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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: pari87

Lovely post by the topic maker, as well as all the comments on this thread.


I agree with all that you have said.

Once before, when Saras was out to do prayashchit by helping Ila ben during the Yash fiasco, I felt that he needed this to feel like he suffered for causing pain to Kumud and her family by rejecting her. They never showed such, but his constant relying on saying he is doing prayashchit for his wrong doings, made me feel so.

As for Kumud, she is suffering this because, she finds suffering at the hands of Pramad as a way to forget her suffering for Saras. This torture hides her deep mental wound, and hence she lets it. She prefers this torture from her husband, instead of him being a decent guy because she knows it would not be easy for her to accept a loving husband, after so much pain caused by the man she loves so much. It would have been agonizing to give in to a good husband;s advances and to try and love him back. This suffering is easier for her than to fight the feelings for Saras.

Today, he sees himself in a worse position having caused this horrible fate to Kumud. He is once again doing prayashchit not for his mental peace this time, but to help Kumud rise out of this. Their love does not need physical manifestation, it is just this deep rooted understanding of each other's pain and the absolute love for each other that they cannot bear the thought of the other in misery. They are always only trying to help the other one rise from their fate. Once before Kumud had helped him fight his loneliness and opened him up to life and love. This time he has shut her to life and love and he will open those gates for her again.

Her dialogue to him today was about his failure to maintain a relationship, and her dialogues since the beginning have always been about she believes in nibhao-ing any relationship in her life. It is because of this contradiction between them that they are in this place today. And this is also the reason Saras, realizes that Kumud is not one to break this marriage to put it in danger simply because she willingly stepped into it herself. He knows she will do everything in fact to make it work, even if it will take a long time through physical and mental torture. He accepts that and that is why now his mission will be to help her make this relationship work, instead of pushing her to break it. He knows that this is what is important to her.

It is going to be a beautiful track because it will show Saras helping change Pramad, only for Kumud's sake. They both will unite in making her marriage work with pramad. Isn't it such a beautiful irony? It is also going to deal with a lot of anguish from both sides as he will have to bear seeing her with her husband and she will have to bear being with her husband with Saras always around. The pain in this is unfathomable.

Saarthi is exactly the word for such a relationship. They have something that is so difficult to find anywhere, but is impossible to keep. Such is the tragedy of their love.



u spoke so well and so very logical...but i disagree with u when it comes to physical menifestations of love...they r important as touch is something that effects u first...soul connections...soul mate...platonic love...pure love ...all is well but it all starts from phisicality ...that is the first step to love...

may be now saras kumud love is now mature enough to be above physicality as they have come way too far on their way to love...or may be not ...who knows...its all on cvs how they twist the things

Pari may be u will have to see something unacceptable as pms in future too...something which u may find illicit😆...why coz right from beginning cvs have shown saras kumud crossing limits of society when it came to each other welfare and love ...they may keep it suppressed but they too will have limits 😉

...it will be intresting to see how much they control and how much they fail...as neither Saras nor Kumud are perfect and their love is like an atom bomb 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
#42
great post shana!
kumud is being ridicioulst annoying now!
we get it he left u stranded!
but hello that guy has suffered all his life and is till now
stop being oblivious!
he needs love! not more hatred! he already has so much hatred!
even more then he can carry!
Saras has clearly shown and told her that it will be hard for him to just come out of his past in a blink of an eye!
give the guy some damn space!
everytime i start to feel sorrow for kumud she ruins with her
rude behavior with saras!
she knows that his past is really traumatic!
i mean maybe is she put herself in his place and think about her father or mother committing suicide!
then she might maybe understand saras pain!
yes he was coming back! but he was also put back to square one
when he discovered that his step mom the women he has been touching her feet for aishirwad! has been the reason behind his mothers death!
just imagine what he felt!
we cant cause the pain to big!
yes fine kumud is unaware of all this but give the guy a chance to explain hes trying to tell her but she wont listen!
man this is all so frustrating but so exciting to watch!
oh jeez sorry for such a long comment totally didnt realize!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: shana0127


u spoke so well and so very logical...but i disagree with u when it comes to physical menifestations of love...they r important as touch is something that effects u first...soul connections...soul mate...platonic love...pure love ...all is well but it all starts from phisicality ...that is the first step to love...

may be now saras kumud love is now mature enough to be above physicality as they have come way too far on their way to love...or may be not ...who knows...its all on cvs how they twist the things

Pari may be u will have to see something unacceptable as pms in future too...something which u may find illicit😆...why coz right from beginning cvs have shown saras kumud crossing limits of society when it came to each other welfare and love ...they may keep it suppressed but they too will have limits 😉

...it will be intresting to see how much they control and how much they fail...as neither Saras nor Kumud are perfect and their love is like an atom bomb 😳


Shana,

If you look at it one way, the phase of their "falling in love" had the necessary physicality. Right now, it has risen above that because they are simply bound by a love that can go nowhere. She is somebody's wife. They will show a lot of scenes, that symbolize love, like his breaking the glass looking at Pramad, her standing up for him in front of PRamad and they will long for each other behind closed doors with tears and a wall between them. But I wonder if they will show anything illicit until Pramad is thrown out or dies.

Although I must agree, that in the show, they have shown Kumud atleast to always stretch her boundaries. Like staying out late in the night with him making pots, or roaming with him through the village ( all of this I have nothing against, but in the backdrop of a rural gujarati village these things are considered crossing boundaries for a single girl) so I think it won't be too long before the feelings between them re-surface through this marriage. I am sure they will. but whether or not they show physical romance is yet to be seen.

Agree with the time bomb thing!😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: shana0127



@bold well their is a big secret behind that...let me share it on this public forum 😆...my parents always fought like cat and mouse but then they always ended up smiling at each other the other very next day😲...

...so this made me really very positive. child 😃...due to which when i see pe;ple fighting like india pakistan ...i still feel they will end up loving 🤣

now as for show...yaar me hopeful very logically...do see the show from episodes one and u will be hopeful too ...why coz from episode 1 they showed the separation of saras kumud but these two always ended up together ..be it fighting ...arguing...loving ...or hating 😆

cvs have wasted full one month in making saras kumud husband and wife ...by having ...all marriage rituals ..indirectly ...and bringing karva chauth ka chaand out of blue 😲...plus pre merital sex and ...long trail of promices...which were infacte if u count...more then marriage ke saat vachan...

so now our saras and kumud will fulfill all promises...INDIRECTLY ...well why ...coz this show is unique ...indirect marriage and so indirect promise fulfillment...quit logical u see ...

now u tell ...hai na sub kuch hopeful😃


dont worry have my prediction pill my child ...next week end tak u will have one very deep saras kumud trade mark scene...lagi shart 😆

i have no doubt they will end up together at the end of 2000 episodes.. but tab tak, how does one tolerate this torture is my biggest worry... 😕
i can continue breathing on the depth of storyline, impactful execution, strong characters... blah blah blah.. only till a certain limit. after that, i cannot risk putting myself through this stress. i need my samud and their moments.
okay for now, i will live by ur bold pill.🤔 but will come back to you when i feel helpless again...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: pari87

I found this in about the show and it is so aptly put about the story hence forth.


"Eventually Kumud gets married to someone else while Saras, out of unconditional love, decides to take care of her family and fulfil duties as the man in her life".

Love the line that he will fulfill the duties as the man in her life. He is truly going to take the place of Pramad, being the son to BD, and a husband to Kumud. He is going to take care of her and look after her the way Pramad should.

I am actually looking forward to this track.



thanks for clearifying the meaning for those lines...as i aalways understood something horrible and thought saras will end up at ratnagiri taking care of her parents...but never thought of line ...he will be man in her life😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: shana0127



chappy dont grieve for saras...that idiot ruined his life ...look what he has done to himself ...now he need to do repentance ...and soon God will listen to him and call prammy in heaven to do aaja nach le with his own menkas and apsaras ...and our saras will at last get kummu to enjoy and do dard e disco ...though i again he will have to fight long battale before he actually gets kummu ...😃



@bold
😳 i will return that with interest 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: nabiii

Indeed ur post is nice than show b/c i have huge complain on present track..what the hell is actually gonna in show?

In same place show is rotating..kumud is showing her epic egoistic attitude n saras is searching" kaisae paap mochan karae"..ye chal ra hai kuch din taak..then now kumud starts to show apni panti dharm nivana keeping hidden all faults of her gunabaan patidevta..t

hough now saras's character has been changed by giving back his determine attitude by hook or by crook he wl rescue kumud frm her barbarous hubby..but kumud is showing asusual nuisance attitude.

.don't tell me anything on defence on kumud..i mn't adjusting with her role now..enough is enough of her so called ego..either she wl get out saras frm her in laws home or she wl clarify all her doubts being confrontation saras..

.i m fed up with her rona dhona n confused soul..hence, i again decide,i wl skip few epis frm now n come back when i wl get any spicy twist in story line.



well dear nabi just be a understandable soul like saras for time being and give kumud space and time...that .poor thing is in pitiful condition...a girl seemes to have lost all hope for life and all she is sticking too is the hellish reationships she has deliberatly landed into.

saras wants to help her out to regain her senses and start living again rather then keep blaming him and her luck for the soup she has landed into

we all know kumud loves saras and so she is using the pain she has to hate saras and keep away from him coz if she really knows his truth( which she actually somehow knows but is not ready to accept yet ), do u think she will be able to do justice with her marriage...NO all she will do is keep pining for Saras and may one day end up doing something like pms 😳...well dont u know saras is her biggest weakness and she looses it all when he is around 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48
Love ur post Shana!!
Well I am just waiting when Saras will rangofy that kora chunri he left with Kumud when he went away. Today he gave her sindoor!! Meaning? He will help her in saving her marriage??
Well if it is the case all I know watever these two do, they end up getting closer n together. He will support her selflessly n like he has promised looking at the moon!! He will get back her trust n... Love(?)
Epi was not too good for me to b honest. I loved the precap more!!
Once again I love ur deep analysis!!
Take care

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Posted: 12 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-



chappy dont grieve for saras...that idiot ruined his life ...look what he has done to himself ...now he need to do repentance ...and soon God will listen to him and call prammy in heaven to do aaja nach le with his own menkas and apsaras ...and our saras will at last get kummu to enjoy and do dard e disco ...though i again he will have to fight long battale before he actually gets kummu ...😃

@bold
😳 i will return that with interest 😃



so u came at last as soon as ur saras got to be called fool and me shana dared to call him idiot...well tony u have to bear it...my kummu is kamini and ur saras is an idiot...and yes do return me with intrest ...me love u and ur unique ways of pay back 😃

btw ans. my pm...me very much like Saras... once u ignore ...aagey chance nahi doongi 😭
Edited by shana0127 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Love ur post Shana!!
Well I am just waiting when Saras will rangofy that kora chunri he left with Kumud when he went away. Today he gave her sindoor!! Meaning? He will help her in saving her marriage??
Well if it is the case all I know watever these two do, they end up getting closer n together. He will support her selflessly n like he has promised looking at the moon!! He will get back her trust n... Love(?)
Epi was not too good for me to b honest. I loved the precap more!!
Once again I love ur deep analysis!!
Take care



love u omi at least u r a frind that does not give me heart attacks...even though sometimes we differ...but look at our loved tony she just sometimes frightens me to hell 😭

yes me too waiting for the day when saras will colour that white chunni...and put colours in her life...till then we have to bear his selfless repentance 😕

but one thing omi...saras does not need to win back love coz its all their for him...kumud can never stop loving saras !!...all he needs to win is the confidence which has surely lost

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