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@allizzwell

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hi guys... me back after a long time...😃... saw the episode now... loved BM-Dadi conversation... moreover BM track is getting more and more interesting now... leaving us wondering how she is gonna react if BP (bade papa😆) drops by...anyways this topic i dedicate to the 3 ladies of the kashyap household who have been facing the triumphs of life with a smile without their respective PATIS... our own BM, our Shashikala😆, and our Panna...

Their better halves have been either out of sight or in suhana's case just void with her... but the ladies have managed to withhold their pains, their sorrows to themselves and not showing it to their dear and near ones with a beautiful thot ...they don't want to see the reflection of their sorrows on their face... such consideration for the loved ones truly needs a beautiful mind and a loving heart which all the 3 women of our SGP possess...

1. Today BM tried justifying dadi that she was happy in the parivaar... so what if ishwar is no more with her... but her sadness did show up when she said to suhana... " atleast u shud not have the fate of a PATI bina SASURAAL... the TAG though started off lightly ended with the most painful feeling of BM...!

2. Panna just left the doc's room when raunak was asked about... she was all in senses till his name was uttered... but it just took secs. for her to withdraw herself to her world of loneliness ... when Raunak's name came into picture... her pain was only hers... she marched out of the room...!

3. Suhana was busy irritating and pestering Ishaan in her usual ways just to be around him... but finally when he left the room... she broke down and her tears just rolled on... saying why...oh why do u leave me so... it HURTS...her pains r only hers... her eyes allmost speak of loneliness to ishaan... but seems like with amnesia... he has even forgotten to read the thots thru her eyes...!

What is a sasuraal without the PATI???

Does it make sense???

This has been beautifully etched out in today's episode... and i loved it...!

Thanks all... hope u all enjoy the read and i wud love to read the different thots on this issue...!

Edited by laxmi_s - 14 years ago

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Posted: 14 years ago

Laxmi...as usual wonderful post 👏

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Gauri

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Posted: 14 years ago

Hello Laxmi di, welcome back 🤗

I'm now going to read your post 😉😆

Edit:

Hmm, I agree 100 percent with what you have written, but I feel that between the three of them, Panna is the one who has had to face maximum hardships. And also, Radha Bua. I will explain that:

BM and Suhana both have the support of the Kashyap household, which is the best Sasural that anyone can ask for. Very few people would do what Dadaji and Dadi did for Shailaja (adopted her as a daughter in the true sense, sirf kehne ke liye nahin) Shailaja is still consulted on every major decision that is taken in the family. She's the one who decides everything, right from whether Ishaan's room should have an AC or not (not his own mom), or what gift is to be given at every wedding. She's the one who collects money for household expenditure and not Alok. The Kashyaps truly value her and consider her in place of Ishwar and everyone gives her that respect. This is a huge thing, considering what women who have been deserted by their husbands have to go through in society. Again, this has been possible only because of Ambarnath Kashyap's large heart and broad mindedness. Dadi's heart still beats for her son Ishwar, but Dadaji is all for his DIL.
Lets not discuss Suhana here because uska husband uski aankhon ke saamne hai. She's not 'without' her husband, because her husband is already falling in love with her. He's just not realized it yet. Its only a matter of time now. Having said that, I feel that CVs have not handled this track well. If Ishaan had been told that her name is Suhana and not Shashikala, and she's unmarried and Ishika's friend, he would've definitely confessed his feelings to her. He already remembers the time spent with Suhana. He's just confused with the name. The CVs could've created a 'Sadma'(movie starring Sridevi) kind of situation here, but thankfully they didn't, which is why Suhana is in a much better position compared to the other ladies.
Panna's situation is interesting because the situation in her Sasural was very hostile, and she has had to work very hard and win over her khadoos MIL solely with her loving and caring attitude. Its difficult to be nice to someone who's always picking on you, so hats off to Panna, for dealing with the situation so wonderfully. If she wanted, she could've shirked her responsibilities and gone to the Kashyaps. But she stayed on and made it work. And her husband is in the clutches of a psycho woman and is not able to free himself. Panna has been trying to find him for months and doesn't have a clue as to his whereabouts. She is single-handedly looking after the Sharmas. Unlike her mom, she doesn't have any kind of financial or emotional support. The Sharmas cannot share her grief in the same way as the Kashyaps have shared Shailaja's pain. Because the Sharmas are different from the Kashyaps.
Radha Bua's situation is the worst, because the man she married turned out to be an absolute jerk who crushed her spirit on the wedding night itself by selling her to another man who raped her. She had no family support, and if the Kashyaps had not adopted her she would've been rendered homeless. It is she who has had to bear the worst nightmare, and her resilience is truly remarkable. Her character is the strongest on the show, because I think very few women would have the spirit to be able to lead a dignified life after facing what she faced.

In the end, I want to say ki pati bina sasural is a sad situation for anyone because your husband is your link that binds you and your in laws but can be a good experience agar sasural Kashyap family jaisa ho. Unfortunately everyone is not that lucky.

Edited by iruaG - 14 years ago

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@allizzwell

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: 111192
Laxmi...as usual wonderful post 👏

Lagtha hai mera quota ok like key for your posts r done for today... renu... it is not accepting it...😆😆😆... thanks dear... kuch vichaar bhi likhiye...😆

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@allizzwell

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: iruaG
Hello Laxmi di, welcome back 🤗

I'm now going to read your post 😉😆

jhakaas gauri... ekdum rubalwa isstyle...😆😆

Thanks sweetie... padkar do key in your views... on the topic...😃

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Posted: 14 years ago

Even though I didn't like the episode, Di u gave all of us a very good food for thought.👏

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@allizzwell

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: tejeshec
Even though I didn't like the episode, Di u gave all of us a very good food for thought.👏

Thanks tejbhai... i know till sushaan get back to normalcy... it might look a drag... but i loved the common scenario of the 3 women... they tried to pitch up in today's episode... so i found it better...😃

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 14 years ago

First of all...welcome back di...😊

Now..ur topic is very complicated for me...😆
i will come back...as i have to think a lot...

please do set the same kind of questions for renu...😉

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111192

@111192

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: laxmi_s

Lagtha hai mera quota ok like key for your posts r done for today... renu... it is not accepting it...😆😆😆... thanks dear... kuch vichaar bhi likhiye...😆

Laxmi...subah se itna kuch vichaar karliya meine ki ab vichaar karne ke liye dimmag hi nahi bacha😆

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Netri

@iViews

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Wonderful post Di
More & More , BM scenes comes in to the Serial ,It make sme wonder if BM is going to accept Ishwar back in her life ... Even though I don't want her to but It sure is interesting to see BM in turmoil , Only in this storm she is going to find the truth . More like what it is that BM wants in life . does she think , Her life is empty with out Hubby ?

as for Suhana , some can say that what Suahan did to Ishan earlier It came back to her . I'll say Suhana never gave importance to Ishan but Ishan never tried to woo her either . Atleast she is trying romancing with him full fledged ... 😉 May b both character r behaving as they r instructed but seeing suhana flirting with Ishan is worth the trouble ...
For Ishan , Less said the better .

Panna , She is after all her mother's daughter . BM never let anyone in on her sadness or pain even now , when he called her , wrote her a letter so Panna leaving Doc's office is one way she is not letting anyone see her pain or sadness. She doesn't want to appear weak . specially in front of her brother .

These r just My POVs . 😊

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