Originally posted by: happychappy
Leena, I know where you're coming from...
First, I have sad this before in other posts where people were bashing up Saras:
The man who came to see Kumud on Karva Chauth night was not the same person that spoke to her on that phone call!
Yet, she didnt seem to notice. It was (almost) like she spoke to an impostor and took his word that Saras wanted him to forget her! Unforgivable. Did she ever love him at all if she couldnt figure out the guy was s.u.f.f.e.r.i.n.g?
Second, now come over to Kumud's side, she is a bride waiting for the love of her life to come and take her away and she gets this phone call. She panics because somewhere at the back of her mind, she's stored away the first impression she had of him as a person who "runs away"...See the power of first impressions! 😭In her moment of panic, she fears the worst and thinks he's gone back to being the old Saras and ratted on her. Thus she decides to have nothing more to do with him. Period!
Now why the new, reformed version of Saras who loves her till the ends of the world doesnt have as strong a hold on her mind, I dont know. Maybe he was only in her heart and not in her mind? So her mind was in control at the critical point after getting that lightning strike of a phone call, and she tries to behave logically giving least pain to the loved ones who are still with her, viz., her family!!
As for cheating Pramad, who is he to her? If kismet has dealt such a blow to her, wht should she bother about the niceties? What sort of guy in this day and age agrees to marry a girl he's never set eyes on, at the drop of a hat anyway? It does not look to me like he has any great stakes in the marriage at all, this Pramad guy. Couldnt care too hoots about what he's marrying, definitely cant complain later!! No tears for *him*, only for Saras and Kumud!
And always more for Saras than Kumud, for reasons too complicated to explain!😃
yes..dear...I agree with you the most part...not most...almost everything..
Frist time rejection and her reaction was fine with her and us...becoz she never knew him...but this second time..I couldn't help it but blame her.
she was so confident that she loves him, can see his fears, his insecurities, wat triggers him (his mother's memories), etc etc..
Just the previous night they met for the Karvachauth, and both of them showered promises to be with each other through thick and thin.
here comes the phone call, and Kumud claiming herself to read Saras in and out...cant she see the pain in his voice, the moment he reacted when called him as Mr. Saraswathichandra Vyas and how he has detached his father's name from his..
All kumud was going on about herself..."I this..I that...my mehendi, my joda..etc etc" couldn't see hear the pain in his voice, and sense that something is wrong and he is back to normal..
definitely overnight, he has not fallen in love with another girl so that he wants to call off the marriage...he was in pain...and he again was fearing of making new relations...
and i am not blaming kumud too...she was in shock seeing him again going back to his shells and standing at the same point where he wants to be alone...helpless Kumud..
but all i feel was...why to hurry for the marriage...
ok now comes..the family Izzat issue...? Guniyal knows the truth and how can she encourage Kumud's decision...
Pramad...as I have read spoilers..many say.he is gonna be a womanizer...who has readily agreed to the marriage without even questioning...but still does it justify Kumud hiding the truth from it ?
ok..its hard for a girl in Kumud's situation to go and talk to the groom and say "sorry..I hav slept with my ex-fiance and he dumped me and can u marry me..?" but still this hurry just to save her famil's izzat is wat irritating me...
This is pure ego...bas...😊