If u were in Suhana's Shoes

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Bhavana

@letitgo

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

Suhana is right now going through a heart break; 🥺she is experiencing the reality in the world. Suddenly the mischievous, hot headed suhana has turned sober.

And as we all know, she is going to say yes to Ishaan even without looking at his photograph.

Now, my question is that IF you were in Suhana's shoes, how would you react?

If someone breaks your heart, then is it wise to leave yourself to your fate and accept whatever comes your way?🤔

Is it correct to say yes to the marriage even without seeing, further not knowing that person at all? 🤔

Is the decision taken by Suhana correct? 🤔

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Sanchita

@sanchita1410

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think it's not right to say yes marriage without seeing. Marriage is an imp thing. So there need to be a right decision. I also think we should the inner side of a person not the upper side. Suhana will think that Ishaan is not right for her. But I think Ishaan is the right choice for her.

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Vinitha

@Blueberry_07

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hey Good topic here...:)

Now your questions,

IF you were in Suhana's shoes, how would you react?

Well if i were to go through what Suhana had went through, yes obviously i would be heartbroken BUT i will not be crying and begging the guy to not leave me like what Suhana did yesterday. I didn't like how she clinged onto him and kept on going "Sid i love you Sid..i love you.." and he was so rude. Plus she still had hopes that they'll be together when she saw him again at the poolside.

Instead I would have just given the guy a good scolding with all the bad words come flying out of my mouth...( 😆..) and walk away from there. If you can't get him, ain't no big a deal.There are other BIG fishes (if i may say so) out there in the sea. Though the process of forgetting Sid would be a difficult one but still it just goes to show that Sid is not worthy of Suhana. Even if let say one fine day Sid comes running back to Suhana, i feel she should not take him back. He humiliated her enough by saying "Only a fool would marry you..and you're not marriage material"..

If someone breaks your heart, then is it wise to leave yourself to your fate and accept whatever comes your way?

No it is not wise. If someone breaks your heart you must still be strong and move on. It happens in life. Not everything goes your way. But really i disagree with accepting whatever that comes your way. Your life is not over when someone leaves you. There's more to that in life and she should not succumb to fate and let it lead her life..Big no no..!!...😆

Is it correct to say yes to the marriage even without seeing, further not knowing that person at all?

Wrong. One should not get married to a person without knowing who he or she really is. I mean come on, your're gonna be spending your entire life with this person..the least you should know is how he looks right..? Though i am against just looking at the picture only. I feel one should understand each other fully and know about the other in out before making the biggest decision of their lifes, which is off course marriage.

Is the decision taken by Suhana correct?

Wrong decision taken again and i sympathize with Ishaan because he does not deserve this at all. He might be thinking that Suhana is agreeing to the marriage because she is in favour of it and he might start to have high hopes.

My views and am pretty strong on them...😆..

I was abit harsh on the first question maybe because i've never gone through a heartbreak before so i woudn't know what it feels like...😆 ..I understand it is painful and i do not wish too go through it but if i ever do (god forbid) then i hope i do react the way i just stated above..Main point is that to be strong.!..and not let all your hopes die. 😊

I don't like it when they show woman being weak and running after the man despite being treated badly by them...:(.....

Again great topic...!:)

Edited by Blueberry_07 - 15 years ago

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Bhavana

@letitgo

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

@sanchi- yes, suhana will think Ishaan is not right for her. But i think had it been any other guy in Ishaan's place, even a replica of Sid , still suhana will think that guy is not right for her.
Bcoz she is not in a state to judge anything now.

Edited by bhavi20_s - 15 years ago

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Ambrosia

@Ambrosia

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Posted: 15 years ago

First of all I doubt the emotion Suhana felt for Sid was love at all. It was more like an infatuation/attraction so heart break is not even an option. She is yet to realize what love is because partying with a guy, holding hands and showing off your model like boyfriend is not love. She was really depended on Sid and now that he is gone, she will feel down for few days but that's it. I am sure once she gets to know Ishaan, she will forget the bratty Sid.

If I were in Suhana's shoes then first thing I would have done is slap Sid right across his face. He had the audacity to actually call Suhana his "show off",😲 I surely wouldn't have tolerated that.

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I think she is only agreeing to this marriage is to prove herself or her ex BF maybe that she is the perfect "marriage material". What we should be concerned about is Ishaan's reaction to this. He will be really hurt because its obvious he feels for Suhana even before he knew her name.

Edited by Ambrosia - 15 years ago

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Bhavana

@letitgo

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Posted: 15 years ago

@Ananya- May be u r right, suhana was just attracted to Sid, but the poor girl was experiencing her 1st love ( i guess) and while dating him she didnt realize the fact that sid is just using her as a show off. She was deeply in his trance and was building up a dream land of her own.

after this hard hitting reality shock , i hope she doesn't loose interest or belief in love.

your 1st step -slapping Sid is very much needed, i expected it from suhana but she turned out to be hurt and is still trying to come in terms with sid rejecting her. All of a sudden her princess castle and dreamy world has turned upside down.

I hope she gives Ishaan a chance , I am not expecting her to love him but she can be mature enough to give him a chance at-least.

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Now ananya u are giving me some K show type twists. 😆😆😆
If suhana said yes to Ishaan only to show sid that she is a marriage material , then she would choose a macho kind of guy , not some bhola bhala guy like ishaan na .

And ishaan also knows that suhana is sad after the Sid fiasco, so i think he will be patient and understand why she said yes to the marriage ( for her dad)

Edited by bhavi20_s - 15 years ago

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Ambrosia

@Ambrosia

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Posted: 15 years ago

The condition Suhana landed herself in is partially her own fault too. She being so smart and everything blindly trusted Sid😕, her friends and even her sister loathed the guy..she should have taken the hint.

I am sure she will not hate ishaan but chances are she will be slightly hard on him. It's going to take her time to trust him and eventually develop feelings. Nonetheless it's going to be fun to see them fight.😛

Edited by Ambrosia - 15 years ago

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Ambrosia

@Ambrosia

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Posted: 15 years ago

well duh where is the challenge if she picks a macho guy to prove that she is the perfect marriage materal? 😛

And I refuse to believe that Ishaan is bhola bhala, you just wait and watch that guy is a chupa rustam. Remember the way he held her wrist in Poltal Ganj? That was really wicked.

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

great post..seriously suhana shud have given sid one wack across his face when he humiliated her instead of crying and pleading..ishaan said very correctly,she is intelligent,pretty and still begging tht jerk to marry her..not done..girl,have a little self respect here..