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Posted: 12 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-


ur PS <--- thats the most funniest thing i have seen today .. its about Saras not GR ..so stop saying i m his fan so i have to like everything he does ...r jo bhi u meant 😕

coming back to ur '' dukhi kumud '' post ...

Action ...and taking responsibility ..hunnn ..did u watch the epi he said bcz he did not trust himself he wanted the best for her but what kumi did ...did not trust him...u see the diff ...she failed not saras ..

and did saras told her to marry some faceless rich dude in 12 hours!!! and she keeps blaming him for breaking her heart ..what the hell yaar .. first time he refused to marry some faceless woman its not his fault that she was in love with some eyes ..OMG look she is so nice women .. falls for everyone 🤢

then vc and all ..WHAT KIND OF IDIOT father does that !!!he is none of my bushiness so lets forget him ...

kumud is married and being abused ITS HER FAULT (i m not shouting just making it clear ..sorry if its seems like it ... i m not just fan of gr i m fan of saras too and i think KUMI IS THE VILLAIN IN THIS STORY )

u know who is suffering here saras ... not ur kumi ..he is burning in hell ...kumi is enjoying him suffering and taking pleasure of it ..dont u think thats cruel !!!

remember some dude looked at her and how saras reacted .. and now everyday that lady closes her door on his face with her pati inside .. can u imagine how much that hurts .. i was all okey kumi is okey when i thought that she does not want saras to leave .. but then i thought why does not she ..cox she is loving him like this .. broken and devastated .. she is more heartless monster then any shitty villain i know ..

he had his reason for that 20 min chage of heart ..what is kumi's reason for that 12 hour !!! every single person wanted to call and talk to him who stoped them ur kumi .. okey self respect...when something like that happens buddy u try to find out the real reason and attack the person who did that to u ..and ur kumi did the same ,,,she is hurting and making saras suffer and u know what is her strategy ... find the weak spot and start form there ..

do u honestly think saras would have does the same thing if she was in his place ... show her hell !!!

pyaar ki kumi ne...what a joke 🤣 .. u dont hurt ur love INTENTIONALLY ...saras may be hurt her but that was not intentional .. but ur kumi .. so dude HE DID NOT FAILED HER SHE DID ..

i m not making any topic and commenting to any posts .. cox everyone is thinking '' i m woman i have to think like one and support a lachar woman ''

stupid forum sucks 😡
so u want to know who failed them its kumi ... mar ja yah maar de but saadi kyun!!!

and @tm ji sorry but i dislike n disagree with ur post 😊

MY PS : WHAT EVER I SAID UP THERE IT HAS NOTHING DO WITH JEN ..I M SURE U GUYS AGREE that SHE (JEN) IS NOT ARROGANT AND SELFISH LIKE KUMI , who ONLY CLAIMS TO LOVE someone .



Toni, hmmm ... you serious about this? or is it for a laugh? Tomato face and all! To quote you, "stupid forum sucks" ??!! 😕

I am (mostly) on Saras' side... but I can also see things from Kumud's side... Why not?

Most people (and characters) are neither black nor white, but various shades of grey!

Here Saras and Kumud are (in my opinion) both grey, surely each of us can have our own opinions about the shade of grey without being a) stupid or b) insensitive c) unlikeable...😃

Btw, imho, black and white is boring and without nuances, unsympathetic and unrealistic! **runs for cover**😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Adiani

Kumud and Pramad marrige started at same ground level, A complete disregard to the other person, while deciding to marry. ...


Adiani, me too, waiting to see Saras' character how it develops from this point, and also Kumud's...

Never thought this track with both separated could possibly be so riveting!

re: Pramad and Kumud,
they are also similar in the way they channel their reaction to abuse from one person (BD in the case of Pramad, Pramad in the case of Kumud) into rage against another "available" target (Kumud and Saras, respectively)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43
I have a different take. Both are to be blamed.
All blame cannot go to saras alone like kumud did. Kumud is educated and from rich family. She can easily say no to pramad and no one will force her. VC indeed wanted to call off marriage last min too but Kumud insisted.
Saras did two faults one spend a night with her(which he never did in novel) and not call and inform desai family he has changed his mind and coming to wedding(this sunny also could have done)
Kumud also did two faults one spend night with saras and second to jump into a new marriage after saras rejected her immediately without verifying antecedent of the groom and his family. Maybe Kumud was scared what if she got pregnant and hence jumped into marriage. But still one night you decide to marry next day an unknown stranger in 21st century is unbelievable for an educated gitl like Kumud.
I agree Kumud should not blame saras for marrying pramad. You are not a child that saras has responsibility to take care. Kumud is a mature woman standing on her two feet. So Kumud should not target saras because her decision went wrong.
Regarding pyar nibhana saras has done a lot for kumud and her family in gau hatya track, going to jail, standing by her against mom ghuman, saving kumari from marriage etc etc so pyar nibhaya hai. The actual culprit is umesh who never allowed him to enter VC haveli to wed kumud.
Edited by myviewprem - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: hunnybunch

Now, here I have a question!

Kumud decided to get married in her own free will, Saras called off the marriage under mental pressure. If she wished she could have stayed without getting married to prammy, so why the heck she could blame Saras for what happened to her life was only because of Saras? Out pain he decided, but she decided out of anger!


Not anger, dear, out of regard for what the family will have to go through if the rishta breaks, in small villages till today it is a matter of shame and humiliation if a girls rishta breaks and families have to put with a lot of social disgrace, for the same.

So she too had the mental pressure, which was high, very high . And to refuse then would her been to put her family through immense pain and trauma. That was her pressure
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Posted: 12 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: Infofan

Is this your first independent post Adiani? Lovely post. Rishte nibhana - the ability to and fear of was always the issue with Saras wasnt it? He was not completely 'cured/reformed' for lack of a better word in my jet-lagged brain currently😳, after the dog and the bone game incident. A lifetime of damage can not be reversed or undone so quickly. Its his turn now to be there for Kumud.

Yes, looking forward to the journey of his growth as a man.


Thanks Arshi dear for encouraging folks to make separate posts. Insightful, brilliant posts such as these need to be independent ones.

Brickbats to LN ... I made a post long back on LN being the root cause of Samud problems. He also one of the main reasons Saras is the way he is...

Question - why the disclaimer? Has this forum also turned into a blind fan zone where people can not distinguish between onscreen character and the actor portraying it? That would be so sad.


Thanks Nandy, that is the issue Adiani is trying to explore here, whether Saras is able to stay put inspite of everything, and his growth in that area

The post was not about whose fault, but at their different perspectives

It was not supposed to be what it became a Saras vs Kumud fight !

And second you on the disclaimer!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: happychappy


Toni, hmmm ... you serious about this? or is it for a laugh? Tomato face and all! To quote you, "stupid forum sucks" ??!! 😕

I am (mostly) on Saras' side... but I can also see things from Kumud's side... Why not?

Most people (and characters) are neither black nor white, but various shades of grey!

Here Saras and Kumud are (in my opinion) both grey, surely each of us can have our own opinions about the shade of grey without being a) stupid or b) insensitive c) unlikeable...😃

Btw, imho, black and white is boring and without nuances, unsympathetic and unrealistic! **runs for cover**😆




::::::::SIGH::::::::: 😒 (god i was right ''stupid boring forum sucks'' ...)
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: arshicritic


The post was not about whose fault, but at their different perspectives

It was not supposed to be what it became a Saras vs Kumud fight !



😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-


::::::::SIGH::::::::: 😒 (god i was right ''stupid boring forum sucks'' ...)




stupid, boring...

just because people have different opinions?!

really?

😆


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Posted: 12 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: happychappy




stupid, boring...

just because people have different opinions?!

really?

😆




nope people dont hv diff opinion here they all hv the same opinion ...and they always takes the easy way out ...chose dare sometimes buddy its more fun ... 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-



nope people dont hv diff opinion here they all hv the same opinion ...and they always takes the easy way out ...chose dare sometimes buddy its more fun ... 😊


dont understand dare? my opinion is based on my perception. its not about same or different .

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