I think the more important question is why did you fall in love with me and not when. And yes both questions are difficult to answer, why and when.
Can someone say, unless its a love at first sight, ki i met you on 1jan, and from 10jan i started loving you? I dont think you can say us din se..
It is gradual I think.
You can say when you realised, because its a slow process, lot of small incidents lead to one liking, trusting, believing and then loving a person. One incident doesnt lead to it, unless its a really big one.
And why is also tough, because i think, the whole is more than the sum of its parts, i cannto say that i like/love you because you are understanding, caring, honest, xyz. There can be and there are a lot of ppl with these characteristics, does it mean i can like them. I think no.
I think the whole is more than the sum of its parts and these questions can not have an answer.
I will go for suhana giving a deep answer and not even mentioning sona. Suhana is understanding, she has always been shown to miss her mom and she gave really good explanation to bm when the first few days she slept with her, saying why she started shouting as there was no one to defent/fight for her/her sis. She explained she got jealous of her friends. So suhana can give an emotional talk. It is her hard exterior which masked everything.
When did you fall in love with me?
I think the day you comforted me saying, I shouldnt give importance to everything Sid says
the day you sided me when rajni/disha were not talking to me
the day you took me to meet sid
or is it the day, you comforted me by cheering me after i had slapped sid
o no, not that, it was the day you let me go back to my home, no questions asked
o no, not that, it was when you happily hid your tears just coz I was happy to be going back to my home
or was it some day, when i slowly started trusting you, sharing my sorrows with you
or was it the day when you got me the dress i so wished
or was it when you got me the car even if it meant that you sell off your cherished scooter
or was it when you lied for me in the hotel decent
or when i got your old scooter back for you, just to see you smiling
or the day when......
Edited by poshah - 14 years ago