Kalika- is she really that bad? Post-pg.1 & discussion pg. 38 - Page 28

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kaieteur

HERE IS A SUGGESTION FOR THE WRITERS IF THEY DO VIISIT THIS FORUM ---

GIVE THIS SERIAL A LEAP OF ABOUT 5 YEARS AND START AFRESH...
THIS WILL SOOTHE EVERONE'S NERVES, AND THE ACTORS WILL GIVE THEIR BEST OF THEIR TALENTS...😆



agree with u 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
ALSO, I STILL CANT FATHOM DUKBA'S DRAMA - WHAT WAS SHE TRYING TO PROVE - SHE IS DISORIENTED ALL THE TIME AND SAD, SO MAYBE SHE WANTS TO END HER LIFE, SO GO AHEAD, NO ONE IS STOPPING HER, ONLY SARAS IS TRYING TO BE MORE FOOLISH THAN HE IS - THAT IS HER CHOICE - LET HER GO... I THOUGHT SHE HAD SOME SENSE, LISTEN TO SARAS AND TRY TO GET HER NIECE OUT OF A MISERABLE MARRIAGE - DUKBA IS A DRAMA QUEEN - SOME PLEASE CALL LASKSMI N TO SPEAK TO HER!!!😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kaieteur

ALSO, I STILL CANT FATHOM DUKBA'S DRAMA - WHAT WAS SHE TRYING TO PROVE - SHE IS DISORIENTED ALL THE TIME AND SAD, SO MAYBE SHE WANTS TO END HER LIFE, SO GO AHEAD, NO ONE IS STOPPING HER, ONLY SARAS IS TRYING TO BE MORE FOOLISH THAN HE IS - THAT IS HER CHOICE - LET HER GO... I THOUGHT SHE HAD SOME SENSE, LISTEN TO SARAS AND TRY TO GET HER NIECE OUT OF A MISERABLE MARRIAGE - DUKBA IS A DRAMA QUEEN - SOME PLEASE CALL LASKSMI N TO SPEAK TO HER!!!😆



I thought DB made sense . Its not abt drama queen . DB really made more sense than samud .

DB always claimed kumud has her sanskar , she ( kumud ) is her pride & joy . Kumud can not do anything wrong . That kumud is living under same roof with her ex . Under false name. Her in laws thinks that NC is a good guy , honest & blah blah blah . How is it going to go down if they come to know NC is & was SC .

As DB said today " even if kumud spends lifetime earning respect , its takes one mistake to ruins it all". When it comes out that DB family bahu was living under the same roof at her in-laws place for months , well DB family will b laughing stock . As how their bahu was able to fool them ! VC family has 2 unwed daughters & fingers will point to them as well as kaise sanskar fiye hain !!! DB values her sanskaars very much & when those fingers will point , well say the least its shameful & they wont b able to hold their head high .

Its never abt how much pavitra their relationship is or was !!! Its abt their inability to provide proof of purity .

DB knows this & she would rather kill herself than hear abt kumud being charitrahin . Q r going to risen abt kumud's purity & longer They stay together bigger the insult is going to b . Everyone is going to insult VC family's upbringing so thats y i thought db wanted to die .

This is my view & i might b wrong too . But this is what i thought abt lake scene

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Posted: 12 years ago
Netri you said everything I wanted to abt DB and what she said today.
Both VC family is going to be questioned abt their sanskars and insulted for them while BD and his family will be made a laughing stock for trusting their DIL and a stranger NC.. Pramad may look like an innocent man compared to the other two pavitra premis.
Pramad's anger, abusive and alchoholic behavior is nothing to praise or rave abt but he has been upfront on his feeling abt this marriage and Kumud's mission on sudharofy him..
Man wants to be left alone..He is not at all affected by Kumud;s nautanky nor her beauty..He is happy with daaru and Kalika. So leave him alone and let the Dharmadhikaris worry abt reforming him as they are the ones who created the monster out of a young boy.
Kumud can go back to desais and be single or marry Saras if he has not gone into the next depression.
BTW What money SC was bragging to Kalika abt? Is he anything or anyone w/o LN and his money-business???? Nope..
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Posted: 12 years ago
Maybe trying to commit suicide like Saraswati was OTT but everything that Dugba said was correct.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kaieteur

ALSO, I STILL CANT FATHOM DUKBA'S DRAMA - WHAT WAS SHE TRYING TO PROVE - SHE IS DISORIENTED ALL THE TIME AND SAD, SO MAYBE SHE WANTS TO END HER LIFE, SO GO AHEAD, NO ONE IS STOPPING HER, ONLY SARAS IS TRYING TO BE MORE FOOLISH THAN HE IS - THAT IS HER CHOICE - LET HER GO... I THOUGHT SHE HAD SOME SENSE, LISTEN TO SARAS AND TRY TO GET HER NIECE OUT OF A MISERABLE MARRIAGE - DUKBA IS A DRAMA QUEEN - SOME PLEASE CALL LASKSMI N TO SPEAK TO HER!!!😆



I have not seen the scene, hence cannot comment on that. OTT scenes, poorly executed scenes-I usually blame the director.
The inappropriate presence of Saras as Navin at Kumud's place must have driven Dukhba crazy.
However, I agree with your thoughts that she should have put in more effort to get Kumud out of her messy situation.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: netri



I thought DB made sense . Its not abt drama queen . DB really made more sense than samud .

DB always claimed kumud has her sanskar , she ( kumud ) is her pride & joy . Kumud can not do anything wrong . That kumud is living under same roof with her ex . Under false name. Her in laws thinks that NC is a good guy , honest & blah blah blah . How is it going to go down if they come to know NC is & was SC .

As DB said today " even if kumud spends lifetime earning respect , its takes one mistake to ruins it all". When it comes out that DB family bahu was living under the same roof at her in-laws place for months , well DB family will b laughing stock . As how their bahu was able to fool them ! VC family has 2 unwed daughters & fingers will point to them as well as kaise sanskar fiye hain !!! DB values her sanskaars very much & when those fingers will point , well say the least its shameful & they wont b able to hold their head high .

Its never abt how much pavitra their relationship is or was !!! Its abt their inability to provide proof of purity .

DB knows this & she would rather kill herself than hear abt kumud being charitrahin . Q r going to risen abt kumud's purity & longer They stay together bigger the insult is going to b . Everyone is going to insult VC family's upbringing so thats y i thought db wanted to die .

This is my view & i might b wrong too . But this is what i thought abt lake scene


Hello Netri. 👏
Luved your thoughts reg. Dukhba's cause of stress. She herself must have put up with a lot of Tanna's for dumping her hubby.

I think it is difficult for her to imagine about the bad reputation that lies ahead for Kumud and the families involved.

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Posted: 12 years ago
saras has all money that logical
he did work for his dad company which means he earned his salary .he may not have his fathers company but money he surely has and quit much has he managed it all did not he ???

dharmadhikaaris have brought kumud with only one mission in house and that is to change pramad...mr. D himself said it and mrs D too has asked kumud to teach pramad how to live.All r looking up at kumud that she will change pramad as saasu maa says its her duty ...so kumud has no choice indirectly she has been told by all that karo ya maro...pramad sudharo ya phir BD house me tumaha kaam kya hai

So pls stop blaming kumud that she deliberatly wants to do it all...sure the lady decided to give up after that rape attempt ...but what did saasu maa say...its husband wife maamla !!!

as for kumud parents do u all think they have a backbone at all ...they r no less demons who left kumud at her place even when they saw how pramad treated her .

So pls stop bragging false things...

I did consider saras wrong in beginning but now i feel he is absolutly right now .He eyes r open and he can see what wrong is going on.and he at least has not decided to keep quit instead he is helping kumud .When time comes he will not falter from telling truth that he was is and will be here to help Kumud as her own parents have in laws have decided to kill her alive by letting her face such domestic violence.

I just want saras to reveal his truth himself to BD about himself rather then give that pramad and kalika a chance to misuse it and bring it in negative manner
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Posted: 12 years ago
As far as I'v known , I've watched and as well analysed BD to some extent , she is the MOST SENSIBLE women or to be specific the MOST SENSIBLE character on SC sets..

Initially , when she first heard of SC's marriage proposal , she bcoz of her anger on LN , she told VC to reject it..! But later what did she do..? And suddenly when SC arrived at RN.. She was a bit annoyed but later realised that he was still the son of Saraswati.. and not Ghumaan... Later , She was the only person to know the pecuilar character of SC and even the reason behind it and tried to keep all those things away form him.. and not to remind him anything. She was the only person who told Kumud to to take chances and try to mend SC's character.She was the first person to know the Love blossming btw SaMud and encouraged it too. And later she was the only person along with Kumud who had faith in SC for the second chance he got.. I agree that in some of RN scenes she definitely showed some insensibility along with whole VC family except for Kumud.. That's a diff case and that was very rare too..!

And , when SC broke her faith on him , she couldn't resist and started thinking of SC to be a Traitor like his father.. Coz she , right frm the beginning had suported that poor guy and now she recieved nothing but pain.. Hence she behaved in such a way , at the very moment on seeing him.. Though it was not perfectly sensible.. only sensible to some extent.. I say.!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Good points there about DB...yes she was right to say that them hiding the truth about Saras can cost them both dearly.
BD treats Saras like his own son..trusts him blindly and he will surely get hurt and be angry to find out that he is there living with them under a false identity. That sure at the time will feel like he has been backstabbed and Kumud will not come away from it any less guilty.
I def agree that DB is so right about this. Society will not see it as oh its a pavitra rishta and so its fine. All they will see is that a married woman is living under the same roof as her ex boyfriend. All fingers will get pointed and Kumud and Saras!
Perhaps this will be the next turning point of the story! Kumud for sure then will get kicked out.
However, the suicide bit on DBs part was too OTT and not required. Also, yes Kumud is everything to DB but I wouldve preferred all this coming from Kumud's mum...DB should be the one to tell Kumud to get out of this relation and not put up with it...but her mum shudve been the one to say abt Saras.

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