Suhana - A second chance ?

Hello Everyone,😊

As we can see Suhana wants to go back to living her own carefree life leaving behind Ishaan and family.

---I want you guys to keep aside the forthcoming tracks possible.

---Leave aside things like; when she leaves she will realize her love for ishaan etc.

---Leave aside the samaaj main izaat of Kashyap and Bajpai khandaan for a while.

---Keep aside how suhana is still a kid and has no sense of responsibility.

Suhana has done a mistake by getting married in a repulsive mood to prove herself in front of Sid. She has not developed any feelings for Ishaan (that is, love feelings -mark off care and concern).

Should suhana be given a chance to let go and live her life again and may choose a life partner sensibly this time? Or would you say, marriage is not a child's play and once married good or bad you should try to accept it!

---Afterall, she also wants to have a good life with things suitable to her own ideas. So, should she adjust or should she break free?

---Coming to my opinion, I am in two minds. I am guessing you guys would help me.

Lub

Bhavi😃

Considering the choices she has made and has been making I will say she will end up with a Sid type guy again. She cannot differentiate between right or wrong and the worst part is she can be easily swayed. Like Ishaan says in one of the episodes that "Suhana tum bohot bholi ho. Chehre nahin pehchanti". This trait of her will forever remain with her no matter how many guys she dates after Ishaan. So if she really wants a second chance and "break free" then first she needs to change her way of life. Life is not about discos, pajama parties and cool Gucci shades.

Originally posted by: Ambrosia

Considering the choices she has made and has been making I will say she will end up with a Sid type guy again. She cannot differentiate between right or wrong and the worst part is she can be easily swayed. Like Ishaan says in one of the episodes that "Suhana tum bohot bholi ho. Chehre nahin pehchanti". This trait of her will forever remain with her no matter how many guys she dates after Ishaan. So if she really wants a second chance and "break free" then first she needs to change her way of life. Life is not about discos, pajama parties and cool Gucci shades.

Very well said Ambrosia, I agree with you, she will definetly end up with somebody like Sid again if not worst. She sees things superficially, I think this attitude is very common , unfortunately these days, designer everything plus designer husband as well, the three words Rich, Handsome and Smart, but how he is as person people, dont care , and after ruinning there lives then realize it was a mistake to go for that guy in thefirst place, but never willing to accept that it was there fault as well not looking at other areas as well. Mr KK knew about it thats why he choose a Good family for her realizing that Suhana would never give importance to family and values.Also if things are done in moderation nobody would have any objection, if she wants to party with in moderation Kyshaps would have no problem. But coming to the point , Suhana would end up in a deeper ditch if she is left on her own to decide about her own life.

hmm interesting topic again! 😃
Like Ambrosia said, If suhaana gets the second chance, then she need to change her lifestyle. Since due to her easy go around attitude, she will probably end up in a relationship with Spoilt Brat like Sid.
She is pampered a lot, that's why she doesn't know the meanin of "responsibility". Kashyaps made her feel tht family bonding!
If we look at this questions Practically, considering todays world point of view[western], then Suhana can have her second chance because these days all tht matter is one's happiness in their chosen life.
But if we look at it Indian Traditional way, Then She doesn't deserve this second chance. Even though she took this decision in replusive mood, there are many poeple attached to this issue and They all are going to be affected negatively by it. Our traditions do tell us to treasure the family bondings and love & care for others.

haha I get why were you feeling double minded thinking about the issue now 😆

Originally posted by: bhavi20_s

Hello Everyone,😊

As we can see Suhana wants to go back to living her own carefree life leaving behind Ishaan and family.

---I want you guys to keep aside the forthcoming tracks possible.

---Leave aside things like; when she leaves she will realize her love for ishaan etc.

---Leave aside the samaaj main izaat of Kashyap and Bajpai khandaan for a while.

---Keep aside how suhana is still a kid and has no sense of responsibility.

Suhana has done a mistake by getting married in a repulsive mood to prove herself in front of Sid. She has not developed any feelings for Ishaan (that is, love feelings -mark off care and concern).

Should suhana be given a chance to let go and live her life again and may choose a life partner sensibly this time? Or would you say, marriage is not a child's play and once married good or bad you should try to accept it!

---Afterall, she also wants to have a good life with things suitable to her own ideas. So, should she adjust or should she break free?

---Coming to my opinion, I am in two minds. I am guessing you guys would help me.

Lub

Bhavi😃

@bold i will go with this option of urs...cos she has seen the world...i mean she has gone to college..she has been with people..she is not a alien who does not knw things...she knws to respect elders and all...so she shud knw what marriage is...and its not something with which u can play..its not like try if u dont like throw it and try another..

To be honest i dont lyk this character Suhana nowadays!Woh itni bhari he ke woh samajh sake tht wht is wrong and wht is ryt...Ishaan and the whole family loves her sooo much and she can't even see th?Y?Is she mad or wht?

Interesting topic ... I would have to say though that marriage is indeed not a child's play... and since it involves two people there is a lot at stake. If Suhana were given that "chance" it would be unfair on Ishaan and his family, simply because they've given this marriage their everything ...

If Ishaan was a tyrant, infidel or had very bad habits then Suhana definitely deserves that chance of breaking free. In fact then every girl has the right to break free in those circumstances. But here even though Suhana married just to spite Sid, Ishaan married Suhana because he wanted to. And he has come to love Suhana. He treats her like a princess, feels responsible for her and respects her as his "official" wife. He has never crossed his line with her. If these are not the traits of a good human being, then I don't know what are!

If Suhana just walked out of the marriage because she hasn't developed so called "love" for Ishaan, then this very holy institution would collapse. Marriage is not just between two individuals. It is a marriage of two families. KK would be shattered, Sanjana's future of getting married to a respectable family would be questioned ... (not saying it should be ... but it can happen in our society if KK starts looking for a groom for Sanju in future). Ishaan would have a blot on his life forever as being a divorcee. His family would have to bear the humiliation of having their beloved daughter-in-law walk out of their house... imagine what it would speak about them as in-laws. Tomorrow if Ishaan wanted to remarry, fathers of daughters would certainly doubt the Kashyaps for Ishaan's first marriage going kaput.

There are a lot of ramifications which Suhana doesn't understand. If she were indeed living in a free world where there are no rules or boundaries, then it would be fine. Otherwise, she deserves to carry the burden of her indecision.