SGP's families - ever wondered?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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We all know and have seen that the Kashyaps are a big joint family. They are loving, caring, considerate and very supportive of one another. They are a middle class family which means life can be very difficult sometimes as money is not their strength. Of course in times of crises they do what ever is possible to solve the problems, be it, Rano selling her gold bangles for Suhana's surgery or Radha Bua pawning her gold bangles for Rano's mother's operation and of course the best one Ishaan selling his khatara scooter and buying a car to please Suhana. Wah kiya baat hain!! 👏👏What great gestures. They do indeed show how you can be so selfless and be very considerate about others. Their selfless love, care and attention is certainly what has kept them together in total unity. 👏

One of the families who have tied their bond with the Kashyap's are the Sharma's. Its a very nuclear family. There is Mr Sharma, Mrs Sharma (Kamini), their son Raunak Sharma. Raunak married the Kashayp's daughter, Panna. They are probably in the higher middle-class or lower high-class but they (mother and son) like to think and behave as though they own whole building they live in rather than just that one apartment. Rather big - headed. Their aan, baan, shaan used to come from the their son's great earnings (not anymore). However even after Raunak lost his job, both him and his mother's attitude remained the same for a very long time, they were not willing to accept and make adjustments as their income was much lower than before, and this was all because they are very materialistic people. Through the days, weeks and months Mrs Sharma has been hit by reality and she is much more understanding of their situation. However, even though Mrs Sharma has realised the goodness of the Kashyap's, she is still yet to set her foot in Chawdi bazaar.

We have seen previously how the Kashyap's always complained about the snootiness and the haughty attitude of Mrs Sharma and sometimes Raunak too. What I have wondered is that while they have shown their anger/frustration towards the Mrs Sharma, why haven't they ever spoken highly about another family they are tied to and they are of course the wonderful BAJPAYE's

Its a tiny family, a father (Mr Kamal Kishore Bajpaye) and his 2 daughters, Suhana and Sanjana. They are a crorepati family who own a palatial house in the city and they have farmhouse nearby. They are very approachable and very down to earth. Though they have every thing money can buy, you never hear them boasting about it. They are so kind and so friendly. We have seen how Suhana and Sanjana both help their maid "Dolly didi" whenever she's needed money. I am surprised how the Kashyap's never said what a great man KK as he is! I mean it is him who brought Ishaan home after his car knocked Ishaan off his scooter.👏 Some rich people wouldn't have bothered. He gave them his daughter without once thinking about how will she live there because she is so used to all the luxuries. I suppose he knew that, in reality their love and affection will mean more to Suhana than living in lap of luxury without love and affection. Suhana has had so much but she never looked down on anyone and she doesn't ever compare her father's status to her in-laws as she knows that would be unrealistic. She has high standards as that is what she's used to but she's certainly not big-headed!


I personally would like to hear the Kashyaps saying something nice about the Bajpaye's and even Suhana. I would like for them to acknowledge that despite being crorepati's they were never rude to them like Mrs Sharma used to be.

Well that was just my point of view. I don't mean to offend anyone with this. Let me know if I am the only who thought of this or have you also wondered the same?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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wonderful post sheemU di!!! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️!!!

I agree completely with your points that we don't get to see kashyap's praising Bajpai's. But then again, I don't recall kashyap family talking too much about sharma family either...once in a while they might say that they are like this or that...but nothing too much, which is good! It's better to look at your own life then to discuss someone else's. But it would be nice to see more of a bonding between kashyap and bajpai family...

would love to write more and explain my pov, but i've gotta go now.. 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Trust you Feefi to "reserve"😆 I wonder how long it'll be till you un-reserve.
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Nice Post By the Way SheemU ,😍
Sharmas ,
They never showed us their story but just they r filthy rich . It also depends on person's nature also ,
how they take the wealth .
One of the old episode , Mrs. Sharma said that Her son gave her what her husband couldn't as her husband doesn't have it in him. To me it seems They were middle Class Family before and once Rounak got his job , they became wealthy . Plus Panna told rounak that she loved to go out on his bike as now they have car . So there is definite change in life style . and attitude.

Bajpais ,
As it seems , Mr. Bajpai has been wealthy all his life . Again No back story , ...
All the flash Back shows they were wealthy ...
I can say from experience that when U r born wealthy , It is not a bigger deal for U .
Again there r exceptions... I have seen the both side of wealth .
And in SGP as well they show us both side of wealth .

Kashyaps ,
They r Hard working Middle Class Family ,
They know the value of Money as they have been through some tight spots in the past .
Money matters but
Family matters to them more ( As it should)
They can see the difference from Sharmas & Bajpais .
As when they went for the picnic , they ( Elders ) invited Bajpais with them , While they only invited Sharmas ( For sake of Panna ( As there was no love or respect in Inviting Sharmas )) So they can see the difference in both families. Some things U can not say in open . It will b very dis-respectful to both Rounak & Panna .
But I do agree that they Could have show us that they do value Our dearest Bajpais more they r letting on .
Again , I hope I did well with this post . Not sure & I m in hurry so I m not going to read again or read to know I wrote something regarding the subject .

Edited by netri - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

Trust you Feefi to "reserve"😆 I wonder how long it'll be till you un-reserve.


lol i kinda unreserved, but not completely...i'll finish off my point at night if i find the time, otherwise later!! 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Feefi


lol i kinda unreserved, but not completely...i'll finish off my point at night if i find the time, otherwise later!! 😆



Feefi, you always seem to be in a rush, take it easy dear kahin gir gayi toh?.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree to sum extent! They r good joint family for sure! Nice ppl with good family values n care for eachother...

Sumtims sharmas cross limits of decency where kashaps r put in situation to show displeasure or talk about them to get a solution..

As for bajpais hmmm no doubt they r all sweet ppl but may b not to make ragini n disha feel less n bring misunderstanding of egos elder kashaps dont give the credit they deserve... Yet its ok in my opinion coz that brings harmony in relations...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sorry dear, what I am saying has nothing to do with Rajni or Disha or anyone else for that matter.

My point is about the whole Kashyap family. It will be great if they could acknowledge and give some credit to the Bajpaye's for the way they are. Thats what I am saying.😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i think its in human nature to bad mouth others than praise them... in my house my annoying aunties are discussed more than my sweet aunties.. i know, wierd and stupid, but its human nature..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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sheemu...very nice post...😊

i think its a matter of opportunities...there has been many opportunities for the kashyaps to talk about Sharmas...not many for Bajpais..

and also KK and Sanju keep coming to Kashyaps becos they get good respect from them...
yes...it will be nice if they show the Kashyaps speaking abt the Bajpais once...
eventhough i feel its understood hw Kashyaps think abt Bajpais...

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