Radha should have aborted deepak/have him adopted

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Masakalli

@Masakalli

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Posted: 15 years ago

I feel so angry towards radhabua...if she knew she wasnt going to love her own son then why bring him into this world in the first place? a mothers love and support are two of the most important things for a baby and no mentally and physically fit woman would abandon or disown their kid like that.

If radha bua had some mental issues and could not forget about everything that happened and accept and love her child, then she should have just aborted the baby. If i was in deepak's place i would have felt like commiting suicide knowing that my own mother who loves the rest of the family, does not love her own child!

radha bua needs some psychiatric help as soon as possible. its not fair she is making deepak suffer so much for crimes and sins he hasnt commited

I am sorry if i offend anyone by suggesting the abortion idea, but think about it logically...a child with no love from his only parent...surrounded by children being showered by love from their own parents. That would be my hell on earth

AND IF NOT ABORTION, she could have had deepak adopted by another family who would provide him with the love he deserves

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rangamani

@rangamani

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with you. spoke my mind

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Dimdim

@Dimdim

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Posted: 15 years ago

The second option is more viable. Lady comes across as a very self centered person.

Radha needs to get a grip of herself...and her family has pampered / encouraged her too long that to at the expense of her son.

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madhoo

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with you and in fact I have been thinking about the same thing myself. I'm actually worried about Deepak because as a human being, one can only take so much hate and at one point that person does break down. Right now Deepak is a really nice guy, but what if this hate from his own mother turns him into a monster? Would that make RB happy? I'm sure it would as she does not want God to win.

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 15 years ago

honestly i understand radha bua's mental state as i've studied this briefly but if she wasn't ready for the responsibility she should've had him adopted.. like i said before i think by sending him to boarding she was abke to provide him of love she couldn't give but maa ka pyaar alag hi hota hai so ya i go witih adoption because i am AGAINST abortions...my personal view

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gilmores

@gilmores

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Posted: 15 years ago

Exactly! Radha cannot/does not love her son. And I absoluetely HATE it when people bring children into this world that they KNOW they don't want at all and hate because of what the child represents.

Though I am against abortions, in some cases an abortion is ok imo like rape. But if RB decided to have the child because she could not abort, then she should have put Deepak up for adoption.

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shobha

@dalals

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with you that a mother should love her child no matter what. but I am shocked or rather scared at your "I will commit suicide, if I were Deepak" statement. Honey suicide is not a solution to any probem. There are circumstances in life which makes a person what he or she is. The best way to look at life is to think of it as a God's gift. If he has given you a body of a human, you are the most fortunate compared to other living creatures.

Both Radhabua and Deepak needs a little bit of introspection. Radhabua being the older of the two and a mother has to do the most,as she is the one who brought this life into the world, like you said. I do not know the reason for her hatred, but it could be either she was raped or her husband passed away trying to save the baby. In any case it seems like she lost her love due to the baby.

SBD

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rumena begum

@teddyrumi

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Posted: 15 years ago

I agree with you completely but considering the Kashyap family, even the option did come into Radha's mind i bet she was advised not to do it... She needs help and the Family is not helping her at all and along with Radha the family is also being mean to Deepak by staying away from him.. the one person who tried to go near him was slapped by Radha.

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Zaria

@fly_chick

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: madhoo
I agree with you and in fact I have been thinking about the same thing myself. I'm actually worried about Deepak because as a human being, one can only take so much hate and at one point that person does break down. Right now Deepak is a really nice guy, but what if this hate from his own mother turns him into a monster? Would that make RB happy? I'm sure it would as she does not want God to win.

Totally agree- i too feel sorry for Deepak- if she couldn't love him then she should have given him up for adoption- i mean there's so many people who want kids but can't have them and she's got a child but doesn't want him- he's innocent and not at fault

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

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Posted: 15 years ago

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i totally agree..and i have mentioned the same in my posts..radhabua had no business giving birth to a child if she were to abandon him immediately after it...a mother has the maximum rights AND duties towards the child...and RB is not fulfilling the basic duty of giving him affection..aborting him wud have been a lot more humane thn treating hm the way she does..esp when no1 else seems to give him the affection either,tht too a family who cares so much even abt the maid..

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