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Mrs.Toni Rode Vyas

@-B.N.K-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: happychappy

dont understand dare? my opinion is based on my perception. its not about same or different .

okey .. i never said i dont understand kumi and dont blame saras ... yeap they both r 50 shades of grey .. and its complicated ..

i hv already talked about what i feel and all ... so everyone knows what i think ...and according to arshi its not about saras vs kumud ... i will not defend saras ..

i want to know what do u feel about ''saras needs to take his responsibility '' can u please explain what responsibility and why !!! please ...then i will start my ram gatha 😆

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happychappy

@happychappy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-

okey .. i never said i dont understand kumi and dont blame saras ... yeap they both r 50 shades of grey .. and its complicated ..

i hv already talked about what i feel and all ... so everyone knows what i think ...and according to arshi its not about saras vs kumud ... i will not defend saras ..

i want to know what do u feel about ''saras needs to take his responsibility '' can u please explain what responsibility and why !!! please ...then i will start my ram gatha 😆

That's all?!!

I am not into reacting to every single phrase of everyone else's post, There is no need to. My view doesnt become invalid if I dont agree with every turn of phrase used by others.

"Saras needs to take resp..." is just TM's way of phrasing her view on Saras' manodasha...he's hell bent, yearning for K to accept his apology etc... It's not casting Saras as irresponsible, but simply saying he has a lot to be responsible for, imho. Accepting that shades of grey exist includes accepting people can use words like that without alarm bells (and battle-cries) going off in your head. 😊

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Mrs.Toni Rode Vyas

@-B.N.K-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: happychappy

That's all?!!

I am not into reacting to every single phrase of everyone else's post, There is no need to. My view doesnt become invalid if I dont agree with every turn of phrase used by others.

"Saras needs to take resp..." is just TM's way of phrasing her view on Saras' manodasha...he's hell bent, yearning for K to accept his apology etc... It's not casting Saras as irresponsible, but simply saying he has a lot to be responsible for, imho. Accepting that shades of grey exist includes accepting people can use words like that without alarm bells (and battle-cries) going off in your head. 😊

that is the reason i dont do discussion and think they r boring ...if u think what she thinks means nothing and that does not hv any effect on u then why do u do that (discussion) !!!everybody thinks differently and has their own style of talking ..

and i dont understand all the grey ...blue green ..all i know yes and no ..why and how ...math student hoon na😊 ..2+2 is always 4 or me ..

and about reacting like that .. i dont know ..i guess im like saras .. emotional fool and dont have a brain
i just felt that here( in the forum) people only blaming saras for no reason and cursing the hell out of him ..i was just stating my points and i think meri baat karne ki style me gadbar hai

Edited by -B.N.K- - 12 years ago

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happychappy

@happychappy

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-

that is the reason i dont do discussion and think they r boring ...if u think what she thinks means nothing and that does not hv any effect on u then why do u do that (discussion) !!!everybody thinks differently and has their own style of talking ..

and i dont understand all the grey ...blue green ..all i know yes and no ..why and how ...math student hoon na😊 ..2+2 is always 4 or me ..

and about reacting like that .. i dont know ..i guess im like saras .. emotional fool and dont have a brain
i just felt that here( in the forum) people only blaming saras for no reason and cursing the hell out of him ..i was just stating my points and i think meri baat karne ki style me gadbar hai

@red, no i dont think that at all. i find it interesting to read different peoples pov, even if i dont agree with every single word of her post. or sometimes not even one single word. 😊 Somebody having a different view does not make my view invalid.

About your feeling that all in the forum are supporting Kumud and that they are biased because of abala naari stuff - i havent felt that way about the forum at all. I am mostly on Saras' side but that just me. That doesnt mean I dont weep for Kumud, I do.😭 It has been refreshing to see so many people with different takes on that, and people even change sides every other day, that's cool as well...😊

Btw, you may be emotional, but you're nobody's fool so dont try pulling that one on me! 😆

Math is math, but life is "NOT math".

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Mrs.Toni Rode Vyas

@-B.N.K-

Inactive

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: happychappy

@red, no i dont think that at all. i find it interesting to read different peoples pov, even if i dont agree with every single word of her post. or sometimes not even one single word. 😊 Somebody having a different view does not make my view invalid.

About your feeling that all in the forum are supporting Kumud and that they are biased because of abala naari stuff - i havent felt that way about the forum at all. I am mostly on Saras' side but that just me. That doesnt mean I dont weep for Kumud, I do.😭 It has been refreshing to see so many people with different takes on that, and people even change sides every other day, that's cool as well...😊

Btw, you may be emotional, but you're nobody's fool so dont try pulling that one on me! 😆
Math is math, but life is "NOT math".

u r not the first person telling me this ...log intensive writing ki class karte hai mujhe intensive listening karne ko bola tha ...so i dont enjoy what people say . i feel like '' if i can understand that then why cant u ''
weep for kumi ..i felt bad when prammy almost slapped her..but then she walked to the door and said the most nasty dialogue someone can say , '' i want to spend time with my paati '' i was like i get it u r frustrated and u need to get that out but why iss bechara .. then maine kaha chalo thik hai ..naya jaga hai she only knows him so okey then i become saras again and start to think '' muj mare hue ko kyun martee hoon yaar ''

kumi knows if prammy does something to her she can always go back to her dad and have a world but yaar saras ki bas ak hi hai oh kamini kumi .. 😭😭😭 i start weeping for him .. u know that rain epi when he was slapping himself dude i almost fainted .. i guess i have more mirror neuron then normal people😕 .. kumud arrogance is not letting me connect with her .. so all the connection i have is with saras ..and people is blaming her yaar .. no one is defending him .. kya karoo main 😭😭😭

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..Zainab..

@..Zainab..

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

#56

I honestly think Saras is not wrong!

He's the one who's in a emotional pain that is so difficult to come out of!

Plus even if begins trying he can't because one thing or another brings him back to square one!

Yes agreed its it kumuds fault either but don't u thing if

Kumud was in Saras place she would have done the same especially because she loves her parents unconditionally!

Man kumud is so strong nd all because of her family's support

In other words she is the most "laadli" daughter in her family

On the other side Saras is completely the opposit he literally got nothing!

To from his father or his step mom he lived his life with all those 4 or 5 years of love nd memory his mother had given him before

Leaving him in a harmful world!

Ma he's broken very single inch of him is

Agreed kumud did everything to bring him back but he

Was brought back to square one when he found out the

Real reason behind his mothers suicide

All those years that he has been touching those woman's feet has been the reason behind his mothers death!

Nd PMS man that was his love his way of expressing it! If kumud gave up her virginity so did Saras

If she gave the most valuable thing from her so did Saras!

Also understand he was just learning how to love nd he wasn't the best person in showing it! He did what he thought was the best way!

Give himetime to come back nd out of traumatic past!

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happychappy

@happychappy

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: -B.N.K-

u r not the first person telling me this ...log intensive writing ki class karte hai mujhe intensive listening karne ko bola tha ...so i dont enjoy what people @say . i feel like '' if i can understand that then why cant u ''
weep for kumi ..i felt bad when prammy almost slapped her..but then she walked to the door and said the most nasty dialogue someone can say , '' i want to spend time with my paati '' i was like i get it u r frustrated and u need to get that out but why iss bechara .. then maine kaha chalo thik hai ..naya jaga hai she only knows him so okey then i become saras again and start to think '' muj mare hue ko kyun martee hoon yaar ''

kumi knows if prammy does something to her she can always go back to her dad and have a world but yaar saras ki bas ak hi hai oh kamini kumi .. 😭😭😭 i start weeping for him .. u know that rain epi when he was slapping himself dude i almost fainted .. i guess i have more mirror neuron then normal people😕 .. kumud arrogance is not letting me connect with her .. so all the connection i have is with saras ..and people is blaming her yaar .. no one is defending him .. kya karoo main 😭😭😭

@blue 😊

My flow chart for choosing a real-life friend, (or even a spouse 😃)

- Is he/she Similar enough?

(values, ethics, intelligence,reading habits! ...)

- is he/she Different enough?

(who wants to die of boredom??😆 what's the mazaa in life if there are no differences of style/ opinion/ attitude?!!!!)

People who strike a chord with us, are simultaneously both similar enough and different enough.

Cheers! 🥳

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KK84

@KK84

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

While on the whole I feel for Saras a lot more...I think in one of the CB posts it was written that perhaps its down to acting as well...Kumud's attitude towards Saras is cold and that in every episode does get irritating whereas Saras is all puppy eyes and sad and you really feel for the dude! its the expressions which Guatam totally does utmost justice to!

Anyway...fact is both are hurting but both have different ways of dealing with it.

End of day love and hate are like two sides of a coin. both have to exist!

Kumud is angry because she feels that Saras rejected her love...to a certain extent she doesnt even want to know why because perhaps deep down she feels that if she does, she will feel even more trapped...end of day...its easy for us to say take a divorce and walk out but fact is...even today, its not that simple.

You always want to give your marriage a second chance..no matter what...and she cant simply be like ok I realised the love of my life made a mistake so here Pramaad sign this and I will go. Thats not her personality.

She has always thought of others...she would be thinking of her in laws who are nice people and of her parents...they would forever blame themselves for getting her married to someone who isnt right...and is it just that easy to then go back and marry someone else...society does play a big part in our lives..whether we like it or not...all this would take time to accept and make society accept...it wouldnt be overnight...

anyway..getting side tracked here...my point is that Kumud is angry at Saras cos at the same time she loves him and the frustration that she cant be with him..she vents out on Saras.

Saras on the other hand...well, had he not made that phonecall, she wouldnt have decided in haste...he doesnt even blame her for making such a decision and yes he cant expect forgiveness from her but he has every right to be heard...she cant just dispose of him like he meant nothing.

If he wants, he can walk away now. He does know his boundaries now but all he wants is that she hears him out. thats not a lot to ask for. he doesnt deserve to be treated like a Dog and he made only one mistake.

Rejecting someone's marriage proposal is hardly a mistake! c'mon aam zindagi mein, you get a rishta and you dont like the person and you say no...they cant hold it against you for life and vice versa.

so he made one mistake...but on the contrary she made a mistake of rushing into a marriage...if she hears him out, she will understand that she has made a mistake too...so yes, here its her ego thats in the way!

Her hatred isnt therefore fully justified.

Kat.