOT. Rajni and Disha used to moan about her habbits, but they didnt realise that OLD HABBITS DIE HARD.


i dont think there is a need to acknowledge everything...we have heard BM and elders tell how much suhana has changed...we have seen how much rajini and disha love suhana...suhana is their DIL...part of the family...when one starts acknowledging..everything...i think everything kind of become very formal...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well each to their own. Shweta I can understand what you are saying but the reason they've never undestood what Suhana has done in great detail and that fact that they ALWAYS make a mockery of her emotions and very rarely value what she has to say IS BECAUSE OF THE LACK ACKNOWLEDGEMENT. People only value one another when they realise that they have done for one another. A bond is made more stronger through realisation and appreciation.
We've seen KK-Sanju speak of how much Ishaan and Kashyap's have done for Suhana, but the Kashyaps haven't yet realised what she's done. Yes they've said she's changed, but they never mention how and why!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502


i dont think there is a need to acknowledge everything...we have heard BM and elders tell how much suhana has changed...we have seen how much rajini and disha love suhana...suhana is their DIL...part of the family...when one starts acknowledging..everything...i think everything kind of become very formal...




True Shwets. And I don't think Suhana has done anything gr8 here by adjusting and we shouldn't term it as a sacrifice as she doesn't enjoy her old habits anymore. Its like what she enjoys most now she is doing that. Also the kashyaps love has overtaken her love for her old habits and likes.
And even the kashyaps need not boast about how they accepted someone like Suhana. They are also having a nice time with Suhana and they enjoy her company.
So its mutual and there is no need for any ack.
This is according to me. Others might have different takes and I totally respect that.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sheemu I can understand ur point that why they should acknowledge KK atleast once for being nice to them but they are being even more nice to Bajpai's even KK has also acknowledged there goodness that how they consider his daughter as there own daughter and regarding your point that Kashyps didn't recognize Suhana's effort of getting adjust to an enitrely different environment I think they did recognized her,Suhana is there dearest DIL(ladli bahu) they left no stones unturned for Suhana's treatment they even acknowledged Suhana's courage and strengths and the purity of her heart many times and regarding Disha and Rajni taking about Suhana's habbit they humorously talked about it now they also consider Suhana as there own sister 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: aneesha_sahani

Very well written post sheemu di👏

I agree with u di never saw kasyap's talk abt bajpai's how gud they are by nature so down to earth ppl even being so rich n etc etc but i think kashyap's also give the love n respect to bajpai's in return n treat them as a part of their own family ths thing also shows how they like bajpai's casually also we really don't go on praising the person for his/her good deeds but giving them amount of respect they deserve is also one of the way of showing our love for them...woh kehti hai na pyaar ko lafzo ki zarrot nahi hoti but nafrat ko hoti hai(goes for sharma's)😆
BUT u r also right atleast once they can show kashyap's talking abt bajpai's.

Thankyou Aneesha. You explained yourself really nicely dear.
You are right the treatment itself does show respect and and affection, it just bothers me how they always mock Suhana, this is why I think if they were to notice her and her Dad's kindness more, than they would appreciate her more. Its all very well saying that they love her, she's the ladli bahu, but they never respect her as a person and thats wrong.

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