SGP's families - ever wondered? - Page 5

Originally posted by: venture

It could be good or bad both as I have seen excellent relationships and not so great as well. It depends on individuals, even if you are not blood related you could have a relationship with your sister in law more then your own sister, so there is no guarentee in relationships. I have three sons, my oldest and youngest are very much the same, the middle one in the tough cookie!!! but I know that he would be the one who would be a support to me then the other two. By support I dont mean that he would give me money or would put me first then his wife, no way !!! I dont want that, support means he will be there for me if I would need him, where as the other 2 are very cheeky and would get away. So it depends again on siblings.
Regarding Sanju and Suhana, ideally Deepak should stand on his feet and move to a different house and should give his mother a HOME of there own, Kyshaps have been brilliant no doubt but its about time RB and Deepak make there own little world they both deserve that and Sanju should be part of it. I can sense some trouble in the wedding of them both as for start RB might have problem thinking that they are not good enough for Bajpais, because of her past, and KK although very modern and extremely nice person would NOT have any problem but there would be somebody somewhere would have like Sharda Bua types. So Deepak should first prove himself career wise then anything else.

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

I am fully AWARE of that, thankyou very much. Its just seems odd how such an obvious point is not observed.

Originally posted by: netri

Nice Post By the Way SheemU ,😍
Sharmas ,
They never showed us their story but just they r filthy rich . It also depends on person's nature also ,
how they take the wealth .
One of the old episode , Mrs. Sharma said that Her son gave her what her husband couldn't as her husband doesn't have it in him. To me it seems They were middle Class Family before and once Rounak got his job , they became wealthy . Plus Panna told rounak that she loved to go out on his bike as now they have car . So there is definite change in life style . and attitude.

Bajpais ,
As it seems , Mr. Bajpai has been wealthy all his life . Again No back story , ...
All the flash Back shows they were wealthy ...
I can say from experience that when U r born wealthy , It is not a bigger deal for U .
Again there r exceptions... I have seen the both side of wealth .
And in SGP as well they show us both side of wealth .

Kashyaps ,
They r Hard working Middle Class Family ,
They know the value of Money as they have been through some tight spots in the past .
Money matters but
Family matters to them more ( As it should)
They can see the difference from Sharmas & Bajpais .
As when they went for the picnic , they ( Elders ) invited Bajpais with them , While they only invited Sharmas ( For sake of Panna ( As there was no love or respect in Inviting Sharmas )) So they can see the difference in both families. Some things U can not say in open . It will b very dis-respectful to both Rounak & Panna .
But I do agree that they Could have show us that they do value Our dearest Bajpais more they r letting on .
Again , I hope I did well with this post . Not sure & I m in hurry so I m not going to read again or read to know I wrote something regarding the subject .

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3">Alok and Suhana have a beautiful DIL-FIL bond. Its wonderful. Infact its Alok who is only elder to have recognised what Suhana has done and its him who always speaks kindly to her, even though he shouts at everyone else. Suhana doesn't mock Alok, she mimics him and Alok is aware of that. He himself enjoys is when she does mock, She says shut up to Ishaan, because he is of equal level, she wouldn't say that to the elders now would she. </font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS" size="3">They have always mocked Suhana, her emotions were always futile to them, especially during THAT track. Even recently when she was agnry about them calling her Shashikala, how every conveniently they turned the table round using "Thakur and Gabbar". Its only because she's so naive that they got away - again! Its about time they showed some respect.</font>

Originally posted by: OMG1nitya

Oh yeah! I agree with them making fun of her n changing topics as she cant understand... I notice whenever she says anyrhing silly rolling eyes n giggles n looking at eachother happens instead of saying it out.. This whole sasikala thing is so wrong in manyways!!!!! From the time of deciding name n after she came to know changing the tone everything! She loves them all innocently wholeheartedly n believes them n mockery happens oon her innocence!

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Thankyou for your reply Netri. I agree with most things you have said but the underlined sentence...well did I say they need to say anything in front of Panna or any one else? For me its just a matter having a discussion amongst themselves where they show some acknowledgement and appreciation for the Bajpaye's. In many cases it turns out to be mockery of Suhana and after that picnic fiasco, they mocked KK as well a few times, rather than saying at least once "Look what a good human being he is, despite having social/status differences, he mingles in with us all so nicely, just as though we are his own".
All I am saying is that good natured people should be praised more than we already do. Thats all. What I have said is nothing to do with any one or anything else.

Originally posted by: netri

Not every one is alike. I m as different from my brother as possible and V have difference of oppinion too . As My Ba ( Dadi ) used to say " Maan bhed thay pan maat bhed naa thay " Meaning U may have difference of oppinion but not difference of heart . ( Roughly ) U r right Parent might b good nature but there is no guarantee that children will b like them . And yes, there r lot of factors involving . but as I said before What I wrote , is from personal experience .
To me My brother No matter How much v r not alike , no matter at times v fight or hate each other . When it all comes down to he is my brother. When U r struggling to make ur relationship with ur sibling work , It's not gonna survive if U add one more .
Yes , there will b enough situations that will arise which will test ur bond. But If U can't b honest with each other , If U can't tell each other how U feel , It's not gonna work. Bonds will b tested . but If U r both married in different families than there r chances of bond being tested. atleast here U r 2 people know each other inside out .
Lastly , Key To make any relationship work is " There is no Me in relationship, There is only US " if U can put others before U in life , than yes every relationship works. My Ba used to say " Budhe marya pani juda kem thase " Meaning How r U going to separate water with Stick .
P.S. Tejesh , I m going out so will reply to ur reply to this later If U reply to this ...😕 While I say this Tejesh , Just cauz I have seen this kinda relationship work doesn't mean It works for everyone and it doesn't mean that It can't . I agree to that .

Originally posted by: venture

Yaar 30 minutes mai kis ko yaad rakhain aur kis ko nahi. They do respect them but I guess its human nature bad news is always in news , good news once told then forgotten. A disruptive child in a class is more noticed , more time is given to him but a acha bacha is always acha bacha nothing else to say about him.

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Yes I agree di, but are you telling me that in over a year and over 300 episodes, they couldn't make a five minute scene to say something nice about the Bajpaye's rather than mocking Suhana and her Dad at every given opportunity?

@red, off course I am not saying that why should I say that, I am just trying to think of a reason they might have for this, it annoys me just as you , but dear thats how it is, they dont see it from our point of view, they have there own set ideas.