Radha should have aborted deepak/have him adopted - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Masakalli

I feel so angry towards radhabua...if she knew she wasnt going to love her own son then why bring him into this world in the first place? a mothers love and support are two of the most important things for a baby and no mentally and physically fit woman would abandon or disown their kid like that.

If radha bua had some mental issues and could not forget about everything that happened and accept and love her child, then she should have just aborted the baby. If i was in deepak's place i would have felt like commiting suicide knowing that my own mother who loves the rest of the family, does not love her own child!
radha bua needs some psychiatric help as soon as possible. its not fair she is making deepak suffer so much for crimes and sins he hasnt commited
I am sorry if i offend anyone by suggesting the abortion idea, but think about it logically...a child with no love from his only parent...surrounded by children being showered by love from their own parents. That would be my hell on earth
AND IF NOT ABORTION, she could have had deepak adopted by another family who would provide him with the love he deserves



Thanks for writing my own views. I have been feeling this even expressed this on some times. When she knew about her pregnancy because that rape, she could have easily gotten rid of it. By the way, Deepak's certificates had his name as Deepak Sharma. Who is this Sharma, if he is not Radha's husband?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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absolutely right i was thinking the same thing yaar
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Posted: 15 years ago
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absolutely agree on that.. infact i feel that Kashyap family instead of Radha, should have taken Deepak under their wings (Badi maa or may be Alok could have adopted him, in this way he would have gotten love of parents and family)...they could persuade Radha to do something concrete or may be re-married her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dalals

I agree with you that a mother should love her child no matter what. but I am shocked or rather scared at your "I will commit suicide, if I were Deepak" statement. Honey suicide is not a solution to any probem. There are circumstances in life which makes a person what he or she is. The best way to look at life is to think of it as a God's gift. If he has given you a body of a human, you are the most fortunate compared to other living creatures.

Both Radhabua and Deepak needs a little bit of introspection. Radhabua being the older of the two and a mother has to do the most,as she is the one who brought this life into the world, like you said. I do not know the reason for her hatred, but it could be either she was raped or her husband passed away trying to save the baby. In any case it seems like she lost her love due to the baby.
SBD

i understand what youre trying to say....but for me my family is everything. they are the reason why I am who I am...they are the centre of my universe. If I was trapped in a family where everyone was showered with love except me I would die of depression. I would rather end my life than live in a world where i am not even wanted by my own family - the very people who are supposed to love me by default.
I know my views are strong and i am opinionated, but it's my point of view. I think radhabua sees her rapist in her child's face. I hate that the rest of the family are automatically against deepak and stay away from him, despite not even knowing what happened. It seems very stupid and immature of those adults to act that way. I am surprised that Suhana in this instant is acting like the real grown up! Love you suhana 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Those days WAHI RISHTA ~ NAYI SOCH was not that common.So she might have missed that idea.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Padma55

Those days WAHI RISHTA ~ NAYI SOCH was not that common.So she might have missed that idea.

I dont think abortion or adoption is nayi soch...it's been going on in india for generations! Not just these things...but even the killing of innocent baby girls...aah dont get me started with this topic! Anyway hope suhana will be able to make RB an understanding and loving human being...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Exactly...but unfortunately the orphanages in India r not as well taken care off as in western countries and then Deepak might have had probs in going to college as well.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree because she is just constantly punishing him for something he is not responsible for...plus he is sooo nice to her bless him its unfair! only Suhana and Dadaji treat him like a human. The family members r really selfish too cos they want to protect just RB and do not care how Deepak feels.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: brainychild92

honestly i understand radha bua's mental state as i've studied this briefly but if she wasn't ready for the responsibility she should've had him adopted.. like i said before i think by sending him to boarding she was abke to provide him of love she couldn't give but maa ka pyaar alag hi hota hai so ya i go witih adoption because i am AGAINST abortions...my personal view

I agree! Anything but abortion. Adoption would have been a great idea. I mean there are several familes out there who can't have children but are willing to shower all their love and support on them. I can understand her problem with looking at her son directly but how long can a mother not look at her son. Even if he looks like a monster.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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totally agree with u...real mothers dont do that...eith tell deepak why she is ignoring him or stop acting like that..its not his fault..its her husbands fault...she should punish him not deepak

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