Vaishali, hi, so thrilled to see you here again!This place is not really the same, just like the show, the bytes also have the same name and format but sadly more a place to meet and discuss than a place for critical appreciation.The days when there was so much to explore, discuss and debate, she the story and the characters left us awed,...Anyway, yes Kumud's I am the greatest syndrome is causing all the problems.This whole my family will collapse without me- I think she is so used to being the centre of everyone's universe, that she can't imagine that Desais can survive without her.And then this whole disregard for Saras and complete indifference to their relationship and the rudeness with which she deals with him, is really upsetting.I kept thinking that if it was the other way around, refusing to talk to your wife, locking her out of the bedroom etc etc, we would have been hauling the man for being an insensitive brute and an abusive husband!