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Posted: 14 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: poshah



Aapne bulaya and main aa gaye😉 But i call you her mom !
I think drunkard scene lot of filmstars too cant do ..So raginin/jay to sach mein bache hai, its generally tough and iahve not seen many a good ones.. So here even if they ahvent acted well its ok !

in the last few episodes though i ahve liked Jay more than suhana as maybe focus was more on jay and not suhana. He was very good on thur/friday, better than suhana.


I second that... Jay was better that Ragz on thu/fri episodes...no doubt.... i was scared abt that confession sequence actually, but am really impressed with Jay...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#82
I think the more important question is why did you fall in love with me and not when. And yes both questions are difficult to answer, why and when.

Can someone say, unless its a love at first sight, ki i met you on 1jan, and from 10jan i started loving you? I dont think you can say us din se..

It is gradual I think.

You can say when you realised, because its a slow process, lot of small incidents lead to one liking, trusting, believing and then loving a person. One incident doesnt lead to it, unless its a really big one.

And why is also tough, because i think, the whole is more than the sum of its parts, i cannto say that i like/love you because you are understanding, caring, honest, xyz. There can be and there are a lot of ppl with these characteristics, does it mean i can like them. I think no.
I think the whole is more than the sum of its parts and these questions can not have an answer.

I will go for suhana giving a deep answer and not even mentioning sona. Suhana is understanding, she has always been shown to miss her mom and she gave really good explanation to bm when the first few days she slept with her, saying why she started shouting as there was no one to defent/fight for her/her sis. She explained she got jealous of her friends. So suhana can give an emotional talk. It is her hard exterior which masked everything.


When did you fall in love with me?
I think the day you comforted me saying, I shouldnt give importance to everything Sid says
the day you sided me when rajni/disha were not talking to me
the day you took me to meet sid
or is it the day, you comforted me by cheering me after i had slapped sid
o no, not that, it was the day you let me go back to my home, no questions asked
o no, not that, it was when you happily hid your tears just coz I was happy to be going back to my home
or was it some day, when i slowly started trusting you, sharing my sorrows with you
or was it the day when you got me the dress i so wished
or was it when you got me the car even if it meant that you sell off your cherished scooter
or was it when you lied for me in the hotel decent
or when i got your old scooter back for you, just to see you smiling
or the day when......

Edited by poshah - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: poshah

I think the more important question is why did you fall in love with me and not when. And yes both questions are difficult to answer, why and when.

Can someone say, unless its a love at first sight, ki i met you on 1jan, and from 10jan i started loving you? I dont think you can say us din se..

It is gradual I think.

You can say when you realised, because its a slow process, lot of small incidents lead to one liking, trusting, believing and then loving a person. One incident doesnt lead to it, unless its a really big one.

And why is also tough, because i think, the whole is more than the sum of its parts, i cannto say that i like/love you because you are understanding, caring, honest, xyz. There can be and there are a lot of ppl with these characteristics, does it mean i can like them. I think no.
I think the whole is more than the sum of its parts and these questions can not have an answer.

I will go for suhana giving a deep answer and not even mentioning sona. Suhana is understanding, she has always been shown to miss her mom and she gave really good explanation to bm when the first few days she slept with her, saying why she started shouting as there was no one to defent/fight for her/her sis. She explained she got jealous of her friends. So suhana can give an emotional talk. It is her hard exterior which masked everything.


When did you fall in love with me?
I think the day you comforted me saying, I shouldnt give importance to everything Sid says
the day you sided me when rajni/disha were not talking to me
the day you took me to meet sid
or is it the day, you comforted me by cheering me after i had slapped sid
o no, not that, it was the day you let me go back to my home, no questions asked
o no, not that, it was when you happily hid your tears just coz I was happy to be going back to my home
or was it some day, when i slowly started trusting you, sharing my sorrows with you
or was it the day when you got me the dress i so wished
or was it when you got me the car even if it meant that you sell off your cherished scooter
or was it when you lied for me in the hotel decent
or when i got your old scooter back for you, just to see you smiling
or the day when......



Awwwwwwww POOJA!!! 👏Wow what a lovely analysis.👏 Amazing darling..well done. How nice😊 I truly hope that they do something like without even saying anyone else's name.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: poshah

I think the more important question is why did you fall in love with me and not when. And yes both questions are difficult to answer, why and when.

Can someone say, unless its a love at first sight, ki i met you on 1jan, and from 10jan i started loving you? I dont think you can say us din se..

It is gradual I think.

You can say when you realised, because its a slow process, lot of small incidents lead to one liking, trusting, believing and then loving a person. One incident doesnt lead to it, unless its a really big one.

And why is also tough, because i think, the whole is more than the sum of its parts, i cannto say that i like/love you because you are understanding, caring, honest, xyz. There can be and there are a lot of ppl with these characteristics, does it mean i can like them. I think no.
I think the whole is more than the sum of its parts and these questions can not have an answer.

I will go for suhana giving a deep answer and not even mentioning sona. Suhana is understanding, she has always been shown to miss her mom and she gave really good explanation to bm when the first few days she slept with her, saying why she started shouting as there was no one to defent/fight for her/her sis. She explained she got jealous of her friends. So suhana can give an emotional talk. It is her hard exterior which masked everything.


When did you fall in love with me?
I think the day you comforted me saying, I shouldnt give importance to everything Sid says
the day you sided me when rajni/disha were not talking to me
the day you took me to meet sid
or is it the day, you comforted me by cheering me after i had slapped sid
o no, not that, it was the day you let me go back to my home, no questions asked
o no, not that, it was when you happily hid your tears just coz I was happy to be going back to my home
or was it some day, when i slowly started trusting you, sharing my sorrows with you
or was it the day when you got me the dress i so wished
or was it when you got me the car even if it meant that you sell off your cherished scooter
or was it when you lied for me in the hotel decent
or when i got your old scooter back for you, just to see you smiling
or the day when......


Pooja.... I wish Suhana reply to him like this only...😍 That will be awesome.... 😍
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Posted: 14 years ago
#85
God Pooja...I wish that you have written somehow will materialise tomorrow. I WISH THAT SO MUCH. It is the most perfect answer and perhaps she could add at the end
"I don't know exactly since when but I have loved you ever since there has been your real love in my life" .....something like that (I'm not very good at writing)😛
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Posted: 14 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: mjtruelegend

God Pooja...I wish that you have written somehow will materialise tomorrow. I WISH THAT SO MUCH. It is the most perfect answer and perhaps she could add at the end
"I don't know exactly since when but I have loved you ever since there has been your real love in my life" .....something like that (I'm not very good at writing)😛



we shall know tomorrow. You write good too !!!

And I think there is a scene in obs where they do discuss when they feel in love etc. am tempted to try and see obs again but i'd rather wait till tomrrow for SGP.

I will reply to your other thread a bit here, someone said /or probably you, that it took a drink for them to ask each other the important question.
I think it takes a while for ppl to get comfortable and discuss all and everythign that is there in their minds.
You too were asking that they havent been shown having a meaningful converstaion etc.
I think it takes little time. Its not like arre suhana ne bol diya iloveou, so all doors are clear and they can both tell everything to each other, it takes time.
You just dont become so comfortable and relaxed and open to someone just because both love each other, thoda time lagega, slowly one starts discussing, and its not just the fear of rejection, it is just being uncomfortable, thoda jhijhak, thodi sharam.
One thnks of a lot of things, but how many thigns do we discuss with our parents, our kids, our best friends and spouses..some are still left unsaid.
If saying everything was so easy, why would we have so many commercials, articles etc saying one should say iloveyou to our family often, dont leave things unsaid. Expressing things is not so easy, people cannot be so open abt what they feel.
And I think ishaan/suhana both saying iloveyou in person was the first stpe to break the ice..they will slowly get comfortable and discuss a lot of things.
In this case, drink karne se inhibitions have gone.

And to the point ki ek drink se koi durnk kaise ho gaya, I would say its not just the drink, sometimes the situations also make a difference..😉 and the fact that its their first time !
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Posted: 14 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: venture

Lets not assume that she is going to mention the S word, lets hope its something more meaningfull and deep. I hope the writters would do justice with her answer like the way they did with Ishaan,s . There is no doubt his was love at first sight kind of love, but Suhana ,s love for Ishaan crept in slowly but its very very deep and solid love with strong bonding and trust. Thats why now you will see a complete change in her , she would be just mad for Ishaan now.

inshalla⭐️ suhana be mad for ishaan...................................😛well said ...........................love u ishaan and suhana pairs made in heaven as i always.............................say............👏👏👏👏👏.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#88
I think on from d day from pyaar hua ekraar scene... first she was hesitant in extending her hand but after .. she realises the warmth in him.....the warmth ness which she wants in her life....the only thing which her father couldnt give...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#89
I guess Suhana started loving Ishaan the day when she came to know the truth about Sid...There she hugged him because Ishaan was the only person with whom she could share her sorrows...Although after that she decided to leave the Kashyap's but she couldn't stop herself caring about Ishaan and his family...whether it was Meethi's function or dadaji's pension

But again its a difficult one, because after their marriage the moment Suhana adjusted with Ishaan, even that could be the initializing point of Suhana's love. Remember how she used to dress up Ishaan for the office or at the photoshoot where Suhana made cute poses with Ishaan...Although Suhana never admitted but she never felt shy to share her joys and sorrows with Ishaan.. This happens only when u are in a relationship..
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Posted: 14 years ago
#90
Poo, very very well summed up by you, enjoyed reading it, see if you dont spend your time in pulling my legs , then you will be even better writter, I am really impressed as always!!! just kidding dont mind it.

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