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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

I think Kumud is the only one very emotionally close to him n understands him completely in his current struggle. Ofcourse VC n dugbaa too. And regarding that physical gesturing, we might get one tomorrow where he breaks down in her arms.

agree with u

here again the contrast was shown.

danny was crying and desperatly touching his father and hugging his close ones around be it saras his bade bhaiyya or kusum his wife

but saras was stunned He did not know what to do .he was lost and did not want anybody around...even when danny hugged him he was like a lost soul he did hug back danny but like a zombie

saras needs his space and kumud knows it...she knows it well coz she knows saras more then anybody.Saras will come back and break in Kumud arms but not before he has sulked into himself and his loneliness with which he has lived for so long

i love the cv and writer who kept this saras character intact...it so much reminds of old lonely saras...who is still alive in him ...which always comes back once he gets reminded of his childhood, his mother and his fathers betrayals

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Nice bytes.

There was too much of kalika. Satta and what not.

You put it so well about denial.

He thought he had grip on it. But that was just one side of his heart. In another corner or at a sub conscious level those feelings of apna pan are there. That come out as if they are unveiled. And saras's expressions were bang on. His vulnerable and pathos filled face just stays in your mind. The most striking image of the episode.

And gautam is a seriously good actor. Getting better by the day.

So patch up is around the corner. And guman will enter too. Give it a week n i want honeymoon to be shown. Since saras ripped the tickets, this time he will go at LN's insistence. Hopefully.

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Nice bytes.

There was too much of kalika. Satta and what not.

You put it so well about denial.

He thought he had grip on it. But that was just one side of his heart. In another corner or at a sub conscious level those feelings of apna pan are there. That come out as if they are unveiled. And saras's expressions were bang on. His vulnerable and pathos filled face just stays in your mind. The most striking image of the episode.

And gautam is a seriously good actor. Getting better by the day.

So patch up is around the corner. And guman will enter too. Give it a week n i want honeymoon to be shown. Since saras ripped the tickets, this time he will go at LN's insistence. Hopefully.

Arshi / Shanthi-

Havent seen the epi...But is it becoming a social now post marriage?...

Adhoori Dastaan and all that is now passe and done with now with them married and CVs dont know how to proceed further..

the accident, the new son, the honeymoon ticket incident...all cliched scenes coming one after the other?

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

agree with u

here again the contrast was shown.

danny was crying and desperatly touching his father and hugging his close ones around be it saras his bade bhaiyya or kusum his wife

but saras was stunned He did not know what to do .he was lost and did not want anybody around...even when danny hugged him he was like a lost soul he did hug back danny but like a zombie

saras needs his space and kumud knows it...she knows it well coz she knows saras more then anybody.Saras will come back and break in Kumud arms but not before he has sulked into himself and his loneliness with which he has lived for so long

i love the cv and writer who kept this saras character intact...it so much reminds of old lonely saras...who is still alive in him ...which always comes back once he gets reminded of his childhood, his mother and his fathers betrayals

Originally posted by: hotdogg

Arshi / Shanthi-

Havent seen the epi...But is it becoming a social now post marriage?...

Adhoori Dastaan and all that is now passe and done with now with them married and CVs dont know how to proceed further..

the accident, the new son, the honeymoon ticket incident...all cliched scenes coming one after the other?

absolutely Hgg, ek ke baad ek wohi purani recipe , nayi thali mein serve ho rahi hai

Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

I have to agree with the gen-next now. they could easily show atleast kumud holding his hand tightly. They are rationing it.

Something with contractual issues here. The same CVs who show Danny - kusum so close cant do this to Saras n Kumud. So dont blame CVs. But we might get something tomorrow.

Happy ji,

They dont have the creativity to show closure and handling of such situations. I said long time back(and you did too) that they are putting onus on Saras. Now LN is the wronged one and Saras has to come around. Simple and simplistic.

But that said the letter LN wrote to Saras might have some words of apology . Either way I have to see the journey of this man. Thats why I am here.

U think?

Consider this scenario...you and your spouse are the eldest in both the families...you have your own demons to battle regarding your dad...you feel you are responsible somehow for this state of affairs...you showed attitude causing your dad to leave and get into this accident...you feel enormously guilty for the treatment you meted out to the person who you love deeply but wont admit (forget the logic for the moment about who is to be blamed first...net net you feel you are responsible)...you are shit scared because you dont know if he will survive...and the guilt is piling on because you caused this...you are shit scared because if he does not survive you are left with the vacuum of the issue remaining unresolved for eternity...because of you...In the middle of all this the entire family is around...knowing you are the reason it has come to this ..maybe..and worried...and somehow you got to keep it all together...and not break down...you have got to lead this group to the other side...

you know you have your love with you in this through thick or thin...so do you really need a demonstration of care and concern?...Why do you need a reaffirmation that she cares?..that's a given.

Even considering the social mileu...I do not think this calls for hugging, holding hands etc in public and in front of family...especially when its not yet the end...I have not seen it in many such family gatherings in cases of people admitted in hospitals...the younger couples (compared to the elder senior couples / family) generally tend to push thier own feelings lower in the priority and focus on the issue at hand...Typically there is a division of labor...one part of the couple manages the hospital environment and the other manages the sundry relatives & logistics...

Net Net ..After all they have been through, saras does not need a physical affirmation of kumud's concern ...he KNOWs that she is equally concerned...

And actually it works the opposite way...he draws strength knowing shes around...but not in his face demonstrating concern...and that she's running interference with the rest while he sorts out his mess in his head and comes to terms with how to deal with this going forward...

And kumud is giving him the space to figure this out first at his level...That's maturity..

I just saw this scene basis the inputs on CB...and I felt it was actually good...no melodrama...more realistic...and actually showing the deep bond these two share...they now dont need to spell it out or hug or some such...these are low level signals...they have gone beyond...

I particularly liked the depiction in the end scene...where kumud knows he feels guily he screwed up (even though inadvertently) and trying to come to terms... saras knows that kumud knows that he feels guilty he screwed up (even though inadvertently) and is trying to come to terms...and yet there is no 'I told you' so from her side...and his (implicit) admission of the same through the sub-text in his first response when she comes next to him..."Yeah...You are right...I feel screwed up...But I am trying to work it out"... And the entire exchange is with both showing utmost respect to the others POV...

Only great actors like GR & JW can pull this through without this degenerating into a me-too scene...

Originally posted by: Arshics

Very well said Shana, Saras was being Saras, the one who internalizes his pain .

And at such times the loner within him will surface and he will tend to withdraw

But Kumud holding back was strange

Because she wanting to be by his side would be most natural

He has never left her alone, and she has stood by him always

It should be even more so now that she's his wife

Hgg , see that's why you have to be here everyday, to give a different perspective to scenes, in your unique insightful way

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

agree with u

here again the contrast was shown.

danny was crying and desperatly touching his father and hugging his close ones around be it saras his bade bhaiyya or kusum his wife

but saras was stunned He did not know what to do .he was lost and did not want anybody around...even when danny hugged him he was like a lost soul he did hug back danny but like a zombie

saras needs his space and kumud knows it...she knows it well coz she knows saras more then anybody.Saras will come back and break in Kumud arms but not before he has sulked into himself and his loneliness with which he has lived for so long

i love the cv and writer who kept this saras character intact...it so much reminds of old lonely saras...who is still alive in him ...which always comes back once he gets reminded of his childhood, his mother and his fathers betrayals

Hgg ji,