@ Annete & Rosame ,
Thanks . Correct me If I m wrong , as I have skipped many episodes in the past . My View is based on TV series not the Novels . I have read all the books so I m familiar with the story in Novels .
To me personally everyone has pain suffering , heartbreaks in their lives , Its not who has more suffering but How U handle it . Both Pramad - Saras has suffered more in their lives than normal children do . Both @ the hands of their parents . Who ever both of them r today , created by their mothers .
I believe , Saraswati chose death rather than son who needed her the most . She knew LN yet chose death not only that she killed herself right in front of saras . I can't over look this fact . She didn't think what effect it might leave on saras's life !!!!! What was so important to kill herself in that precise moment My personal belief is Once U choose to bring life in this world , U r responsible for their well being until They can take care of them selves .
Saras had LN in his life , for better or worst . LN is a better father than BD . LN made sure to give good education to saras , kept him with him . LN did try to b part of saras's life . Problem is their difference of opinion . They both chose different life styles & thought other is doing something wrong . It was LN who brought Kumud in saras' life . LN likes modern life style , & his choice in partner fulfills his desire . Saras may think , LN betrayed his mum by loving Guman . But I think , LN - Guman resembles todays Pramad - Kalika . LN might have forced in to marriage with Saraswati but his heart wanted Guman . Same is happening in Pramad's life . If v look at LN - Guman marriage today , well they r happily married & LN is not having affair with anyone . Well , That tell me his first marriage was forced upon . I m not justifying LN's actions that drove Saraswati to kill herself . I remember pilot episode where LN's B'day party he kept asking where is saras & Sunny went to find him . LN loves his son , best possible way he knows . If had not cared for Saras at all then he would not have raised him , sent him somewhere off & raised by others , not cared enough then let him become bachelor for life 😆 . LN did trust Saras enough that he included him in his business , let him work on projects . My only point is saras was & is loved , wanted , needed . While BD , insults Pramad left & right . in front of family , in front of Outsiders , Doesn't trust him , . Is there anyone in Prama's family who needs him ? NO . Noone does . They all have written Pramad off. BD wants his son to Sudhrofy but what he has done to show that he cares for his son's well being ? He married him off to Kumud & wants Kumud to change him . Has BD ever asked Pramad's opinion or valued his input ? I have not seen it If he has .
Tell U the truth , I don't know who suffered most Pramad or Saras . The way I see life , There is always going to b unpleasant things in our life . Its how we see them , either focus on unfortunate events or rejoice in good fortune . As long as we have people in our life who love us , pain - suffering becomes bearable . Loss of life is not something U can get over but with company of loved ones U can get through . Saras do have loved ones & who r willing to help him get through .
I also believe , person can b change but it happens under 2 conditions , 1] life altering event [ aka big shock ] , 2] wanting to change & wiling to work hard . Life is full of temptations & It is a tough road not to b taken lightly . I have seen people making promises to change & gone back to old life style first chance they get . Its very tough on families . I have very little info on Pramad , how he became the man he is today , he might b responsible for some of it himself . Or he is a bad person underneath . There might not b any hope for him . But I don't dislike LN for his modern life style . Only in TV world being modern is a crime . 😆😆 As for Guman , well some of the things she did , I don't agree with her .
While V may feel Pramad - Saras has suffered alot but there is another character in SC world who has suffered too . Kumari at the hand of her mum 😉 & her dad . so world is full of cruel things .
After re-reading my own view I conclude everyone in SC world needs therapy 😆😆 Some needs shock therapy & Others needs to get their heads out of clouds 😉 .
This is my POV & I enjoy healthy discussion . 😃
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